Positively Best Friends

Positively Best Friends Dog Training "Where Training is fun at both ends of the leash." Obedience and enrichment classes for puppies and dogs of all ages.
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Our next session of beginner/novice rally starts next Thursday, August 15th! Interested? Email the instructor ann@positi...
08/08/2024

Our next session of beginner/novice rally starts next Thursday, August 15th! Interested? Email the instructor

[email protected]

PBF instructor Ann Walko teaches a four week brewery manners course at a local brewery (Boothbay Craft Brewery, Tavern &...
07/17/2024

PBF instructor Ann Walko teaches a four week brewery manners course at a local brewery (Boothbay Craft Brewery, Tavern & RV). The next start date is Wednesday, July 31st (classes at 5:15 PM)

More details in her post below!

What’s better than having a cold one with your best friend? Well, if your best friend has four legs and barks, your options were limited. Now you can take your dog to a brewery and enjoy a cold beer or another adult beverage. Ann Walko began brewery...

06/17/2024

Don’t look at the other dogs in your class.

Don’t look at your neighbor’s dog, or the dog you see out on their walk everyday.

Don’t look at your old dog who was a literal reincarnation of Lassie.

Look at your dog. Look at where they are now, and how far they have come. Look at the relationship you have developed with the help of your training. THAT is the only comparison game you should be playing.

It can be so tempting to compare our dog’s behavior to another’s; “why does my dog do X, Susan’s dog next door has NEVER done that! Did she do something right that I did wrong?” But the truth is that the answer to these questions is never simple, and comparing your dog to other dogs around you is setting yourself up for failure and frustration.

Instead, look at where you and your dog started, and be proud. Be proud of the hard work you’ve done. Be proud of the trust you have built with your dog. Focus on progress, not perfection, and don’t forget to celebrate even the littlest wins.

06/17/2024

Useful quick read article on how to tell an expert from an imitator. Most common signals in my experience (at least among dog trainers): use of jargon and popular "recipes."

What are the tell-tale signs *you* see that tell you someone is an expert or merely an imitator? Link in comments too!

Picture of dog in truck just because. . . He was not going to let us drive off without him! This is his face when we asked him to get out of the vehicle. He won the negotiation.

https://fs.blog/experts-vs-imitators/

Space available for novice/beginner Rally on Thursday mornings at 10:30. Starting next week - June 20th. FMI email:ann@p...
06/13/2024

Space available for novice/beginner Rally on Thursday mornings at 10:30. Starting next week - June 20th.

FMI email:
[email protected]

06/03/2024

Interested in Rally? New novice class session begins June 13th (Thursdays at 10:30am) and I have a few openings!

[email protected]

🤣 Fun in Monday night’s nosework class! Fellow PBF instructor Pam Parker with Spike finding a creative way to the odor! ...
05/14/2024

🤣 Fun in Monday night’s nosework class! Fellow PBF instructor Pam Parker with Spike finding a creative way to the odor! 🤔

-Ann

Upcoming classes on Thursdays start May 30th!Good Pup: Classes at 4PM & 6PMGreat Beginnings: Class at 7:15PMStarting Sat...
05/01/2024

Upcoming classes on Thursdays start May 30th!
Good Pup: Classes at 4PM & 6PM
Great Beginnings: Class at 7:15PM

Starting Saturday, May 11th @ 11:30AM:
Mind Your Manners/CGC Prep
(CGC eval will coincide with the end of this class)

Email to register: [email protected]

Https://www.positivelybestfriends.com

Dog Training and Canine Activity Center in Midcoast Maine

There is s**ce available in the Thursday morning Rally classes and Wednesday night nosework. The Wednesday night class i...
04/21/2024

There is s**ce available in the Thursday morning Rally classes and Wednesday night nosework. The Wednesday night class is now open to all levels!

Starting May 1st
Wednesdays 7PM: Nosework (all levels)

Starting May 2nd
Thursdays 9AM Rally: Intermediate/Advanced
Thursdays 10:30AM Rally: Beginner/Novice

FMI or to register please email [email protected]

More details on our website:

Dog Training and Canine Activity Center in Midcoast Maine

New classes starting soon!Monday 4PM Nosework: Beginner/NoviceThursdays 9AM Rally: Intermediate/AdvancedThursdays 10:30A...
04/05/2024

New classes starting soon!

