12/03/2021
My life didn’t become any less chaotic when my infant son was born. My house still has random old house, erm, “quirks”. My older son is still extremely 5 years old. My housekeeping skills remain, well never mind those. So, Lucy the sheepadoodle pup had to learn real fast what is acceptable behavior.
A well-mannered, boundary respecting pup has to know not only what NOT to do (basically she can have almost nothing pictured here: my shoes, a baby bouncer with baby toys on it, a random bin of Play/Doh, and open shelves holding a host of random kitchen items), and also what she MAY do. She MAY go in her crate, eat her kibble, play with the blue Kong, or lay on the towel. Lucy loves this towel.
Since day one, Lucy has gotten rewarded for spending time on this towel (or playing with her toys, or going in her crate). Some amount of treats, affection, verbal praise, toys randomly appear whenever she gets on the towel. As a result, Lucy always knows how to make a good choice.
Since day one, Lucy has consistently been dissuaded from showing interest in basically everything else in this photo. She knows what I don’t want her to do. However, Lucy also knows what I DO want her to do. She always has the option of making this good choice. And since she’s gotten regular random rewards for hanging out on the towel bed, it’s become one of her favorite spots.
I keep her in eyesight, for sure. She’s still just a pup after all. All puppy’s test boundaries and they can really only learn through trial and error. I do make sure to set her up for success by crating her if I’m unable to watch her.
By teaching her how to make automatic good choices and dissuade poor choices, we are fast forwarding through the destructive puppy phase.