05/19/2025
Just crossed my mind...
I'm no influencer and not sure I wanna be. I've been doing this for over 40 years, have chased down SO much education, and brought it home to apply to SO many horses and riders. If the horses didn't thrive with the techniques or the riders couldn't understand them, I either altered them or threw them out. I don't have time for inefficiency or confusion.
I'm done trying to influence people because I can't control what they find appealing. I can invest in those who are interested in learning what I believe in and teach.
I'm done trying to prove my ability by winning at shows while educating the horses ethically. I've already done that in dressage, western working events (everything from pleasure, reining, cowhorse, trail, western riding, ranch classes, blah blah blah), carriage driving, combined driving, in hand, breed and open show hunter stuff, more pattern classes than i can even count...you only get respect from the most recent prize you won. Everyone's memories are incredibly short. And the horses don't care.
I've just begun hanging out in my spot, educating horses and riders who jive with what I'm putting down. Education-based. History-based. Horse friendly. Different goals, different breeds, different uses. Knowing that every horse needs a thorough, broad, clearly understood, solid basic curriculum. Then you can add on skillsets necessary for specific activities.
The curriculum should be horse-friendly and age/experience/disposition appropriate, just like in school. The kids need to understand it, participate in it, and enjoy it enough to stay engaged. I work with big, hairy, four-legged kids.
Now I show to get the horses exposure, to promote an endangered breed (we are involved in Hackney Horses and Highland Ponies, both critically endangered), show a client horse if they want to go that route, expose people to ethical techniques molded to each particular horse, or teach folks who want to learn how to educate and show ethically how to do that. I make it clear, it's about celebrating the horse and growing the breadth of their experience. Prizes are nice, but you can only keep so many trinkets.
Great horsemen are not created on social media. They are created in the manège, over many horses and many years. The most gifted horseman or woman may be working away in some backwater town and may never be heard of outside of the clients who study with them. They may never write a bestseller, teach hundreds of clinics, or create an online course. They may just be a window into a deeper understanding of themselves and the horses/humans they touch.