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Sarinna 傳寵心語, Hong Kong (2024)

07/10/2024

離世動物個案分享
Sharing of Deceased Animal Case

🐕：姐姐、姨姨，你想我叫你姨姨定姐姐呀？
🐕: Sister, auntie, do you want me to call you auntie or sister?

S：冇所謂啦。
S: It doesn't matter.

🐕：我係彩虹橋一直聽到你同爸爸媽媽對話。我知道爸爸媽媽有嘢想同我講。我都好擔心佢哋，佢哋瞓唔好、食唔好、好唔開心。屋企嘅氣氛好低迷。我想講我喺彩虹橋呢度好好，始終新加入，仲未認識到朋友。不過我相信我好快認識到。呢度陽光好好呀、好溫暖㗎。爸爸媽媽唔使擔心我，我反而好擔心佢哋。因為佢哋好唔開心。我有返過屋企探佢哋呀，嘗試食過食物、食唔到。不過好香，聞下都開心、流口水。不過叫媽媽唔好再放啲食物出嚟啦，一陣引來蟑螂，我唔想我啲食物畀蟑螂掂到。
🐕: I've been hearing your conversations with mom and dad from the Rainbow Bridge. I know they have something they want to say to me. I'm really worried about them too. They're not sleeping well, not eating well, and they're very sad. The atmosphere at home is really down. I want to tell them that I'm doing well here at the Rainbow Bridge. I'm still new here and haven't made any friends yet, but I believe I will soon. The sunlight here is really nice and warm. Mom and dad don't need to worry about me. I'm more worried about them because they're so unhappy. I've been back home to visit them and tried to eat the food they put out, but I couldn't eat it. It smelled so good though, just smelling it made me happy and drool. But tell mom not to put food out anymore, or it'll attract cockroaches. I don't want my food to be touched by cockroaches.

S: 爸爸媽媽想將你啲骨灰保留喺屋企，你有咩諗法？
S: Mom and dad want to keep your ashes at home. What do you think about that?

🐕：我唔想囉，佢地只會愈望愈唔開心。其實我已經有新任務，只不過見爸爸媽媽唔開心、擔心佢哋，所以先申請延期。我都有同彩虹伯伯講過，彩虹伯伯話我唔適合再落凡間見爸爸媽媽、拒絕左我。
🐕: I don't want that. It'll only make them sadder the more they look at it. I actually have a new mission, but seeing mom and dad so sad, I applied for a delay. I even talked to Uncle Rainbow about it, but he said it wasn't suitable for me to return to the mortal world to see mom and dad, so he denied my request.

🐕：我希望爸爸媽媽開心啲，養返隻狗狗。不過隻狗狗唔係代替我。因為新狗狗就係新狗狗。只不過我想另一隻狗狗有個溫暖嘅屋企及錫佢嘅主人，可以享受我享受過嘅愛。
🐕: I hope mom and dad can be happier and maybe get another dog. But that dog wouldn't be a replacement for me, because a new dog is just a new dog. I just want another dog to have a warm home and loving owners, to enjoy the love I experienced.

🐕：我最鍾意爸爸媽媽帶我去邊度？有爸爸媽媽嘅地方就得~
🐕: Where do I like mom and dad to take me the most? Anywhere with mom and dad is perfect~

S: 你仲有冇什麼想爸爸媽媽代你完成？
S: Is there anything else you want mom and dad to do for you?

🐕：沒有。爸爸媽媽做得已經夠多。最後一刻媽媽見我辛苦、都畀我喺屋企安詳離開。我知道佢哋好唔捨得，但好多謝嗰一刻冇選擇繼續搶救我。
🐕: No, they've done more than enough. In the end, mom saw how much I was struggling and let me peacefully pass away at home. I know it was really hard for them, but I'm so thankful they didn't choose to keep trying to save me at that moment.

🐕：我去曬太陽先啦。爸爸媽媽好好照顧自己啦。唔傾住啦。
🐕: I'm going to enjoy the sunshine now. Mom and dad, please take good care of yourselves. No more chatting for now.

