Turning your back and or walking away from a jumping or hyper dog won’t stop most of them from doing it againThis is old advice that doesn’t implement prevention tactics so your dog doesn’t self reward with the unwanted behaviors. You’ve done your research, asked family members and friends who gave you this advice because it worked for them but unfortunately it’s not working the same for your dogIt’s hard in the dog world right now, there are a lot of different tactics to solve the same problem, although it might be easier in the short term to give up, you will still be struggling in the long term. A hard truth about owning dogs is that it takes experimenting to find what works best for them, because they are individuals just like us, which is why we love them so much. So if you have tried the old advice and it didn’t work, here are 3 effective steps you can do instead…1) Know what causes your dog to jump or get super hyper. 2) Prevent the behavior by having a leash on them or use a physical barrier like a baby gate or fence. 3) Teach them a still behavior to do when they get hyped up such as sit, lay down or stand. Make sure to really make this behavior awesome for them and give them multiple chances to choose it instead of the unwanted behavior It’s always messy for the first few minutes of taking them around tough situation, give them multiple tries and help them by luring tasty food in front of them so they do the behavior you taught them. Because each dog is so different, I always have multiple way of helping owners reach their goals. 20 Days To Calm provides 3 great ways to help them calm down and relax this winter, I know at least one of them will work for you and your dog. Doors close this week
It’s a control device but also a key to freedom. I see more conflict and relational issues between dogs and humans because of the leash than from anything else. This is because it feels natural for us to pull back hard on the leash when they start to pull on it. And it’s natural for them to pull even more in response to you pulling back. It’s a pattern we all fall into, especially when your dog is displaying annoying or dangerous behaviors on the walk, controlling them seems like the right fix in the moment When your dog gets tired of it because too many back and forth leash battles have commenced, they start checking out and ignoring you, digging into the ground to get closer to what they want, becoming very loud and vocal and lunging with all their weight. Eventually walking your dog is the biggest and most painful chore in your day instead of the highlight where you both get to go exploring and enjoy each other’s company. If you want to change this and walk a dog who happily walks without ignoring you or constantly pulling, let’s start with changing how they feel about the leash by paring the tight leash with food and a loose leash -Practice in a boring environment-Let your dog go out ahead of you and pull but don’t walk with them, freeze where you are. -Say yes to mark that they get a reward when they turn to look at you. -Make sure the leash is loose till they create the tension in it. -Rinse and repeat with multiple lengths on the leash. Once this is going consistently well, up the d
Understanding your dog better takes time, and when we just opt to doing what we think is the right thing for them such as punishing unwanted behaviors, we could possibly be making things worse for themWhat it comes down to is understanding the motivating emotion behind why they are doing what they are doing When you understand that, then you were able to do some experimenting to see if the way that you are handling the unwanted behaviors and rewarding. The Wanted behaviors is actually resulting in a more positive emotion, or calmer emotion around that situation that you are training them inOne of the most common examples, I see of where an E collar creates more anxiety, and intensifies behavior instead of positively changing the emotion, is with reactivityIf you don’t know what reactivity is, it’s when a dog is automatically reacting to an emotion towards a person or thing like a car, or another dog or animalAnd when they are reacting, they are usually barking lunging, pulling, acting aggressive, making strange loud noises, bouncing around a lot, staring at the trigger. These are usually really tough and embarrassing behaviorsFor a dog that is reacting because they are afraid of the other dog, reacting in an aggressive way, teaches them that they can keep themselves safe. When you punish the behavior with a tool like an E collar, and then not give them what is most rewarding (safety), then that punishment is only going to teach them that the behavior they displayed didn’t work, let’s try something else. They are still afraid of the other dogs though and probably going to still get reactive from time to time But if you stop the unwanted behavior and then give them what they ACTUALLY want, you can start to give them other behaviors to try that you find acceptable and they find rewarding But it all starts with the dogs emotions and wants, not stopping behaviors you don’t likeIf you want me to walk you through a simple formula that shows you how to do all this
