01/07/2025
This is a long but important one so bare with us.
Today we had a consultation that we want to share.
Today we did a consultation for a dog in foster care with the potential adopter. The potential adopter claims that the dog "has a mind of his own." They would like to work on basic skills and manners.
When I came into the home, (cheese lady here) I noticed that the dog was considerably calm and curious about me and the environment. During consultation I learned a lot about the animal that they really don't know anything about. Because he's a shelter rescue from New Mexico and that's all they really know. I learned within minutes that he is crazy smart, food motivated, and wants to please. He's super calm with guidance and doesn't react to typical triggers.
I spent a few minutes making friends with him, which wasn't hard because I came armed with nitrate free hotdogs and dog friendly peanut butter cookies.
Once I got the animal to accept me I sat down with my notebook to ask questions and take notes. The potential adopter stated that he has a mind of his own and doesn't listen.
"I can tell him no, don't, heal, stay, and he doesn't do it."
That's where I had to ask "how long have you had the dog in your care? 3 days.
In those 3 days did you teach him what the cue means? Or did you assume he just knew?
You could see the light bulbs going off in the room. Not only was the potential adopter there but so was the foster mom.
The local foster moms for the local humane society are starting to talk about us. The cheese lady in particular.
So I started to demonstrate some things. This dog is crazy smart, food motivated, and respectfully calm.
Honestly if he could pass my temperament testing, which I didn't do, I'd pick him up as a potential service animal.
So in 10 minutes I just taught him to... Sit when approaching someone, not jump on me, come when I call, and lay down when I ask. The behaviors that you are asking? He hasn't learned. Can you solve a math equation that no one has taught you? You can't expect a shelter animal 3 days in to know place, stay if you haven't worked on it and built it up. You just can't. Can he eventually do it? Oh I'm confident he can. Keep in mind rule of 3. I'm not a huge fan of the rule of 3. Each animal is different but the sentiment is the same.
It takes TIME for them to decompress. It takes TIME for them to learn your schedule. It takes TIME for them to become comfortable with you.
To expect a new Mexico rescue shelter dog, that you know nothing about, to know your cues, and do the things? In 3 days? You're setting him up for failure.
When I bring a new animal into my home they don't often meet anyone for days. They aren't allowed on furniture, in the kitchen, definitely not interacting with children. They are in decompression mode. I establish a schedule. This is feeding time, potty time, and training time. I'll often keep the newbie either tethered to me or in eye sight. They don't know the rules of the house! Because they just got here!
Can I get Charlie to eventually do the things? Absolutely! No question in my mind. If Dad doesn't adopt him, id consider turning him into a service animal.
Don't expect too much and don't set them up for failure!!!