07/08/2024
I have been pondering making this post for a couple weeks, then a fellow cat rescuer posted something along the same thoughts this morning, so here it goes.
Over the past few weeks, I have been made aware of cats and kittens in need of rescue. In both instances, THEY reached out to me. I responded by offering my assistance, my experience and my knowledge. I held fosters to take these cats/kittens, and had homes lined up for them. Sadly, in both cases, the people (who ironically reached out to me for help) then decided to “rescue” themselves, or do absolutely nothing , or do an half-_ssed job! (Meaning catching half, leaving half including momma) The amount of emotional 🖤 distress this caused me to sit on the sidelines is so overwhelmingly frustrating. Why was I unable to help? Because people will ask for help, yet put time constraints on when that help can come. People will reach out for help, yet give excuses why the cats or kittens can’t be caught, i.e., the owner wants to keep the kittens as barn cats, they can’t find or catch the momma cat, they want to bond with the cat first, or they want to only catch the females because they can have the babies. 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️ Kind of like calling for an ambulance or fire truck, but telling them they can only come between certain hours, or they can only stop the bleeding in one part of the body, or only put the fire out in part of the house 🤦♀️🤬 Seriously! Why is it that common sense, the simple difference between right and wrong, the humane treatment of animals, goes so wrong? 😑 Is it that people would rather stay in the “victim/oh poor me” role, than resolve a situation? Please remember it is not YOU who is suffering, it is the animals!!! I truly do try to understand and reason with people. I have had to bite my tongue with such unreasoning just so I can get to my ultimate goal of helping a cat/kitten. The reason for our current cat overpopulation epidemic is PEOPLE!
The flip side of all this frustration are the wonderful people who treated me with respect and dignity. They were patient with me, my schedule and took responsibility for feral cats. I like working with people that have this attitude, it's positive, and I want to say, THANK YOU SO VERY MUCH!
TNR trappers are all volunteers - no pay, or compensation. We spend hours trapping waiting, driving (200 miles a day average for me), supply food, high value bait, p*e pads, newspaper, zip ties, sheets, towels, paper towels, cleaners ( rescue, bleach, Microban, Mr. Clean and Lysol), latex gloves, shelters( duct tape/gorilla tape, straw, wood, coolers & spray foam insulation). We do it second nature so I may have left some things out.
My day starts at 6 AM and sometimes I don't stop until 10 PM. After trapping I set up traps...I change out the newspaper, I feed them, deworm them, and try to access them. As a professional pet sitter/dog walker, I also have other cats and dogs that I take care of, not to mention my own pets. Other cats/kittens in my care are misfits waiting to be rehomed but will feel loved & part of a family until that happens. We always need fosters.
We need YOU to spay/neuter your pets. Get involved, spay/neuter your community stray and ferals. Don't turn a blind eye because that feral will somehow multiply into 20 within a year. Stop it humanely before then. Don't be part of the problem.
Volunteer to transport... Donate to the cause!
I will gladly host a class to show you how to trap and I'm sure my fellow Trappers would help.
Most importantly, do not ask for help unless you are truly committed to receive that help!
Precious Paws & Friends