I’m small but I can handle pretty large and or strong dogs who know how to leverage their weight to get what they want. Having a dog pull you around on leash is scary, dangerous, uncomfortable and feels reinforcing to them when they get to where they want to go, which means they are more likely to keep doing that to you. So one of the effective ways to help stop them being rewarded for pulling and adding to the likelihood of them doing it again, is making sure they can’t get you to take steps forward or stretch your arms out closer to the thing they want. For some dogs, even the smallest of amount of forward movement when they are pulling can be rewarding to themI accomplish this by keeping my elbows close to my sides, making sure my knees are bent and shifting my weight to the back foot. As I’m walking with my dog, I’m always aware of how I’m holding the leash and walking so I don’t get caught off guard if my dog all the sudden bolts towards something. Does your dog easily get you to move with them due to their size or strength? https://www.freeandbalancedk9training.com/free-consultation. #leashtraining #walkyourdog #seattledogtraining #dogsofseattle #dogtraining
One of the most frustrating things I have ever experienced with my dog is her constant pulling on the leash during walks Over the years, I have met so many people who also struggle and dislike walking their dogs because of the pullingSo here are a few of my tricks that have made the experience way less frustrating 🐕🦺 Use a long leash and walk faster till they have visibly calmed down and can slow down to more of your pace. When you use a long leash, your dog has more room to walk at their pace and it also helps eliminate the pulling, not for all of course, I know plenty of dogs who stay pulling even at the end of a 30ft leash. With that long of a leash though, you barely feel it and if you mix it with the next tips, your pulling will start to go away. 🐕🦺 As soon as they pull, you have to put the breaks on, moving forward with tension on the leash will only further reward the behavior and keep their brains amped up for long stretches of time 🐕🦺As soon as they look at you after pulling or as they are walking along sweetly, move backwards to get them to follow you and get into your bubble. This gives me an opportunity to reward my dog and get them wanting to check in more often. For some dogs it also helps to keep them from constantly staying at the end of the long line. 🐕🦺Once they are engaged with you and in your bubble, either reward by feeding them directly or by scattering multiple pieces of food on the ground for them to sniff out. This rewards their engagement as well as keeps them more mentally calm. Have you ever used a long leash for your dogs walk before? I created a free 7 day summer activity challenge that will also help with your frustrating walk, if you want it, send me a DM!
Is this you and your dog?
You know what kind of walk you want but getting there is taking longer than you anticipated and it seems like nothing is working or you just haven’t started yet because of x y or z
I get it, there’s a lot of different ways to train the walk
And then you have time to think about, how do you make time in an already crammed day?
But getting a nice walk no matter what approach you try, takes time
And not all approaches are going to work for you and your dog, especially if there are a lot of other behavior struggles that are adding to a hard walk
But you have to start somewhere if you’re tired of BEING walked by your dog or yanked over to every smell, human or critter they find
You have to make the time if you want to start broadening your dogs world in a way that doesn’t cause mental and physical exhaustion to you where you swear you’re never taking that dog on a walk ever again (this was me too fyi 🤪)
All you need is 5 minutes a day to start, you can add more time as you continue making progress and as you start to enjoy the process with your furry friend
So take the first step and send me a message for details on how we can work together to find the right walking techniques for you and your dog
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Working with food is not as easy as it seems. Take using high value treats as an example. It seems like a no brainer to just use something your dog can’t say no to.
But it can kick you in the butt later when you realize without that food, your dog still has all those same unwanted issues and emotions and chances are, you are going to find this out after you’ve gotten your dog closer to the struggle, not expecting it to still be a problem
I cover all of the ins and outs of using food in training for any dog in my Masterclass that’s now only available in my membership, The Dog Talk
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On session one I set my clients up for success by only giving them 1-2 new tasks to start with
Rome wasn’t built in a day and neither is you and your dogs behavior change
So if you want to make a new habit of getting your dog to value food, I’m going to give you 1-2 new habits to start building today such as using your dogs meal for training
If I give you too many tasks to try and accomplish before our next meet up, I know the likelihood of consistency is going to be slim
Lack of consistency can really impact more in our lives than we realize, that will be a post for another day
So let’s just start with one new habit at a time, get the hang of it and then add more as we go
Behavior changes takes time
What’s one new habit you recently started getting consistent with or want to start today?
I’ll post mine in the comments with you!
