09/09/2024
Trigger warning- this video is hard to watch.
How do we call our dogs our best friends and members of the family, but still not be willing to "hear" them when they tell us they are uncomfortable, afraid, or in pain? Why is there this disconnect?
From Kommetjie Canine College (it wouldn't post intact and this is a wonderfully pointed comment):
One of the main ways that we evaluate whether we are doing a good job is to continually assess the emotional state of the dogs we are working with, whether it is in classes or private lessons. If we see ANY signs of anxiety, stress, fear, hesitation, reluctance to engage, displacement behaviours or any remote indication that a dog is uncomfortable, we assess what is causing that discomfort and work out what we can do to alleviate it IMMEDIATELY and prevent it from recurring in the future EVER again.
If the dogs we are working with are regularly uncomfortable or fearful, we are doing something seriously wrong and are completely failing as trainers. The fact that people happily share videos of their clients' dogs clearly terrified and traumatised is beyond comprehension. To not be able to see these emotions in a dog and call yourself a dog trainer is incredible. The level of ignorance or wilful blindness - or do some people actually think dogs should live in a state of fear - is staggering. It is unforgivable.
This is why we cannot and will not ever endorse or build bridges with people who believe it is okay to hurt and frighten dogs to get what they want. This sort of evidence cannot be ignored.