09/02/2024
The best gift you can give your shy/ anxious/ fearful/ nervous dog? DIRECTION.
These dogs are the ones who capture our attention. They pull at our heart strings. We see them suffering and we want to help. In an effort to make them feel more comfortable, many people remove boundaries and what they see as pressure. Meaning, these dogs are allowed to have free roam of the house and yard, they are allowed unrestricted access to personal space like beds and couches, they are rarely crated and allowed to “choose” where they want to be at any given time.
I get called in as a trainer to help these dogs when they start displaying behaviors like reactivity, resource guarding, inability to settle, not wanting to eat or shutting down completely.
To the surprise of their people, these dogs often start turning around the very first session, with some simple and kind direction.
The command we usually start with is “place.” This is an easy way for dog and person to work together and have success speaking a shared language. Person shows dog how to do something new. Dog may not be sure about it at first, but is reinforced and rewarded for following the direction. When they achieve it, both dog and person are happy! Their confidence and mutual trust gows!
Then we work on walking together, in a manner where the person is leading the dog. The dog learns to follow this person who they are learning to trust. Dog feels relaxed, grateful that someone is taking the lead. Their confidence grows even more.
We also look at structure within the house. We go over how the crate is such a helpful and kind gift you can give your dog. Crating at night and when you are gone, as well as feeding the dog in their crate, can help a nervous dog feel reassurance that the crate is their safe spot within the home, and will always be there if they need it.
We also cover how the best acclimate the dog to new environments. You guessed it - baby steps of directed exposure, setting the dog up for success.
In the absence of direction. the majority of anxious dogs will progress very little, and many will regress. Direction and leadership provide dogs with immense comfort and confidence!