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Does your dog move away or not approach new people or dogs? Are they tail tucked and noticeable shy or do they just flat out ignore them like they don’t exist? When Booma was a puppy, I forced her into situations she wanted nothing to do with and now she has no concept of being able to move away unless we are outside in a large space. This is a huge problem with her living in a small house with Maple. Maples a bull in a china shop and has no care about how big she is and how much space she takes up so mix that with Booma who doesn’t understand that she can move away when face to face with Maple in a tiny space and you have a full blown dog fight. A lot of multiple dog households encounter scuffles or tension between their dogs. Some don’t because one of the dogs is passive enough and removes them selves from the situation or just gives up and deals with their life situation. But what I hope to see happen is that you learn to read your dogs in the hope that they don’t just give up or they don’t escalate the situation and then your in a place like me and my girls, of having to go back and help them feel better about each other in tight spaces I offer both in person and virtual sessions to help with dog to dog confidence and trust building as well as dog to human confidence building. Send me a DM to get started! #virtualdogtraining #seattledogtraining #dogconfidencebuilding
My intentions were always good, but the knowledge piece took a while to catch up to what I was searching for in my heart, a fair way to train that didn’t leave the owners struggling for years before they started seeing long lasting results2.5 years ago I moved dogs quickly through my training program and by the end there was so much successBut there was also a lot of dependencies on the methods I used and without them, they fell back into old habits while their owners were getting the hang of the training I couldn’t read the dogs back then we’ll enough to know that the dependencies were happening or that they were still not feeling great about what I was doingI’ve learned over time, most of the owners ditched a lot of the things I taught them and some found new trainers to work with These things happen often in this industry, we think we know it all when we really have so much more to learn, including how to teach the owners and also sometimes it is the owner not staying consistent enough and then continuously looking for the magic button from each new trainerI won’t beat myself up over the past because I know my intent to help was just as strong as it is nowSo here are some changes I chose to make over the years… ⭐️ Instead of stepping into the dog or blocking their access, I use food to position them where I want them to be⭐️ Instead of applying Ecollar or leash pressure to get reliable obedience, I build engagement and a choice based system that helps me read why they won’t listen and then fix that for them so we both get what we want⭐️ Instead of forced pack walks where I have to make them behave in the beginning, I use 2 methods of a slower and less stressful introduction using barriers, food and distance⭐️ Instead of waiting for dogs to give up and choose to let me put their collars or leashes on, I create a game where they beg me for it Past me’s methods were not right for me but that doesn’t mean they are wrong for you or ot
Teaching dogs is not always a linear process, there is usually a ton of ups and downs and caveats.As you begin the process of teaching your dog, the complexities will become obvious but I have a plan for you to make it easier! The number one way that you will know if your not successful in teaching your dog something or changing their behavior, is by noticing if things are progressing or regressing with time.If your not able to add enough value to help combat really strong emotions such as fear, you are going to see a regression in your training.So I suggest an audit system to gauge your training or how your dog is adjusting to certain situations or changes by using a system of 3’s.If after 3 days or 3 sessions or 3 repetitions, you don’t see progress happening, that’s your cue to start problem solving, trying new things or pivot into a completely different direction.Dogs learn through a reward system, like most of us. But each dog has a different idea of what valuable is.So by using my system of 3’s, you can see if the reward system you are trying to use for this specific dog is not working, before you get too far down the rabbit hole and the dog completely goes backwards.At that point you are now having to do repair work because the thing you were trying to teach has become aversive or they have found a reward system for the opposite thing you are trying to teach them that has more value than what you were trying to give them.So if you see things slowly getting worse instead of better, stop what you’re doing and either ask for help or try something elseIf you need help with your obedience. commands, The presale for Obedience: The portal to a fun and convenient lifestyle with your dog starts today! It’s $50 But it will go up to $250 on SaturdaySend me a DM for the link 😊
A great little nugget of information from my Resilient Playful Pup MasterclassObedience should be last on your list of priorities when training your dogs and puppiesThe first thing you should focus on is calming your dog down! Without the skills of being calm and focused around distractions, your dog and or pup will need to spend more time on training than if you just focused on these skills first Everything comes easy when your dog is calm and receptive, it also becomes easier to learn what motivates them the best so the things you are teaching them can stick long-term. The process to getting calm varies from dog to dog. Some need an easy win so they don’t become frustrated and check back out. Some need fast paced movement, some need very slow methodical movements. Some dogs need to spend a lot of time looking and processing their environment So as an owner who is trying to take your dog into the world more, teaching obedience to create calmness is not going to yield the results you are looking for, calmness needs to come first. I cover the important skills for calmness and focus in my Foundations course. This is a self paced course with lots of how-to demonstrations, Dm me if your interested If you feel like your dogs focus and calmness is already at a 10 and you do want to add more obedience but are struggling with your dogs understanding or consistency to listen, I have something amazing for you in the works!!! If your too impatient to wait, I can easily and happily teach you how to teach your dog through virtual training or in person sessions, send me a Dm for more information!
