01/06/2025
YOU UPGRADE YOUR PHONE TO MAKE YOUR LIFE EASIER...
So why don't you upgrade yourself to make your life easier?
The most important project you will ever work on in your life is yourself!
When you start working on yourself and upgrading from the older versions of yourself you cannot help but to get better at everything you do. It doesn't matter what it is. When you get better personally you will get better at your everyday job, being a good father/mother, friend, co-worker, working with your horse, etc. The list goes on and on! As you upgrade personally YOU GET BETTER AT EVERYTHING. It is the best side-effect you will ever experience in life.
AS YOU UPGRADE YOUR CIRCLE WILL AUTOMATICALLY UPGRADE.
Once you start upgrading yourself your circle of people around you will change. Most will get left behind. If you are lucky there will be one, maybe two who will upgrade with you.
You MUST realize this is all part of the process. You have to learn to let people go. It is VERY hard to do, especially at the beginning stages of your personal development journey. There are those people who have been in your circle for many years that get left behind. These people mean a lot to you. Trust me, I know this part is probably the hardest! You are not doing these people (or yourself) any favors by holding yourself back for them. You are just enabling their lack of accountability, and their own responsibility to get better themselves.
If these same people are willing to let you be held back because of themselves or they are not pushing you to get better, the truth is they simply do not care about you and what is best for you!
You HAVE to understand you can only encourage and beg these people so much to upgrade themselves as you upgrade. It is 100% on them to make the choice to get better and grow with you. I know first hand just how sad you will feel and how much you will try to hold yourself back to help just because these people are not willing to change for the better with you.
When rowing your boat upstream against the norm and making your own waves in your personal growth you have to pull the anchors up that is willing to come up, and cut the ones lose that is stuck at the bottom that is holding you back.
DO NOT hold a grudge or wish bad will on people who are not willing to grow for the better right now. They may treat you like the "Bad Guy" but down deep most people are good and are personally struggling with facing their own demons and truths.
Be a great inspiration and example. We all need a guide to follow, and to know it is truly possible to change for the better, even if you have bad habits like I did that consumed me for decades!
Long-term healthy change IS POSSIBLE! You just gotta commit, learn self-discipline, and NEVER GIVE UP!
I am not blowing smoke up your ass when I say this, But if I can do it....
YOU CAN DO IT!
*This post is NOT a target post to any certain individual/s. THIS IS JUST SIMPLY LIFE! If you feel this is a targeted post then that is 100% on you and where you are at in your personal development journey.
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📸: Jared H Searcy