22/08/2024

Cantonese version -----
😸：喂，唔好再研究我個大頭同我對眼了。有咩快講，再研究我走啦。
🙎：點解會屙尿係張床？
😸：見呀媽清潔好過癮，又生氣又唔忍心發我脾氣
🙎：你爸爸會罵你。
😸：呀媽會阻止佢，呀爸唔敢。
🙎：你會令呀媽多左野做，整污糟呀媽張床。
😸唔理我。
🙎：會唔會係仲有咩因素？例如：屎盤清潔多d，有陣味你唔鐘意入去去廁所。？
😸（敷衍）：係係係。
🙎：你好敷衍我..
😸：都話捉弄呀媽、見呀媽比既反應好好玩囉。
🙎：點解成日蝦加菲豬？
😸：佢好大反應，好好玩。尤其佢訓著時整醒，佢更加大反應，為沉悶的生活添上一點趣味。
🙎：你係咪好唔鍾意加菲豬？
😸：唔係，我好鐘意佢，好似我一件玩具。純粹佢好大反應，好好玩。
🙎：你有冇咩想同姑姐講？
😸：唔係姑姐，係呀媽。唔好將我同加菲隔開，佢好好玩。
🙎：但係加菲會痛 ..
😸：佢痛又唔係我痛，況且我已經就左力，我真正要蝦佢就唔係咁既力度。叫加菲多d同我玩。
🙎：而家擺明係你玩緊佢多過一齊玩。
😸：差唔多啫。佢比我玩同一齊玩都差唔多。都係玩。我開心就得。
🙎：你咁樣加菲好困擾。
😸：我唔覺~佢係比我玩咪冇事囉。
🙎：你都唔鐘意你訓覺時人地嘈醒你。
😸：我嘈醒人就得，人地嘈醒我就唔得。況且佢可以再訓番。反正佢都成日訓，唔悶咩，同我玩下好過啦。
🙎：邊有咁多道理..
😸：我講既就係道理~唔理合唔合理~
🙎：邊可以咁唔合理...
😸：我既世界冇合理~我個人覺得係合理就合理。

English version----

😸: Hey, stop analyzing my face and my eyes. If you have something to say, say it quickly. If you keep studying me, I'm leaving.

🙎: Why did you p*e on the bed?

😸: I saw mom cleaning up, it looked fun. She gets mad but can't bring herself to scold me.

🙎: Your dad will scold you.

😸: Mom will stop him. Dad doesn't dare.

🙎: You're making more work for mom and dirtying her bed.

😸: I don't care.

🙎: Could there be other reasons? For example, if the litter box isn't clean enough, or it smells and you don't want to use it?

😸 (dismissively): Yeah, yeah, yeah.

🙎: You're brushing me off...

😸: I told you, I'm just teasing mom. Her reactions are so entertaining.

🙎: Why do you keep bothering Garfield?

😸: He reacts so strongly, it's fun. Especially when I wake him up from a nap, his reaction is even bigger. It adds some excitement to a boring life.

🙎: Do you dislike Garfield?

😸: No, I like him a lot, like he's my toy. I just enjoy his strong reactions, it's fun.

🙎: Do you have anything you want to say to Auntie?

😸: It's not Auntie, it's mom. Don't separate me from Garfield, he's so fun to play with.

🙎: But Garfield feels pain...

😸: It's not my pain, plus I'm already holding back. If I really wanted to bully him, I'd use more force. Tell Garfield to play with me more.

🙎: It's obvious you're playing with him more than playing together.

😸: It's about the same. Whether I'm playing with him or we're playing together, it's still play. As long as I'm happy, that's all that matters.

🙎: You're really stressing Garfield out.

😸: I don't feel that way~ As long as I’m playing with him, there's no problem.

🙎: You don't like it when someone wakes you up from your sleep.

😸: It's fine if I wake others up, but they can't wake me up. Besides, he can just go back to sleep. He sleeps all the time anyway; isn't that boring? Playing with me is better.

🙎: That's not fair...

😸: What I say is fair, whether it's reasonable or not.

🙎: You can't just be unreasonable...

😸: In my world, there's no such thing as unreasonable. If I think it's reasonable, then it is.

