10/15/2024
A âbeginnerâs mindâ is a Buddhist principle that can be defined loosely as letting go of our expectations and preconceived ideas about something, and seeing things with an open mind - with fresh eyes, just like a beginner.
Take a rose, for example. đš
Think about that VERY brief moment before your brain says âroseâ and throws it into a category, discarding it as âjust a roseâ. Think about the colors, the swirl of the petals, the texture of each one between your fingers - isnât it amazing? Arenât you fascinated by it? Itâs as if youâve seen it for the very first time, and it makes you curious and full of child-like wonder.
We can ALL benefit from intentionally cultivating a beginnerâs mind with our dogs, especially with regards to their behavior. For example, instead of seeing a dog who isnât responding to what youâve asked of them and immediately labeling it as âstubbornâ or âa bad dogâ, I propose that we take a moment to step back from those emotionally charged judgments and re-evaluate. When we use a label like that, we are immediately ceasing the thought process. We are labeling them as âstubbornâ, moving on with our lives and never giving it a second thought.
I understand why people do it. Itâs the easier way out, but it doesnât get you any closer to solutions and actively drives you away from a deeper relationship with your animal.
Your dogâs behavior doesnât need a label. They need a âbeginnerâs mindâ - a mind thatâs going to be and stay curious, to try to get a deeper understanding of whatâs going on. Follow that wonder and see where it takes you! If you get more curious about your dogâs behavior instead of slapping an oversimplified label on it, you can actually learn a lot about them and their behavior as well as possible solutions for the things that you are struggling with. Approaching behavior in this way helps you not only learn more about training strategies, but it also allows you to more deeply connect with them - and helps them to feel seen.
When we are curious, we strive to learn more. When we use an âexpert mindâ, we limit ourselves to labels and miss out on something so much more grand.