08/03/2025
Go spend time watching various riders and look for balance and a sort of meshing ease with the horse. Many riders lack this one-ness with the horse. And while becoming part of the motion CAN be learned, to do so takes as much time as it takes.
I think it’s easier for younger kids to learn. Their bodies and minds are more plastic---They are more able to slither around and they are less likely to over-think.
Older riders have an easier time if they are fit and strong. Probably the riders who have the hardest challenge are older riders who are also not in very good physical condition, because their bodies don’t do what they are told!
So if that is YOU, older and not in the best of shape, there are several ways to improve. One---Try hard to ride a horse on whose back you feel CONFIDENT. It’s hard enough to retrain and remodel your body when you are in a good state of mind. Much tougher if you are nervous.
Two---Start by doing plenty of walking, until just being on a horse begins to seem familiar, starts to make sense.
Then add some moments of trotting, learn your diagonals, basics like that.
Now also do some walking OFF a horse for your OWN sake. Maybe help around the barn, sweep the aisle, lug some hay bales, push a wheel barrow. It all adds up, and in a couple of months, give or take, you will notice the difference.
Be OK with what may seem in the beginning as a snail’s pace. It’s called creating a base, and once that is installed, things will go faster. But first, just get used to being a small creature on a big creature, and once that happens, little tiny nubbins of wings will start to sprout.