28/07/2024
There’s a pretty huge scandal unfolding in the equestrian community at the moment. It’s raising a lot of issues for people around how we treat our horses. It’s making people question whether the human desires & expectations we place on our horses are fair.
For a lot of people, equestrian sport is the only context in which they ever see horses. But for many years, there has been a groundswell of people questioning whether this was the only way. People who love horses so much that the thought of being without them physically hurts, but who have no desire to show, compete, or in some cases, even to ride. Those people exist. But there is often no clear pathway for them.
Thankfully, this is changing. Horse work based on connection, kindness, attunement & relationship is possible. We can be benevolent guardians for our horses & choose to be with them & care for them regardless of what we get in return. We can respect them as sentient beings with their own thoughts, feelings, wants & needs - just like us. Just as important as us. We can learn to be safe around them & they can learn to be safe around us. Together.
A different way is possible. It just requires us to find those places that allow us to connect with horses while staying true to our values. Places that honour those beautiful, different things about us that make us unique. It starts with giving ourselves permission to be authentic. To trust that when our instincts tell us to be more gentle & compassionate, they are right. We don’t have to listen to the pressures of world when they tell us we have to be harder or harsher to be successful. We can show what it looks like to be successful through softness & grace. We can redefine what success looks like.
That’s what we hope people can take away from these most recent events…that there IS a different way. Change is possible. And the most powerful change comes from us 🌈🦄💖