01/03/2026
Time to make the post I’ve been delaying making.
Yes S & S Equestrian Stables is now closed due to the owner selling. I knew it would come one day & I’m thankful Mr King gave me 20 years there!
After 20 years in Forsyth County, hundreds of students, so many horses I can’t count them all, thousands of hours in lessons, 3 seasons of shows, countless horses trained, 4 tenants, 2 barn managers, my own engagement to my fabulous husband Kevin, the start of the James Soares Memorial Barrel races, a year of Austin’s “senior bon fires”, and a wedding we have to close the gates.
20 years ago I managed Windy Hill Farms. It was a hundred acre farm with 52 horses. The owner was forced to sell to the county so they could put a school up.
I needed a location for a boarding facility of my own to run. Jb Bader showed me the property that was available & the rest happened like I had planned from day one.
With the startup funding loaned to me by my friend Brenda Myers I was able to build my business.
From an over grown-run down-neglected property I made S & S (which for those wondering stands for Sherri Soares, my maiden name, - Or if you ask Austin it’s for Sherri & son) place of learning, lots of love & laughter and of course all centered around horses.
There was no running water as the well didn’t even have a pump in it. The first month I hand walked 3 horses 3 times a day down to the stream for water.
There was absolutely no
fencing. I personally tapped in so many T-posts my arms, shoulders, & abs were so cut they looked like a lady body builder.
The house needed 2 roll off dumpsters to hold the left behind trash from the previous renter. The barn needed a roll off dumpster as well.
From only 8 stalls i made 21.
From a 75x100 arena I made a 150x200 arena.
From zero pastured I made 12.
From 3 horses the first month I housed 42 at my busiest time.
I want to thank Mr. Jim Grogan for always keeping me in shavings….with open credit.
Mr. Nathan Turner for making sure I never went without hay….with open credit.
Mr. Doug & Francis Grizzle of (Southwind farm and feed)& now Larry McBrayer for being my grain store the whole time….with open credit. Without the three of them allowing me open credit I could not have made it in the first 2 years.
For that I am grateful & had always had a zero balance by Dec 31st.
My first farrier Jeff Davis & then Russell Phillips for over 15 years. Russel showed up every Tuesday for 20 years do take care of all the clients needs.
Dr. Nash, Dr. Carley, & Dr. Megan have been our main vets with also Dr. Marcella from time to time in the early years.
The office of Horner & Nash have serviced my clients with the best of care, never ending knowledge & love without fail! From routine shots, emergencies, and euthanasia they are the best of the best!
Clients over the years have been interesting. I like to say “I like all my clients, some when they come & some when they go”.
Luckily for me I have only had to “ask” three to leave over the years. I’m sure by the time I did they were ready to go anyway.
I cannot thank the parents enough for allowing me to be part of their child’s lives.
Other than swearing I tried to be the best roll model I could be.
I am so proud of their accomplishments in the arena and how far a few of them have been able to take their riding! And out if the atena when they would share with me reports, grades, graduations, college, jobs, marriages, & even some with children now!!!
Was I perfect? No I wasn’t and far from it at times.
Was I soft & gentle?
That’s a big NO I wasn’t.
Was I hard on them? Yes & at times probably more than I needed to be. Sometimes I needed to be harder.
Did I make them cry? Sometimes, & sometimes I cried FOR them.
Did I love them? YES! Every stinking cute, awkward, bratty, back talking, shy, dyslexic, emotional, tuff, complicated, poor & rich one of them!!!!
Through friendships, periods, boyfriends, drugs, birth control, alcohol, s*x, college, jobs, responsibilities, & even parenting, we talked about it all. I hope I have given them good advice along the way. Believe it or not they have taught me many things along the way as well! And with the boy students it was the same except change “boys” with girls & condoms.
I hope they have the courage to stand up for themselves. I hope they always feel worthy.
I hope they ask for what the need.
And above all I hope they take NO S**T as they go through life. Not one ounce!
Being a mom of one boy I feel as tho I’m now a mom of so many girls and I will cherish all of them. Some I no longer talk to and that’s ok. Whether or not they know it I still hold them in my heart. I have a handful that I still see at shows, connect with on FB, still call, send cards, & texts from time to time. I even have one that I hold very dear & consider her a grown-up adult friend now.
Along the way my husband Kevin has supported my desire to be away from home with “barn girls” year after year, between the last 12 years of the week at NBHA youth world, countless three day weekends away from home, building anything I needed at
S & S, putting up or repairing more fence than any man should have had to.
I am forever grateful to my mother for having horses before I was born & even in times of hardship we always had horses when I was growing up. She started a love in me that grew into a knowledge that I could support myself & Austin with when I had no higher education to fall back on.
I cannot even begin to put into words what Debi Wood has done for & how she has been to the success of S & S over the last 13 of my 20 years!
She is the backbone that kept it all running! She was the one setting her alarm for two and four in the morning to go check up on Horses that needed attention.
She was the first one the horses saw in the morning and the last one they saw in the evening. She took care of them as if every one of them were her own. In a few cases she took better care of a clients horse then they actually did. She always went above & beyond what her responsibilities were to make sure the horses were taken well cared of.
She was our barn manager, emergency vet, start up instructor, security guard, (her husband was our lawn care man), horse holder, vet scheduler, dog rescuer, and DUCK wrangler. That last one she wasn’t to happy about tho!
There isn’t a day that went by that I wasn’t greatful for her. Especially the cold rainy days when I stayed home & she held down the fort!! I already miss our daily calls!
I thank God my & Austins lives were spent there. I took care of the property as tho it was my own & LOVED being there. It was privileged to be there but now it has sadly come to an end.
If you have ever spent time at S & S I hope you enjoyed being there as much as we enjoyed having you!es