Paz Equestrian

Paz Equestrian Paz Equestrian is the home of freelance horse training and lesson instruction by Kim Pasnau Nemchek serving Connecticut, New England, and New York.

It is our mission to bring quality instruction and education into the lives of all riders and horsemen!

11/27/2025
If you’ve been eyeing one of our autumn themed hoodies, now is your last chance! They will go bye-bye, back into the vau...
11/03/2025

If you’ve been eyeing one of our autumn themed hoodies, now is your last chance!

They will go bye-bye, back into the vault like an old school Disney VHS. You only have until Saturday November 8th, and then our Holiday/Christmas line will go live shotly after!

Link in the first comment!

Which one is your fav? Plus a little sneak peek of what the next drop has in store!

11/03/2025

Great post and worth the read!
11/03/2025

Great post and worth the read!

“Dressage’s Midlife Crisis and Why Your Riding-School Horse Might Just Save It”

Dressage, they tell us, is facing a crisis. Falling spectator numbers, shrinking memberships, shows closing down… it’s all sounding a bit grim. The sport that once pranced proudly in top hat and tails is now, apparently, staring moodily into the mirror, wondering if a freestyle remix of Beyoncé might make it feel young again.

But maybe the problem isn’t just the ticket prices or the lack of trade stands. Maybe dressage, and the riding world more broadly, has forgotten its greatest resource: the riding-school horse.

Yes, those noble, patient, saintly creatures who spend their days trying to interpret the signals of five different riders in five different hours, ranging from “accidental piaffe” to “emergency halt at E”.

The Unsung Heroes

Riding-school horses are, quite frankly, the backbone of equestrianism. They introduce people to the sport, keep riding accessible, and quietly perform half-passes for riders who swear they’re “just steering.”

Yet these horses are often labelled “lazy,” “stubborn,” or “not off the leg.” In reality, they’ve simply developed the good sense not to react to someone’s left leg, right hand, and enthusiastic seat all giving contradictory instructions at once. They are not lazy, they are philosophers.

The Delicate Art of Self-Awareness

Somewhere along the way, we riders started believing our own press releases. We went from “I’m learning to feel the rhythm” to “I’m basically doing Grand Prix” in the space of a riding holiday.

We’ve all met that person who insists their riding-school mount “just doesn’t go properly for me” as if Geoff, the 18-year-old schoolmaster who’s been teaching balance and patience for two decades, has suddenly decided today is the day he’ll stage a mutiny.

If we’re honest, many of us ride for joy, for fitness, for the smell of the mane and the freedom of movement and that’s wonderful. But somewhere in that joy, we lost the reverence for the craft of riding; the hours, the sweat, the sore muscles, the humility of learning.

Learning Is the New Luxury

Dressage’s salvation won’t come from more glitzy venues or bigger prize pots. It’ll come from riders rediscovering the art of wanting to be better for their horse’s sake, not their ego’s.

It means celebrating lessons as much as ribbons, taking pride in improving our seat before our score, and understanding that true partnership, not just posing for pictures, is what makes riding extraordinary.

Imagine if every riding-school rider treated their weekly lesson like a step towards artistry. Imagine if every rider at home thought of “working in” not as a chore but as a privilege, the chance to dance with a horse, however imperfectly.

The Comeback Tour Starts in the School Arena

Dressage may be struggling with identity, but it’s not dying; it’s just waiting for us to show up with the right attitude.
Forget the crisis headlines. The future of dressage doesn’t live in elite arenas or YouTube highlights. It lives in every quiet arena where someone’s trying to learn a better contact, sit straighter, breathe with the horse.

Let's celebrate that riding-school horses are our unsung professors. The humble riders who admit they’re learning, and to bringing back the idea that being a rider isn’t a social label or a status symbol. It’s a lifelong apprenticeship in empathy, discipline, and grace.

Now go thank your riding-school horse. (Preferably before you next ask for shoulder-in.)"

Students had a great time at last nights Unmounted Horsemanship class - all about bodyclipping! They learned why we clip...
10/01/2025

Students had a great time at last nights Unmounted Horsemanship class - all about bodyclipping!

They learned why we clip, how we decide which horses to clip, different styles of clipping, and then got to try their hand at a trace clip on a very patient pony!

Horsemanship classes are included FREE for all Paz Equestrian members, and open to the public for a small fee! Message us to find out more!

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