Monday 4PM Nosework: Beginner/Novice
Thursdays 9AM Rally: Intermediate/Advanced
Thursdays 10:30AM Rally: Beginner/Novice

FMI or to register please email [email protected]

More details on our website:

Dog Training and Canine Activity Center in Midcoast Maine

04/04/2024

ALL CLASSES ARE CANCELLED TODAY DUE TO… well, you know…

Stay home and stay safe!

03/25/2024

PBF still doesn't have power. The 5:15 class is ON, though no restroom or water available, but 6:30 is questionable. Please keep an eye on this page and on your email. EDIT POWER IS BACK ON! CLASSES ON AS NORMALLY SCHEDULED.

03/22/2024

We are watching the weather for tomorrow (3/23/24) morning's classes. Looks dicey at this point, we will make a decision by 8 PM Friday 3/22/24. EDIT: SATURDAY CLASSES CANCELLED!

01/25/2024

This doesn't happen often! We have 2 open spots in our Saturday 10:15 Agility I class. We can accommodate both foundation students and novice dog and handler teams. Please contact us ASAP is interested.

01/25/2024

We have 2 open spots available in our Saturday 11:30 Mind Your Manners class. This is a great place to brush up on all your "real life" obedience skills, come join us!!!

We had a super successful CGC and Trick Dog evaluation.  7 dog and handler teams earned their CGCs, and 7 earned new Tri...
01/22/2024

We had a super successful CGC and Trick Dog evaluation. 7 dog and handler teams earned their CGCs, and 7 earned new Trick Dog titles. Two of our CGC folks slipped out before the picture, but here is the rest of the crowd. We had a lot of fun and everyone pitched in. Congratulations!!!

01/21/2024

Congrats to all, on your new CGC's and Trick Dog titles. Fun afternoon at PBF!

01/16/2024

Agility & Comp Obedience w/Marcia this evening are cancelled. Stay safe!

01/12/2024

Based on the current projections, classes are ON for tomorrow. Looks like it will be rain even for the 9 AM Class.

01/12/2024

We are watching the weather carefully as it pertains to Saturday morning classes. It will be turning to rain but the question is what happens before that, specifically between 7 and 9 AM. Please keep am eye on this page.

01/07/2024

AKC Canine Good Citizen (CGC) & AKC Trick Dog testing - Sunday, January 21st @ 10AM. $15 per test. FMI/register: [email protected]

This is an uncomfortable topic, but very important.
12/20/2023

This is an uncomfortable topic, but very important.

Behavior euthanasia. Let’s talk about it. And just for fair warning, if you get rude, judgemental, or unkind, you’ll be blocked. I’ve experienced enough of that. I have zero tolerance anymore. This topic is hard enough as it is. I’m all for discussions, but disrespect is not okay.

The questions people ask all the time are, HOW do you make a decision like that? How do you know what’s right or when it’s the right choice?

There is no easy answer, but I’ve decided to share with you some basic principles and factors that I focus on communicating to people when they are contemplating this awful decision. In this article I’m talking primarily about Behavior Euthanasia due to aggression such as biting, however some of this can absolutely apply to severe fear and anxiety cases too.

1. Predictability. If you have a dog with a tendency to aggress or bite - predictability is everything when it comes to safety. For instance, if I have a dog who gets aggressive when in possession of a toy or a bone, that’s predictable. However it can vary can’t it? If the dog is aggressive over toys or bones but ALSO over any s**ce or item, that’s less predictable. Maybe outside of the home he doesn’t display that behavior but inside he does? Again, different variables. But predictably is extremely important because it allows us to talk about management and future prognosis.

2. Proximity. Let’s go back to the dog who guards a bone again. Maybe he only gets aggressive or has bitten someone when they get REALLY too close to him or try to touch him. That proximity mixed with that predictably is important. If the dog has a low proximity threshold, that makes the dog easier to manage. BUT if he has a high proximity, as in when he’s got a bone you can’t walk in the same room with him, that is a much higher risk. Proximity makes a big difference in safety also.

