29/06/2025
"Petting is a privilege, not a right."
We get it: your dog is adorable. That face, so cute… how can anyone resist smothering them with cuddles & kisses?
But here’s the thing: cuddling is a human way of showing affection, NOT a dog's.
In dog language, prolonged touch, leaning over, or tight embraces can feel annoying, invasive, or even threatening.
While we hug & kiss to show love, dogs often show affection in very different ways:
💜 sitting close
💜 following you around
💜 soft blinking eyes
💜 a relaxed body near yours
And we know: it’s hard to resist.
Especially when you dreamed of having a cuddly buddy to spoon with on the couch, bingeing your favourite shows.
Realising your dog doesn’t love touch the way you do can feel disappointing, even a bit lonely.
But your dog is still showing you love, just in their own way.
It's important to learn to read the signs of discomfort: lip licking, yawning, turning away, freezing, shifting away: these are their way of saying “please don’t.”
When you listen and respect those boundaries, you’re not missing out on love, you’re building it.
Tell us, are you lucky enough to have a "cuddly buddy"? Our dogs are not cuddly at all 😭 but we love them as they are!