12/03/2024
Annie arrived this morning. Working right away to teach Annie and reminding Gracie that their go-to state of mind inside the house is calm agreement. This is actually a dog's natural default state of mind, so what I am really doing is reminding them what their natural way of being is. It can be really difficult for dogs who are used to practicing higher levels of excitement or have a little anxiety to agree to this state of mind. The more they choose it, experience it, and practice it, the easier it becomes. That is how they realize it feels really good and therefore becomes their default state of mind once again.
Biscuit, my little guy in the dog bed on the couch, is being an excellent role model 😊
I am using the raised cots to provide an easily recognized boundary that helps both Gracie and Annie chill comfortably in one place.
By limiting movement via the use of the raised cots, I am also limiting the amount of excitement, anxiety, or any forward moving state of mind to build. This allows the dogs to choose that calm, agreeable state of mind.
Just so you know, the only reason Gracie is in another room is because she LOVES other dogs and would play 24/7 if given that option. Space/ distance can release the pressure of that excitement and, therefore, allow her to choose that calm, agreeable state of mind. Eventually, they will be in the same room when they both have the capacity & capability to simply chill around each other. They will also get to play with each other when they have earned that privilege and have shown me they understand I am relevant and everything they need & all good things happen when they willingly take my guidance and direction.
The play will be structured and led by me, so it stays safe and enjoyable for all parties involved. The energy/ excitement level of the play will be closely monitored and will not be allowed to get to high levels. This will help the play to remain respectful and fun. It will also teach the girls how to regulate their excitement levels. Everything they learn while here builds and reinforces each other. Impulse control is a huge tool that melts unwanted behavior!
The fun has already begun 😍