20/08/2024

🧑‍🦰：加菲，你好，我係Sarinna,係你媽媽叫我同你傾偈架。
Garfield, hello, I’m Sarinna. Your mom asked me to chat with you.
😸：嗯，你好，你講丫。
Hmm, hello, go ahead.

🧑‍🦰：你住得開心嗎？
Are you happy living here?
😸：開心呀，又食又訓，享受貓生。與其話係呢間屋住得開心，不如話跟住佢就開心。
Yes, I’m happy. I eat, sleep, and enjoy my life as a cat. It’s not so much about being happy in this house as it is about being happy with her.

🧑‍🦰：你鐘意食d咩呀？
What do you like to eat?
😸：有冇咩選擇？
Do I have any options?
🧑‍🦰：嗯，你媽媽冇講，淨係想知道下。
Hmm, your mom didn’t specify, just wanted to know
😸：嗯...我好少食零食...好味就得...可以咩都試下..反正佢又唔會毒死我~
Hmm... I rarely eat snacks... as long as it tastes good, I’m willing to try anything. After all, she wouldn’t poison me~

🧑‍🦰：多米好似成日蝦你？
It seems like Tommy often teases you?
😸：都係玩啫，佢真係蝦我就唔係咁啦。不過佢有少少大力，所以我咪避開佢。
It’s all in good fun. If he were really bothering me, it wouldn’t be like this. But he’s a bit rough, so I avoid him.

🧑‍🦰：多謝你同我傾計。
Thanks for chatting with me.
😸：唔好客氣。
You’re welcome.

19/08/2024

🧑‍🦰：珍妮，你好，我係Sarinna ，你媽媽想了解下你在床上大便的原因何在？
Jenny, hello, I'm Sarinna. Your mom wants to understand why you've been p**ping on the bed.

😸：哦~你叫媽媽幫我放多幾個屎盤；即係小便一個、大便一個；分開呀；我一隻貓要用兩個。媽媽喺床上放防水氈係冇用㗎，叫佢清潔多啲便盤好過啦。別只剷走啲貓砂。小便完之後再踩同入一個盤，我覺得手腳黐立立、好污糟、唔舒服；我就唔想踩入去再去廁所。
Oh~ tell mom to set up more litter boxes for me; one for p*e, one for p**p; keep them separate. I need two. There's no use putting waterproof mats on the bed; it's better if she just cleans the litter boxes more often. Don't just scoop out the used litter. After p*eing and stepping into a dirty box, I feel sticky and dirty; it's uncomfortable, and I don't want to step back in to use the bathroom.

🧑‍🦰：咁即係根據你要求做咗之後，就唔會係床上大便？
So, if your mom does what you ask, you won't p**p on the bed anymore?

😸：做咗先講啦，睇我心情啦。
Do it first, then we'll see. It depends on my mood.

🧑‍🦰：🤦🫣😓🙄🙎

🧑‍🦰：咁你有冇咩想同媽媽講？
Is there anything you'd like to say to your mom?
😸：無呀。
No, nothing.

26/05/2024

😾：呢幅好好多，咁先係呀嘛，頭先個幅亂咁影，學下影相啦你。
寵主：係你唔畀我影咋嘛😤。
😾：唔識影就唔識影啦你。賴我。廢話少講。搵我做咩。（呢句問傳心師。）

😼：嗱，唔好嘥時間講開場白，嗰啲咩阿媽叫我嚟搵你傾計。我冇興趣知你係乜水。
😼：唉，我啲毛好稀疏。叫阿媽幫我梳返好。點解一邊隻手仔抽緊血紅色、一邊冇㗎。幫我遮下達血呀。隻牙批咗出嚟唔靚囉。
👱：你仲有咩投訴一次過講曬，等你發揮完先。
😼：冇啦，你開始啦。
😼：我呢幾年過得好開心，唔好問埋啲無聊問題。有咩順其自然呀。我已經好唔鍾意食藥抽血打針，仲話帶我去醫生到打支針（安樂死）。我就情願順其自然呀。仲有，唔好講咩對唔住。我病左冇人想，唔通佢（寵主）想咩。佢已經照顧得我好好，唔好講咩煽情嘢，又自責又剩。
👱：我都未開口...你講曬我想問嘅嘢....
😼：使乜等你開口啫，你諗咩個下我已經知啦。
👱：你鍾意同佢哋（邊隻貓）玩多啲。
😼：下，我同隻隻都玩得埋㗎喎。我哋一齊玩㗎喎。佢哋隻隻都好玩、好好整蠱㗎。我冇話鍾意同邊隻玩多啲。反正我隻隻都玩得埋。如果真係要揀，烏龍或者雞粉囉。
👱：你好敷衍....
😼：又係你要我揀嘅。咁咪求其揀囉。反正我隻隻都玩得埋。冇嘢問吖嘛。係咁先，拜拜。
（消失左😑）

