04/14/2023
April 10, 2023
Safe Kids & Dogs Relationships
There is a very important thing to remember when you have kids and dogs in the same house. As humans, we have numerous ways to express when we don't like something that someone is doing to us. We can talk, yell, grab, push, hit, kick etc. However, dogs don't have all of the abilities we do. All they really have is their mouths. They can growl, but if the growling doesn't work, all they have left is their teeth.
I have a Service Dog who many of the locals here in town know, or would at least recognize.
I always have at least one of them with me 24/7. I was at an event in Gunnison with one of them a few Summers ago, and there was a young child there who was petting her. I was ok with this, as he had asked first. However, a minute or two later when I looked over, he was pulling on her fur, and yanking on her tail. His parents (who were sitting a few feet away), were watching, yet said nothing. Yet if their child has been bitten, the parents would likely still have blamed my dog. Fortunately, I heard her growl, and told the child to stop, and that it is not ok to do that, because dogs don't like it.
As humans, it is our responsibility to both educate ourselves, and educate our children about proper behavior around dogs, and how to pay attention to their “warning signs”. There are several warning signs that dogs display when they are getting aggravated, in addition to their growl. When a dog begins to get aggravated, they will flatten their ears, stiffen their tail, often their fur will get stiffer and may stand up more than usual, and they will show their teeth more obviously. Dogs don't like to have to be aggressive, so they will likely also try to move away from the cause.
It is also very important to teach children that their furry companion is not a jungle gym. Climbing, standing and laying on them is a very common cause of aggravation to dog bites, and a very common cause of dog bites. But, if you pay attention to your furry companion's reactions, teach your kids how to read them, and teach them to treat your furry companions properly, and respectfully, then you will all have a safe and happy companionship, and both you and your children will have the best and most loyal friend and protector you could ever ask for. If you would like more information on how to read you furry companion's reactions, or how to know what they like or don't like, feel free to email me at [email protected].
By David A. Windsor, CTMT, CSMT, SCMT, SASA