12/08/2025
If a Horse Could Set a Boundary with Humans, What Would It Be?
Maybe it would start simply:
“Please stop touching me unless I say yes.”
Or perhaps:
“Don’t assume I’m here for your goals.”
Horses, if given a voice, might set boundaries around autonomy—the freedom to choose, to say no, to rest, to connect without being coerced.
They might ask us to pause before we reach for a halter, to notice their ears, their eyes, their subtle shifts that say “not now.”
They might draw a line around their peace, asking us to approach only when we’ve softened the noise inside ourselves.
Because boundaries, in truth, aren’t walls—they’re invitations to meet each other with respect.
To say: “This is who I am, and I trust you enough to show you where I begin.”
When we honor that in a horse, something remarkable happens.
Their boundaries become bridges.
Their “no” becomes the first step toward a deeper “yes.”
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What boundary do you imagine a horse would set with you?
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