05/21/2025
When I started out in the shelter world, I truly believed we could save them all. That with enough love, structure, and effort, any dog could become the perfect companion.
I carried that belief with me into training. But over the past 15 years, I’ve learned something important:
You can only reach the full potential of the dog in front of you.
And that potential is shaped by more than just training.
It’s shaped by genetics.
Training is powerful. It teaches skills, builds confidence, improves communication, and changes lives. But it doesn’t erase a dog’s biological blueprint.
Some dogs are born more sensitive. Some have higher arousal levels, lower frustration tolerance, stronger prey drive, or bigger social thresholds.
That’s not something you can “fix” because it was never broken to begin with.
It’s just who they are.
And the more we try to force dogs into a mold they weren’t designed for, the more frustrated we all become. humans and dogs alike.
Imagine trying to train a naturally introverted kid to love being the center of attention.
With guidance, they can build confidence and hold their own in social settings. But they’ll probably never love big crowds or being the loudest in the room.
And that’s okay.
Same goes for dogs. Training should bring out the best in them, not ask them to become something they’re not.
The shift for me came when I stopped asking, “How do I fix this?”
And started asking, “How can I support this dog in this body, with this brain, to thrive in the world we’ve brought them into?”
That mindset changes everything.
Because when we stop chasing perfection and start honoring who our dogs actually are, we unlock real progress.
Less stress
More clarity
Stronger connection
A dog who feels seen, safe, and supported.
And that, to me, is what training is all about.