Rockin M Performance Horses

Rockin M Performance Horses I promote and support using Natural Horsemanship methods of training to inspire communication and leadership, not intimidation and fear.
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My passion is helping horse owners gain the skills and knowledge needed to have a safe and willing equine partner.

11/26/2024

ANXIETY IS A LACK OF CLARITY

Today’s topic is very simple in its conception, but bloody difficult in its practice.

With horses, the source of their worry and anxiety is a lack of clarity. I’m trying hard to think of an exception to this premise, but nothing comes to mind.

Think of an electric fence. When a horse first touches an electrified fence, all hell breaks loose as they think they are about to die. At first, they don’t know why the fence zapped them. They don’t know if the electricity will randomly jump out and shock them again. They don’t even know if from now on all fences are out to kill them or just some. Not only does a horse experience worry as a result of being shocked, but it also feels worried because it does not yet understand the rules by which the electric fence behaves. It is not until a horse understands the limitations of the fence to cause a shock that the worry dissipates. My horses are so clear about the rules regarding an electric fence that they can fall peacefully asleep with their noses just centimetres from the fence.

The principle of clarity is what makes horses comfortable in life and when working with humans. I believe this simple fact is what many people miss.

I know trainers who blame equipment for poor outcomes in the training of horses. One Australian trainer is constantly ranting about the evils of flags or round pens or rope halters etc as training tools. He claims they are used to unnecessarily terrorize horses into submission. Yet, he simultaneously endorses and uses whips, spurs and square pens in his training. He mistakenly assumes the effectiveness of training comes from the equipment itself and not the feel and clarity with which these tools are applied. If the difference between doing a good job and a poor job depends on the shape of the training pen, or using a flag versus a whip then the concept of clarity has eluded the trainer. He is a trainer who is incapable of thinking outside his own tiny square pen.

Even with regard to the perpetual argument that supporters of positive reinforcement methods put forward regarding the emotional harm caused by negative reinforcement approaches, there is a lack of understanding that pressure can (and should) provide such clarity to a horse that the pressure becomes a comfort. Again, I refer to the example of the electric fence. The clarity that the electric fence provides is so obvious that it causes no more worry to a horse than a tree in a paddock – a horse learns not to run into the tree as clearly as it learns to not run into the fence, with no worry attached to either concept.

I may be over-romanticizing it, but I like to think that I am working towards the day that applying pressure as a teaching tool, feels like it might when a mare nudges a newborn foal to find the teat – clarity and comfort

In previous essays, I have described that when I first approach a horse I have no idea how I am going to get done what I have in mind to teach. I don’t have a plan on what to do except to ask the horse a question. But what I do know is that whatever follows the initial first question will be my absolute commitment to bringing sureness to the horse. I know for certain that the only way to overcome a horse’s confusion and anxiety is to put beyond doubt the easiest solution to its troubles. I might resolve the same problem in different horses with varied approaches because the common denominator will be clarity.

If clarity is the underlying aim of everything we do with a horse, then specific methods lose their hold over us. Most training focuses on certain exercises to teach new lessons and overcome bad behaviours. It doesn’t seem to matter what discipline interests you or what problems face you and your horse, somebody can always refer you to a particular exercise for every occasion. That’s okay because we need exercises as an excuse for giving a horse a job.

The problem becomes when we think the exercise is the solution when in reality the exercise is just an excuse to impart understanding, which in turn brings comfort. Exercises themselves have no purpose without clarity.

Repeated exercises can become a huge problem. Horse loves routine because the predictability of a routine can become comforting to a horse. They will often latch onto a routine and even more so when stressed. But routine is not clarity, it is just a pattern that can’t be broken if we are to maintain a horse’s okay-ness. On the other hand, clarity allows us to not have routines and predictability because a horse learns how to always yield to a feel (any feel) and still be okay.

In my work, the methods are always changing and are not very important to me. I can take any other trainer’s methods and use them in a way that brings clarity and comfort to a horse or I can use the identical method in a way that ensures they will need a lifetime on a couch with a good therapist talking about the relationship with their mother and their bed-wetting problems. But the principles with which I try to apply any method never change. They are unswerving in their goal to achieve clarity, accompanied by comfort.

Bringing clarity to our training is hard and skilled work. Different horses require different amounts of time and patience because they all have different agendas and hold onto old compulsions with different degrees of desperation. Some horses are more skeptical than others and don’t let go of established habits as easily as others. But the principle is always the same – clarity, clarity, and more clarity – is required to have a happy horse.

Photo: I'm using all my tools to present clarity and comfort through feel.

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11/24/2024

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Just a friendly reminder that it's okay if you didn't accomplish your goals this year with your horse.

It's that time of year when year end award ceremonies are happening and everyone will soon be posting about their amazing accomplishments. (Which they absolutely should because they worked their butt off to get there.) I've had several discussions recently with people on the opposite end of that spectrum and it's important to know that you're not alone.

It's okay if your horse had to sit on the back burner this year because you:..were battling your own physical or mental health issues...had a baby...had to work more to pay bills...had to spend more time to taking care of family members...moved...got out of an abusive situation...were in school...changed jobs...the list could literally go on for days.

Sometimes life just gets hard. As long as your horse's basic life needs are met, they are perfectly content hanging out in the pasture with their buddies until you're able to spend time with them again. I've seen too many friends sell their horse when they hit a rough patch in life to only regret it shortly after. Horses don't know their own talent and definitely don't know that it's being "wasted".

