
04/11/2025
January 18, 1940 - April 5, 2025
It’s with a heavy heart that I share the loss of my adoptive mother, Sylvia Fay Brown, who passed away at the age of 85. Sylvia spent her life raising children who weren’t her own, always doing the best she could. With each generation she raised, she became a better parent, and I’m proud of that.
She adopted me when I was just 5 years old, at the age of 58. Though health issues kept her mostly at home, she brought the world to her through the love of her children. She had a passion for pancakes and a good TV soap opera. She found joy in the simple things, and that’s something I will always cherish.
In 2022, when I was pregnant, doctors told us Sylvia wouldn’t last more than a year due to heart and kidney failure. Sylvia, however, wasn’t one to back down. She told the doctors, “I’ll prove you wrong,” and she did. The birth of my daughter, her granddaughter, brought so much light into her life during her final years. I truly believe my daughter kept her going. They were best friends, and the love between them was something extraordinary.
Losing all four of my parents—biological and adoptive—by age 31 is incredibly painful, and it breaks my heart even more knowing my little girl doesn’t quite understand this loss yet. Sylvia lived an amazing, full life, and I find comfort knowing she is now reunited with her other half, Joe.
Since December, I’ve faced four significant losses, and it’s been a lot to navigate. I’m so grateful for the patience and support I’ve received from all of you as I continue to process everything life has thrown my way.
Sylvia, thank you for everything. I love you to pluto and back forever. Until I see you again. 🌈❤️