06/10/2025
Absolutely love this! I have some horses in my practice that I strictly do hands off energy work because they are not quite ready for touch yet. This allows them to know that I’m listening, respecting them as individuals, and am capable of helping them release those emotions in a safe space.
Angry Horses?? Why do they shout
Often, I meet a lot of horses that the owner becomes worried as soon as i touch them they can be extremely and no uncertain words, aggressive.
I will tell you in every horse I have ever met they always have either long standing issues or deep issues that you may not have found yet. Often these horses are born with these issues and while they may only cope with just being a horse for some that isn't an option and if they don't fit the "norm", if they do not fit our ideal it's often a hard road ahead for them for often their behaviour will set them up to fail with every human encounter being both on the defensive because both human and horse just need to feel safe.
Maybe we should change the word from aggressive to listen to what I am saying as often if your horse is deemed aggressive, they have had to escalate it to that point from maybe a few years ago when they just gave a side eye or a tail swish, the problem with humans is we are not horses and often miss these first signals and some signals thereafter, it's no one fault we are just not horses.
Give enough space to a horse and you will see the signals are so subtle that another horse will react before we have even noticed give a horse a small enclosure, limited resources you will see the signals escalate
We think touch is soothing it's what we do as humans to comfort and calm but can you imagine being sore you tend not to want to be touched yet even a sore horse will have to have a daily interaction with some sort of touch.
Ever had a horse that is grumpy and just doesn't like being groomed by other horses we assume they are grumpy but is that grooming too painful for your horse, ever had a sore point on your horse ???what does everyone do they want to poke or prod the sore area so then the horse becomes very defensive to a point even your intention may cause a reaction.
We have labelled horses that don't fit into our way of how a horse should be
We are seeing this more and more with the likes of PSSM variants etc and often people are surprised that when I meet these horses where they say no, I don’t work as first I want them to know I am listening, I may ask the question again but I find even palpating such animals is extremely difficult for the horse to deal with
We must respect the fact they have an opinion and they can say no, often a first session of just listening to the horse and stopping when they say no leads to a better relationship between therapist and the horse, what is the point of working in an area when the horse has disconnected from you from the first palpation....
Do you know often just untying the lead rope on that first visit can lower the horses' defences, just waiting until the horse acknowledges you before you start, allowing the horse to focus on a hay net as an escape, allowing the horse to check in with the owner to get reassurance and giving off the energy that we hear you we won't touch where you say no, we won't hover our hands we will give clear signals where we want to go so you are prepared, think of working with your horse as its never a no just a not just yet.
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