寵主：所以佢想返屋企，唔想留係個到啦？
😼：你哋兩個究竟係聽唔明定撞聾？！係呀。邊個鍾意困喺咁細嘅地方，日日又抽血又剩，呢度又冷冰冰。屋企喺我地頭，溫暖好多。問到咁，咁你即係幾時嚟接我返屋企？
寵主：我地後日接佢，醫生幫佢補緊水
傳心師：喂，你返到屋企都要飲水。
😼：仲要等後日？！唉，得啦得啦，飲水呀嘛，知啦，好煩呀。快啲嚟接我啦，等你。唔好再講咁多。拜拜。

26/05/2024

😾：喂，整幅靚d既相黎得唔得呀~你（寵主）識唔識影相架，影到我兇神惡煞咁。我雖然病左啫，我意識仲清醒架。你唔換過張相我唔同你傾架。

消失左....😑

24/05/2024

好耐冇update個page啦

一來忙
二來懶

多謝妳信任~
一傳就傳兩個case😊

想了解自家的寶貝更多？
自家寶貝行為/情緒上的困擾？
想跟已離世的自家寶貝作最後道別？
歡迎查詢。

#信則有不信則無

11/03/2024

🧑‍🦰：Hello, Rio. 你主人有意了解你多一點，故此找我跟你聊天。

🦜：為何我要跟你說呢？！我可以自己告訴主人。

🧑‍🦰：你主人不會懂得你說的話，我是你們的橋樑。你主人想知道你生活得快樂嗎？

🦜：我主人了解的、知道的，我生活得很快樂。不用透過你說。

🧑‍🦰：有一些更深入的問題，例如：你主人想知道你有什麼說話想跟他說？或是他有什麼不足的地方可改進，令你更滿意現在的生活？這些問題要透過我跟你溝通才能反映給他。

🦜：我很簡單，
亦很知足常樂。
我很滿意現在的生活；
有一個大大的籠子、
有充足的食物與水、
有一個安樂窩、
很多自由活動及跟主人相處的時間；
我已很滿足。
主人並沒有什麼需要改善的；
不要離我太遠及太久，
最好是主人在哪兒、我就在哪兒~

🧑‍🦰：你會否需要多一個同伴？

🦜：不要！我要是家中的唯一，同伴會分散主人對我的注意力。我要做家中的小霸王。好了，不跟你說了，也沒什麼話想跟你說。再見。

21/02/2024

Update番凌晨做既case~

👱：西瓜，我係你媽媽朋友，你媽媽想知你點解咬毛既~
🦜：你個邊咁嘈~我講比你聽你都接受唔到訊息啦。不如我地傾下計好過啦。

解釋下點解西瓜覺得嘈先。
（現時英國凌晨0330，我先生熟睡扯鼻鼾中）

🦜：我爸爸媽媽有時都係咁，尤其爸爸，好大聲，有時我都比佢嘈醒。媽媽就好少少，有時都係咁，不過細聲好多。

🦜：點解咬毛？叫媽媽唔洗擔心喎，我冇咩唔開心，見有其他（雀）咬下我咪跟住咬下。我會就住力，唔會整痛自己。

👱：即係有其他小朋友都有咬毛習慣呀？
🦜無回應。

🦜：咁有時都係悶左dd既，可以放風多一陣會好少少~
👱：你本身咁靚、d毛又順滑，咬咪唔靚囉~
🦜：咁毛會生番架嘛。你明唔明呀，呢d叫藝術。
👱：...........
🦜：你個邊咁嘈，你用野塞住佢把口咪得囉。
👱：我可以帶耳塞..
🦜：你都傻既~梗係塞住對方啦，你自己帶野咪辛苦自己。
👱：.......

