03/01/2024
I once said to a friend that it wouldn't bother me if only a handful of people ever read what I wrote, but rather that if one person - that one person - read my post and was moved enough to action then I'd accomplished all I'd set out for and more. With my friend Blanche my only hope is that you meet her. I know in my heart that Blanche will take care of everything else, that she will win your heart over. I started my week and I will end it in the same fashion - for I had to say goodbye to a friend of 18 years. When I inherited my Uncle Bill's home I had to bring the cats over to the house on West 134th street nearly 11 years ago, one by one - and I only had one cat carrier. I'm certain that this was scary on many levels for (at the time) all three of the cats. Two would watch me leave with one, for I can't remember the order in which I took them, and I would come back alone each time. I know they don't like the carrier, and I'm sure the ride in the car wasn't especially enjoyable. I knew they'd be okay, they didn't. What I remember is searching the house later that day for Wesley. I couldn't find him. I was afraid. Turned out that he'd gone into the small closet in my uncle's bedroom, lying there on a small piece of carpet in a fashion that a feral would take should you try to domesticate them. I picked him up and held him as I tried to assure him that he was home here in this strange, new world. That all of this was his. I've thought again and again of that moment so much this week because in time Wesley lost his sight, and all the while without it he navigated the house perfectly. I was never prouder or more amazed of my friend. I'll never forget the time I turned around upstairs to find that he'd followed me. Up a set of steps! He left me with so many memories, he loved me without limit. In his final year each and every day I sat down on the living room couch Wesley would jump up to join me, settling with his head resting upon my leg. Blanche is no different than my Wesley, for she will bring you memory upon memory - she will add more love to your life than you can imagine in your wildest dreams. And one day - should you bring her home - you will look back as you miss her and think the same as I. That you wouldn't have traded your time together for all the riches in the world.