01/15/2026
Most people don’t reach out for training when things are “kind of bad.”
It’s like couples therapy.
Nobody goes in when it’s just a minor disagreement. They go in when they’ve hit that point of
“Okay… something has to change.”
That’s usually what it looks like with horses too.
It’s not always some big dramatic blowup.
Sometimes it’s just that slow build of frustration.
The anxiety before a ride.
The constant second guessing.
The “maybe tomorrow will be better” that turns into months.
Tired of feeling like you’re always behind.
Tired of going to ride and wondering what version of your horse you’re gonna get.
Tired of that low key anxiety in your chest every time you swing a leg over.
Tired of loving a horse… but not trusting them.
And most of the time, when they message me, it isn’t just about the bucking or the spooking or the sticky lead changes.
It’s about the feeling of:
“I don’t want to fight with my horse anymore.”
It’s heavy carrying the responsibility of a horse you care about… when you don’t know how to help them.
It’s heavy wondering if you’re ruining them.
It’s heavy getting advice from ten different people and still feeling lost.
But what training should be about is giving people their peace back.
Because riding shouldn’t feel like a constant fight.
It shouldn’t make you feel defeated.
And it shouldn’t feel like you’re alone trying to figure it all out.