My first Bootcamp with @tulsapack was a complete blast! I got to see how impactful on the many owners lives this way of training is! Several of the owners who were in my mini pack had done other boot camps and I could tell based on their handling and how their dogs were interacting with them 🥹 If you’ve heard of virtual training before and considered it but have only seen the options for zoom or live sessions once a week, I’m here to tell you, there is a better option! At Tulsa Pack, you don’t have to be in the same time zone or meet up live. You get same day feedback or answers to your questions plus bite sized demonstrations that won’t leave your brain spinning but still gives you something impactful to practice till the next days lesson If your interested in working virtually with me or in a group bootcamp with multiple Tulsa Pack trainers, send me a Dm!
When you teach your dog language, there has to be enough of an incentive to listen and you have to practice multiple times a week in a controlled or semi controlled environment (if your dog feel like it’s in danger where your at, they won’t be able to learn and retain the info, leaving you both feeling frustrated)
If your doing these two things and still struggling then I suspect there might be a minor tweak or two that needs shifting in your technique. Sometimes your subtle body cue or leash handling could be putting a sour taste in your dogs mouth during training
Show of hands in the comments 👇 if you’ve struggled to get your dog to constantly respond to your taught words
A deeper look at how I calmed my nervous system this morning with Denali
On the inside, I’m a chicken when it comes to conflict with dogs
But doing the type of training I’m doing, and helping the types of owners I’m helping, means being able to be afraid but still think clearly in those moments
Todays success is due to my ability to not dwell on the training before I’m in that moment. Instead I focus on the tasks on hand leading up to the training such as setting up the camera or prepping the other dogs
Breathing in a way that works for me during the session is my other necessary calming technique. I know there’s so many different breathing techniques but in the moment I forget them all so just noticing my breath is what I do
Then there is taking intentional breaks so both you and your dog can re-coup before going back, if your in public, this might mean 10 minutes in the car or a slow sniff walk away from the trigger
The nervous system in both humans and dogs amazes me, so much is effected at a quick rate by the body without us realizing it, but once you see that you can also effect it with your thoughts, breath and prep work, you start to feel very mighty, like you can do anything!
But before you go fly to the moon, start with today, with this moment, with your next steps
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My Birthday was amazing! First time in a long time that I didn’t let the negative emotions take over my day. We played for a few hours at the museum then went shopping for some new albums. Amelia got two that she’s been wanting, Billy Eilish and an anime one. I can’t resist some older rock bands.
We then made BLTs and watched Soul. That movie was amazing btw, I highly recommend it!
Not everything is black and white and what we may think is happening for our dogs may not actually be what they are experiencing.
The only way we will know
Is by giving them an opportunity to express their behaviors and experiment to see what they are trying to tell us. Sometimes we know right off the bat but sometimes we don’t.
And when we just go into correcting the behavior, we could be making their feelings worse or destroying trust in the relationship.
When ever I speak about letting dogs have their voice, I never mean it as let them run wild and do what they please, regardless of other people or animals, but there are ways to give both sides a real shot at communicating.
No one likes being in a one sided relationship, even your dogs.
So let this be a funny reminder that they deserve their voice just as much as you or I do
The walk is not about who is in front, it’s about the two parties working together and enjoying each other’s company.
My rules for any dog on the walk is
-respect the leash and don’t pull on it
-pay attention to their name
-pay attention to my body movement cues
-have fun exploring with me
For reactive dogs, all of this applies to them, the biggest difference is that I don’t walk them in places with their triggers till I know they can succeed at the rules listed above.
Well it’s been quite the week but I ended up being contacted about a tough Husky who needed out and away from a bad home she’s been in for two years In order to not be taken to the pound and put down.
After working with a family member who took her in temporarily, we managed to find a rescue to take ownership of her so I could foster/rehab her.
Yesterday she was bit snarly when I went to take her out of the crate so she stayed in there till she was ready to come out.
She’s a slow intro dog so I’m not pushing it and I’m going to go at her pace for a while.
Her name is Denali and I will be posting a lot about her in hopes to get this deserving dog a home with some one who is Husky savvy and has the time to help her learn how to be with humans the right way.