12/12/2024
Kids and dogs can be quite a hot topic. While many dogs seem to have endless patience, some can find interactions with children to be quite stressful. However, because some seem to be "ok" with being hugged, sat upon, or poked owners can oftentimes misread this apparent patience as acceptance.
It is critical that we advocate for our dogs, just as we would our children. Dogs cannot use words to tell us when they are uncomfortable. Instead they utilize body language, which, once you know what to look for, can actually be quite apparent. Turning the head away, whale eye (when you can see the whites of the eye), tongue flicks/lip licks, and freezing are some common signs. Some dogs may even "kiss" your child, which appears as a big lick, maybe even several licks. This actually means "please go away", I'm uncomfortable. Some people refer to this behavior as "kiss to dismiss". Check out dog body language and calming signals on YouTube to better acquaint yourself with these signals, and more.
When we dismiss (or don't correctly read) our dog's body language we can create a situation where our dog no longer feels like they are being "heard". This is where bites occur. The dog is either so shut down or uncomfortable that they feel an air snap or actual bite is the only way to get the point across. And, children are unfortunately head-height so these bites can commonly occur to the face (though arms are also common, too).
Always monitor interactions between your child and dog and never let them be alone in a room together. Only when your child is old enough to understand the do's and dont's of interacting with dogs, as well showing an understanding of basic dog body language, can you give them a little more freedom together. This may seem strict, but it only takes a moment for things to go from tolerating an encounter to a bite.
Take a peek at the two attached graphics for some other tips on how children should, and shouldn't, interact with dogs.
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