
03/20/2025
IS YOUR DOG STUBBORN OR NOT?? Stubbornness is more a human trait/concept than a dog trait/concept. Consider that for the most part, when a child or adult has a stubborn streak...that is basically a "choice" by the human. The thing is it is contradictory for a dog to "choose" to be stubborn (not comply).
Dogs are part of our pack (or out on their own, then a dog/dog pack). There is always a pack leader or whatever term you want to apply. The dogs instinctually know it is essential to remain in the "good graces" of your pack leader. Consequently, it doesn't compute that a dog would "choose" to ignore or disobey.
When your dog has always been in tune with you due to your relationship, pack dynamic & they suddenly are NOT reacting or complying with normal things...this is not a choice. There IS a "reason". No matter how irrational their behavior is at that moment in time, you must recognize that it IS "their reality" at that moment in time!!! It could be health or possibly on a walk, the dog senses a snake or other danger & refuses to move forward. If the dog has been playing or investigating their environment in their yard or on a walk, their body systems are being stimulated. Then, when it is time to come into the house, the dog refuses or slow walks it...goes into the yard & does their business & comes into the house. Of course, there should always be a "reward". I mean, to leave all that fun just to go inside where things are more sedate (aka boring)...we need to make it worth it to them.
So, when they comply...the reward (treat or tossing their favorite ball, etc, etc) WILL be expected!!! If you happen to forget the "reward", say phone rang or whatever...you will feel their eyes boring into you. Often times, sitting by the treat or toy area...LOL...
Here is an absolutely excellent article regarding the stubborn discussion.
Dogs that don't listen or obey are called stubborn dogs, but there are often simpler reasons for their behavior such as confusion or distractions.