12/27/2024
WHEN YOU CHANGE YOUR MINDSET YOUR WHOLE WORLD WILL OPEN UP TO ENDLESS POSSIBILITIES.
"Nothing changes, until you change.
Everything changes, once YOU change."
~Unknown~
I have been told, "I like the drunk Jeremy better."
I have also heard, "The sober Jeremy isn't as fun."
What they didn't realize was the 'Drunk Jeremy' was battling addiction and levels of depression.
I may have seemed happier on the outside but on the inside I was being torn apart by bad decision making and a sense of helplessness due to not being able to control my behavior and habits no better than I was.
Once I started owning my decisions better and taking control of my life better I wasn't as fun to others because then it started putting the spotlight on them more for the decisions they were making.
As I have learned once you start changing your mindset and your behavior, the environment around you will start changing. Do not be afraid of this change or regret losing friendships or family members distancing themselves who you thought meant a lot to you or was there for you.
"You ARE the top five people you hang around the most. CHOOSE WISELY!"
~Unknown~
Welcome the change! You need the change to be able to keep your new improved mindset and behavior going strong. Your true blue friends will stand by, support you, and never leave you. True friends will push you, encourage you, and tell you the s**t you don't want to hear, but it's the s**t you need to hear. The ones that leave were never the friends or family you thought they were in the first place.
As the old friends start disappearing you will notice new people coming into your life. There may not be near as many as you had around you before, but these are the people that are healthy for your environment. The number of friends and support people do not matter. The QUALITY is what matters and that will determine your progress and results into becoming a better you.
"Surround yourself with people who
challenge you, teach you, and push
you to be your best self."
~Unknown~
YOUR BODY IS PART OF YOUR ENVIRONMENT.
As your mindset changes your body will change.
These changes may seem and look great to the outside but on the inside there is A LOT going on. You body is trying to fix itself and learn the routine of the new habits and adjust to them. The brain is getting a major upgrade.This is no different than how the environment of people are changing around you as well.
"The people who influence you are the
people who believe in you."
~Henry Drummond~
DON'T let ANYONE or ANYTHING SHAME you for working on YOURSELF, on getting BETTER, and improving for the BETTER.
It's hard enough to keep yourself focused and keep the drive going when you are finally putting in the work that is required to become better at whatever it may be you are doing, so don't let a s**tty environment get in your way.
I STRONGLY URGE YOU TO BE AWARE OF WHAT YOUR ENVIRONMENT IS DOING TO YOU!
I spent a lot of years in environments that was bad for my mental health, my body, my future and most importantly my two daughters. I'm VERY GLAD I WOKE UP and started working on myself because now I am on the right path to be the best I can be for myself, for the people around me who truly cares about me, and most importantly for my two daughters!
Often times the best environment for you will not be the easy one at first. It will be uncomfortable. It will be hard. It will test you. It will challenge you. But it will create a better more improved you, a YOU THAT YOU WILL FINALLY LOVE!
Easy environments make soft weak people.
LISTEN TO YOUR GUT. Your gut will tell you when you are in the right environment.
DON'T LISTEN TO YOUR BRAIN. Your brain will try to tell you to stay comfortable. Don't make yourself vulnerable. Stay in the herd. Don't step away from the herd (environment) that feels safe.
Your brain will cause you to grow old with regrets. Your brain will cause you to not be the best you can be for you, and everyone who truly matters to you.
"The greatest influence in your life,
stronger even than your will-power, is
your environment. Change that, if necessary."
~Unknown~
TRUST THE PROCESS! BELIEVE IN YOURSELF!
NEVER GIVE UP!