09/20/2024
DYSFUNCTION AND GASLIGHTING, REBRANDED
Iām going to be bluntā¦
If someone asks you to put your horse in a position of imbalance, and when the horse resists, that person says itās OK, because things have to get ugly before they get better, or thatās where their weakness is, I donāt care who they are, thatās BS.
When the horse is giving us feedback that they donāt feel physically balanced or safe with whatās happening, no one should be able to convince us to disregard that.
We are our horseās advocates, and if we canāt stand up and give them a voice, no one will.
We really have to stop being naĆÆve.
The trainers who over-supple horses in the neck and convince riders they need to work through that physical brace, the guru trainers who overface horses and convince owners they need to work through that emotional brace, a lot of us as starting see how misguided that is, but that needs to extend to professionals in hoofcare and bodywork and rehab as well.
Dysfunction and gaslighting donāt just happen in the training world.
Pain is a survival mechanism. It tells us when harm is occurring
So is brace.
So no, your horse should not go through a painful hoofcare transition, and your horse should not experience pain from bodywork, or be expected not to brace when we unbalance them.
We see this all the time with hindquarter disengagementā¦
Horses brace, and resist, because itās unbalanced, and itās terrible for their joints to do repeatedly or at speed.
Iāve come to see that we do something similar to the shoulders, almost a form of āforequarter disengagement,ā where horses are forced to step out and ācatchā themselves.
This often goes hand-in-hand with over-suppling of the neck from side to side, but I also see it being done with lateral work or rehab work as well.
Anyone can throw a horse out of balance, and disengage their front or hind end, but it takes a lot of skill to guide them while keeping their physical and emotional integrity intact instead.
Donāt get me wrong, there is a threshold we have to approach in order to see and raise the level of the horseās balance and development, and we have to work that fine line, so there will be moments where we tip into physical or emotional brace.
Thatās the beauty of the French work Iāve been studyingā¦
Not that weāre so afraid of imbalance that we never tip into it, but that we know no good work can be done there.
We have to retreat, reapproach, and I think this can be applied to the horsemanship side as well, the mental and emotional.
And overall, things should look better as we go, not just in the session, but day-to-day, and as we progress.
If things are getting worse, we need to slam on the brakes and reassess.
Iāll end by saying, we canāt rely on good intentions to inform us. We HAVE to listen to the horse.
A trainer, a farrier, a vet, a chiropractor or bodyworker, anyone can have the best intentions, and be a wonderful person, and be completely convinced that what theyāre doing is whatās best for the horse in that moment, and have an incredibly convincing and well-researched set of beliefs, and still cause harm.
The buck has to stop with us.
We canāt just listen to the horse.
We also have to be willing to speak for them.