靜默片刻。
🦜感覺到我攰攰地。

🦜：好啦，你個邊靜左好多啦。你都去訓啦。唔講住啦，我哋再傾啦。叫媽媽放心，我有分寸架。可以既話，都叫佢哋細聲d（指訓覺時扯鼻鼾聲）

05/01/2024

臨終遺言個案

占占患上了沐巴癌，只剩下一個月的壽命。
在整個過程中，
占占沒有對生命流逝的不甘，
只有處之泰然、
安然接受命運的安排。
占占唔係第一隻咁諗，
對大部份［我溝通過］的動物而言，
肉體上的離去只是形式上的轉變、
因為愛常存在心中。
真正的死亡
是消失於所有人的記憶了。

🧑‍🦰：占占~
😿：你說吧。我有在聽，只是不想說話而已。
［感覺占占很是虛弱、毫無生氣的。］

🧑‍🦰：其實你自己有什麼想法？
😿：我不想再看醫生了，不想再折騰了，亦不想注射（皮下水），媽媽可否別逼我進食，勉強進食比不吃東西更痛苦。順其自然就好。
🧑‍🦰：你會是想選擇在醫院離去嗎？
😿：我知道媽媽幫我（注射皮下水）是為我好，但我不想，好痛呢。我想在家中自然離去。我並不畏懼死亡，肉身的死亡並不代表我完全消失，我仍活在他們（家人）心裡，只是肉體上不用再受苦。我仍會在天上看望著他們，祝福著他們。
🧑‍🦰：但你不進食過程只會更痛苦。
😿：在最後的日子，我寧願自然地離世。媽媽是最好的媽媽，不用自責。媽媽已經做得相當好。
🧑‍🦰：媽媽想我跟你說抱歉因她跟家人關係不佳的關係，她什少回家，以致與你相處時間亦相對地較少。
😿：其實我知道媽媽是打從心底裡疼愛我的，不一定要經常碰面才代表很在乎我。不過如果可以的話，想在最後日子跟媽媽有多一些見面機會，如果能合照更加好。當然，如果媽媽真的不想（跟其他家人見面），真的不用勉強，或者可以選擇把我帶回家裡度過。
🧑‍🦰：媽媽想告訴你她暫時仍未將你的病情告知其他成員...（未講完）
😿：其實說與不說又如何，真的這麼重要嗎，說了又能改變些什麼。媽媽要想的是，將來她的家人問及時，她該如何回應，只是想這個問題就足夠了。
🧑‍🦰：媽媽想透過我多謝你跟黃Be (先行抵達彩虹橋的貓）陪伴了她與家人六年。
😿：我也很感謝媽媽的疼愛、給我一個幸福的貓生。我這生沒有遺憾、不枉過了。請告訴媽媽，讓她繼續協助其他有需要的貓貓、給牠們愛，把對我的愛廷續於其他貓貓身上，我很喜歡這個很有愛的媽媽。其實我知媽媽有接觸其他貓貓，因為她的身上不時會有其他貓咪的氣味，我並沒有（吃醋）。

😿：姨姨。
🧑‍🦰：我在此。
😿：珍惜眼前人與事。因為你不會知道還有沒有下一次。就如在我不知曉的情況下，我的生命已進了倒數階段。珍惜眼前人。
🧑‍🦰：你有什麼願望仍未實現嗎？
😿：沒有，我活著的每一天都很好。我此生過的很好。姨姨，請把這句話同時提醒媽媽：珍惜眼前人；祝福她跟爸爸的感情一直這麼要好。媽媽，保重。
🧑‍🦰：好，我會將我們的對話隻字不漏複述給你媽媽聽。多謝你在這麼虛弱疲憊下仍跟我聊天。
😿：我都多謝你。
😿：我喜歡這張照片，這張照片證明了我在最後的日子仍然很帥及堅強，帥得不減當年。
🧑‍🦰：相信在你媽媽心裡，你從沒有遜色過。
😿：我知道。媽媽，知你難過，不要哭、別哭，知道於你而言很難做到，但仍希望你能笑著看我離去。

對話完畢。