07/01/2024
Very well said!
When we work with horses we must first acknowledge that what we desire in a horse for behaviour is not what nature programmed them to do
When we think of spooky, flighty, wary, reactive horses we often see this as a challenge and while in the wild this horse would probably survive longer than the one that wasn't, in domestication these horses can often get a bit of bit of a raw deal
I watched a thing about horses that were working in the police force and they put heart monitors on them while going through training, now when faced with something they didn't like the horses that spooked actually began lowering their heart rate whereas the horses that quietly walked past kept the high heart rate, if we think of the sympathetic system hits a peak for the parasympathetic to overtake then the quiet horses were actually the more stressed horses
We often think of highly reactive as bad and super quiet as good. For me these are two extremes sides of the same coin and often if we force the horse We can see these two extremes in one session
Now horses do well to fit into our world it will shape their quality of life and often sadly the longevity of their life but I think we should have some admiration for them as the majority of the things we ask them to do goes against their natural instinct,
I always want somewhere in the middle if I am asking a horse to work I do not want a horse that has zoned out (this is not relaxation), neither do I want a horse that is so wired it is oblivious to me
Both of these reactions are extremes think of one that won't be eaten and the other doesn't care anymore
If your horse refuses to do something then we first have to ask the reason why and encourage the horse to be able to find the right answer without reprimand for getting it wrong for the horse will always remember the reprimand more than the task
Don't let ourselves mimic those two extremes we neither want to come across as a lion yet we don't want to come across as a sheep, we simply need to be someone who reassures their horse they won't die if they try
Don't hold your horse in some mystical reverence as you will put to much pressure on them to be something they might not want to be because if they don't meet your emotional needs they may always meet an owner in sadness which may reflect back on their mood, and while they can be a part of making us feel better it's not fair for us to continually dump all our own issues onto them
If we are in continual awe of what they will let us do then we may just be a little more considerate and understanding when they say no