02/20/2025
The other day my dog was having an eye exam at the Vet’s office. When the Vet came in I was not asked if my dog was friendly, minded being handled or what might be the best approach for him. I was not asked how he might feel about her approaching his face in a dark room.
After a short time the Vet turned out the lights, took a hold of my dogs face and shined a light in his eyes for the exam. I was not asked if it would be best if I held his head/face. The Vet talked to me during this exam, but I only heard part of what she said as I was assuring my dog that all was well and he should continue holding still.
The Vet did give my dog treats before the exam, but a dog can take treats and still bite - then or later. Being close to a dog’s face in a dark room, could be a set up for disaster. Many dogs will not tolerate this and might lash out in fear - at very close range to the Vet’s face. I’m sure this whole visit would have been different if my dog had come in with a muzzle on.
This wasn’t a long exam, but there was no discussion about how my dog was doing, does he need a break, etc. Nothing said about the importance of reassuring him. These things might take a little more time, but would be so worthwhile.
We expect a lot of our dogs - this type of exam included. I try to prepare my dogs for being handled by a Vet and teach them that I will handle the situation and help them. However, when is it going to be common practice to check in with the owner about all these things? I know there are fear free Vets, but when will it be normalized to consider a dog's needs and feelings and not have to be considered “fear free” to do this?
I told my Mom about this and she told me an endearing story. When I was a little kiddo, I had a test which required me to lay on a board and go through a machine. My Mom said that she stayed right up by my head/face and kept telling me, “you’re brave, you’re so brave.” I was able to handle the test because of her doing this. Oh, my heart! But, she said the medical staff just looked at her like she was weird. This was so far from weird! She has always been ahead of her time, just like her Mother.
All this said, don’t, for one minute, be afraid to stand up and advocate for your dog! When I have done this, I have often felt like the only weirdo in the room because no one else seems to be doing this. Be the weirdo in the room/arena/pasture/ring/vet's office/training class- stand up for your dog!
Note: The Vet was not unkind and was trying to be efficient, I’m sure. No one was harmed during this procedure. 😁