Give yourself some grace during the hard seasons and save your goals for the better seasons. 🩵

11/24/2024

One of these days, you will look around and realize that the small things really weren’t small at all—they were simply little moments in time that made a big difference.

11/23/2024
11/22/2024

Signals and Corrections
To train a horse successfully, it’s absolutely necessary to give clear signals.
But many riders skip this step especially when riding young horses.
Here Verena is giving a clear signal to back up. Legs open and forward, fingers closed with a very soft contact.
Now the unknown is how the horse will respond. You can never know for sure until the chance is given to the horse!
Riders tend to think a young horse will be heavy and immediately start pulling (which is correction).
Even if your 100 percent sure in your mind that the horse won’t respond to your signal, to create clear communication, you must do it anyway before pressure is applied.
If you don’t get the desired response, it’s always possible to do more!
How do you decide what a good signal is? Simple, do something that you would be proud for a judge to see when your showing, first.
The horse may not respond the first one thousand times you do it. But, one day it will surprise you!
Signal first, pressure second!
Lastly, how much pressure is correct?
“As little as possible, as much as necessary” !

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11/19/2024

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Finding Peace...

People are searching for it and will do all kinds of things in their search to find peace.
It's interesting, all healthy critters seek it as well.
The thing that drives a horse in all things, is their immense desire for peace. Even the "naughty" things they do can be traced back to them attempting to find peace.

But if it is something that we all are looking for, why is it so elusive? Or maybe it's not, we humans just tend to look in the wrong places.

Maybe we even sabotage others finding it too. Ever notice how certain people's simple presence can bring an overall calm but someone else can walk in and instantly cause chaos?

People are the biggest roadblocks to peace in most forms of life. This probably could be traced back to someone's unhealthy approach and thoughts about life. Extreme examples are wars and genocide, murder and assault, right down to how we tend to let our thoughts run wild causing anxiety and fear. When we fail to put things in their proper place, peace will elude us and as a consequence, those around us as well.

I'm thankful that it doesn't need to be this way. For God has not given us the spirit of fear; but of power and of love, and of a sound mind. 2Timothy 2:7

So if we're not in a peaceful place, we need to change something. The answers are there, we just may need to put some things in their proper place. This may be hard, however living without peace is hard as well. Chose your hard.

Pc Rachel Ann Photography

Trucking along with the boring stuff to make the fun stuff better!
11/14/2024

Trucking along with the boring stuff to make the fun stuff better!

Taking advantage of this beautiful day for some work on posture and balance!  (At least for the 2 big girls!)
11/12/2024

Taking advantage of this beautiful day for some work on posture and balance! (At least for the 2 big girls!)

Horses know. From the second you step into the stall, they know what kind of day you’ve had. They can sense your stress....
11/10/2024

Horses know.
From the second you step into the stall, they know what kind of day you’ve had.
They can sense your stress.
They can sense your exhaustion.
They can feel your sense of urgency.
They can sense your tension.
But, they can also sense your relaxation.
They can sense your enthusiasm.
They can sense your presence.
They can sense your joy.
They can sense things about you that you might not even be aware of yourself.
A horse’s intuition is a gift.
It is a gift that holds you accountable.
It challenges you to show up as the best version of yourself.
When you give your horse your best self, you help them give their best to you

10/23/2024

Holding The Reins....

The question often comes up about how a rider should hold the reins while riding. Tight or loose, one hand or two, what to do with the rein tails, hand and finger placement and on it goes.

If the rider navigates with a very short rein with constant pressure on the horses mouth, that rider tends to get tuned out. And both get tired, maybe even burned out.

Now I ask you, how do you hold the reins on life. Have you shortened up, constantly pulling so tight on the reins that both you and the horse are worn out. Have you spent the majority of your time convinced that you have to pull back in an attempt to keep something bad from happening.

Now remember, this is likely all out of good intentions. However, sometimes in life, a good intention doesn't always produce a good result.

In order for something to change in life, we have to change something. Continue to do the same thing and we will continue get what we have always gotten.

I have learned that when riding and in life to put my hand down, loosen the reins and ride the next stride. Instead of worrying about what might happen, that I can't control anyway. When on a ride, when the boogy man jumps out, I will adjust my reins and stear and guide the horse towards peace and then go back to a lose rein.

Peace and calm can be experienced, usually when we make the determination to look at life from a different perspective and put our hand down.

Pc Tracey Buyce Photography

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10/23/2024

I love this!!

The foundation you build today determines the success you’ll have tomorrow.

Whether it’s with your horses or any other part of your life, stay committed to the process, stay patient, and keep learning.

Because in the end, it’s not about how fast you get there—it’s about how well you prepare for the journey.

Brisk morning ride on my 'fire breathing dragon'...not really.  She was an angel as usual!  I'm loving these cooler morn...
10/22/2024

Brisk morning ride on my 'fire breathing dragon'...not really. She was an angel as usual! I'm loving these cooler mornings!!! Josie is back out while I ride too!

10/22/2024

Confidence is not thinking you know everything or are good at everything. Confidence is believing you have everything you need within yourself to meet your goals. Confidence is the ability to look honestly at your flaws and the willingness to work on what you are not yet good at.
It is the knowing that you can achieve, in time, and settling into the work.

Confidence is built day but day in little steps - it’s built by doing hard things and seeing all that you are capable of.

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