3. Inhibition. Bite inhibition is critical. This is the force and violence inflicted by the dog when he does aggress and how many times he bites. Even if a dog has low predictability, high proximity (both problems) but has GOOD inhibition, that’s a much safer scenario. A dog who has poor inhibition even with low proximity and high predictability is a really bad one. Why? Because if management fails, the level of damage incurred can be catastrophic to the wrong person (child) or animal (small versus large etc) An inhibited bite may result in contact with something, but not break skin, leave a mark etc. A poorly inhibited bite can result in punctures, crushing, tearing and more. Bite inhibition can lessen over time depending on so many factors, but it can also be an individuals characteristic, result of the trigger involved and more. Even still; this is an imperative part of risk assessment in cases. If the dog DOES bite, how much are we risking? A mild scratch, or reconstructive surgery. Dr Ian Dunbar scale of bites is a great place to start reading about levels 1-6 of bite inhibition.

4. Environment. Is the environment set up in such a way that’s making predictability, proximity and inhibition difficult? If the dog that bites over resources is in a very small home with lots of people/children, is that increasing the risk or potential for more aggression to occur. A dog who doesn’t like strangers in an apartment complex close to them all the time, etc etc. Can that environment be changed successfully has to be considered.

5. Number of incidents. This matters and then it also doesn’t. If a dog has really predictable aggression, in low proximity and really good bite inhibition, but has 4 bites on record - even if they weren’t reported, this is important to consider for safety and liability. Something has to change - whether its environment or management (see below) to ensure this doesn’t continue. But if a dog has only one incident, that results in a severe injury or worse fatality of a person or animal, that is a very extreme risk, even if it was predictable or low proximity etc. But a low predictive high proximity poor bite inhibition dog is a very high risk even if there’s only one incident.

6. Public safety and wellbeing. Is this dog a risk to the general public? Are these incidents ONLY happening in one environment or are they also happening elsewhere. If management is involved and that fails at some point, what is the risk to the public? The general public are not all versed in body language, etiquette and understanding of dogs, and many do not always take necessary steps to avoid potentially hazardous scenarios (it’s okay! He’s friendly!) This must be considered as an element in decision making.

7. Relationship. The humans matter here too. If we look at a dog with a multi bite history (even if predictable, low prox, good bite inhibition) but the human is now totally traumatized and scared of her dog and the behaviors, that’s a consideration here also. If the dog has done serious damage to someone or another animal, and the handler witnessed this or worse yet had to break it up etc, that can shift the entire relationship that person has with that animal. And not just that person, the whole family.

8. Management. Let’s say we check all the boxes. We have an unpredictable but low proximity threshold but poor bite inhibition dog in a good environment with 2 prior bites with a handler extremely dedicated to management. That management would involve preventing a third occurrence through the use of tools like muzzles, gates, leashes, fences etc. BUT what we have to truly understand and encourage thoughts of is WHAT IF that management fails. If the dog is only 1 year old, but may live to be 15, is that management level sustainable over a long period of time without getting complacent and having another terrible incident that then brings us back to square one. And if the history of prior incidents are already severe, what amount of risk is the person willing to accept in that case?

9. Quality of life. Yes this matters for human and dog. Dogs living segregated, muzzled all the time, even in the house, or rotated etc can for many dogs affect their general happiness and life. Humans living with a dog they fear or have trauma from seeing things also deserve consideration too. Is that quality of life going to potentially lead to another incident?

All of this matters and none of it is concrete or black and white. Some people are willing to live certain ways and under certain parameters because they have the capability to do so, but others can’t or aren’t comfortable doing so. We have to remember that not EVERYONE wants to be a professional dog trainer. Not everyone has the capacity to do what’s needed in some cases to keep everyone safe. Their house is too small; they have young children, they have multiple small animals and pets, they live in an apartment, they don’t have a yard etc etc. Of course in these cases we are discussing ALL aspects of the dogs health, their life; their past and the humans too on top of just this stuff. No stone is left unturned. Judgement is not necessary if you aren’t living in the persons shoes and faced with this decision.

Can they just rehome the dog? In some cases, this can be a valid option. I have rehomed dogs too. Rescues and shelters are faced with this dilemma all the time. The majority of dogs now in rescues and shelters have SOME form of behavior concern - whether mild like housetraining a puppy or manners in a young dog, to separation problems etc etc. Dogs with histories of aggression or bites are much harder to rehome safely for liability reasons as well as ethical ones too. It’s so important to realize that if a person adopts a dog with severe aggression or a history of aggression and that aggression continues, or worsens, another incident occurs, even if everything is done the way it should be, the rescue is then liable and the reputation of ALL rescue dogs is in jeopardy. So many dogs who have no histories at all end up losing their lives in overcrowded shelters or rescues because people who have had a poor experience now won’t try again the next time. That’s a serious concern, and it’s happening everywhere.

