06/17/2026
This evening I spotted a monarch butterfly visiting the garden.
I was excited. I've planted milkweed and native flowers for years hoping to create a space where monarchs would feel at home.
A little while later, I checked a milkweed plant that sits well off the beaten path and found something even better.
A monarch caterpillar.
Not a tiny newly hatched caterpillar, either. One that's been there for quite some time.
The funny thing is that I only check that particular milkweed patch about once a week. While I've been admiring the flowers, counting swallowtail caterpillars, watching birds build nests, and keeping up with life, this little caterpillar has been quietly growing right under my nose.
It made me think about how much of life happens that way.
We're often waiting for the big moments. The obvious ones. The milestones we can point to and celebrate.
Meanwhile, some of the most meaningful things are already taking shape in the background. Quietly. Patiently. Without asking for our attention.
Not everything announces itself when it begins.
Sometimes the most beautiful parts of life have been growing for a while before we're lucky enough to notice them. 🦋