What about training? Yes, some training can help and be extremely useful. But it also can’t undo prior incidents or histories. It can rebuild relationships, foster better coping skills, and teach good management, but it can’t undo genetics, it can’t always make unpredictable things predictable, it can’t change a bite from a crushing puncture to a small graze. Training can do a lot, but it also cannot do everything. It’s so easy to blame an incident or a situation on the person - even the handler will do it to themselves - because when we are dealing with this kind of painful decision if we can just find a way to make an excuse not to do it - “the person should’ve could’ve would’ve” but that’s not always the case. Truly, some dogs have traits that make them a liability to have in our society today safely. No matter how much a person does. Some are genetically predisposed, some are made that way through previous trauma, some are medical issues, some are a combination of all this and more, and some we will NEVER KNOW or understand. But placing blame is dangerous because it leads to false understanding even if its primary reason is to give us comfort and sense of security from the unknown.

There is no perfect, easy, feel good way to approach behavior euthanasia. No one I’ve ever met has WANTED to have these discussions or be faced with this. Ever. I’ve never met anyone, a client or rescue person or shelter person who has sat down and said “I’d really like to take in this dog only to have to be faced with saying goodbye to him after XYZ happens” So the only thing we can do is support them through this and talking them through this points above. I have had to do this myself. With my own dog. And it’s agony, but it’s also so so necessary now to have rational and non emotional considerations when discussing these cases. I myself was too emotional and so I NEEDED professionals around me to ask me these questions, guide my thought process. We have to also remember that dogs that are considered for BE are still good dogs. Most of the time they are wonderful loving companions, but when and if they do aggress, the risks outlined above are what have to be thought through. Thats what makes it so hard. Most BE cases are not these Cujo dogs that everyone has imagined is the scale we are looking at. On the contrary these dogs are often wonderful 99% of the time. BUT, in that 1% they aren’t, what is the risk - to the public, to the household, to other pets, to the handler? People can say anyone who makes a decision to BE just didn’t love their dog enough or didn’t try hard enough, and I will tell you in 23 years of doing this, the people who choose BE love their dogs more than anything. They love them more than their pride to “make it work”, or their own heart that is breaking, they love them enough to protect them from doing further damage or pain elsewhere. They love them enough to say goodbye to them peacefully and lovingly and by their side.

So those are my thoughts - briefly - for you to consider on this subject, and unless you’re the person faced with the decision - whether an individual, a family, a shelter/rescue or even a breeder, I’d gently suggest you hold off on passing judgement or blame. If you had a dog that you considered this with but ended up not needing to, that’s wonderful, but that doesn’t change the individual factors in every case. So, instead, listen, discuss, and be kind. You never know when you may need kindness back in return. Thanks for reading.

- Helen St. Pierre 12/16/23 - if you share give credit

12/18/2023

Due to wind, debris, and power outages we are canceling classes tonight (Monday) 12/18.

12/15/2023

Two spots just opened up in our Thursday 4pm Foundation AGILITY Class! FMI Marcia.

New session of our foundation classes… Good Pup! (for pups 20 weeks or younger) starts Thursday, December 14th @ 4pm and...
12/04/2023

New session of our foundation classes… Good Pup! (for pups 20 weeks or younger) starts Thursday, December 14th @ 4pm and Great Beginnings! (older than 20 weeks) starts Thursday, December 14th with a choice of class times - 4pm or 7:15pm. More info on our website!

Dog Training and Canine Activity Center in Midcoast Maine

Good Reminder for the holidays.
12/02/2023

Good Reminder for the holidays.

Just some tidbits about pet safety with the holidays coming up! As always, please feel free to call us if you have any questions or concerns about your pet. We are open all weekend long.

12/02/2023

Just some tidbits about pet safety with the holidays coming up! As always, please feel free to call us if you have any questions or concerns about your pet. We are open all weekend long.

12/01/2023

Learn the signs of canine infectious respiratory disease complex (CIRDC), or “kennel cough,” and how to protect your pet from this highly contagious illness affecting the respiratory tract in dogs.

Please be vigilant and let your instructor know immediately if you suspect your dog is sick or has been exposed.
11/28/2023

Please be vigilant and let your instructor know immediately if you suspect your dog is sick or has been exposed.

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