01/01/2026
Do you have a soft spot for puppy dog eyes? Beware, it can get you into trouble...
I love a good snuggle with my dogs and I love giving them affection. That's what's so great about dogs right?! 🥰 However, it can turn on you really quick if you're giving affection at the wrong time.
Giving affection whenever your dog bumps your arm, shoves their face on your lap, barks at you, jumps on you, even sneaks in unknowingly and all of a sudden you have a giant lap dog... All of these are teaching your dog that not only can they DEMAND your attention and you give it to them, they can become so attached to your affection that they crave it like a drug and it creates a terrible dependency that they can't break on their own.
Do I feel like a prick for denying this sweet girl affection? I mean, look at that face! 🥹 Absolutely not 😅 I know that if I give into those sweet eyes I'll just keep adding to the beast. I'll gladly give her affection! When she's calm and relaxed or when we're playing. But when she's already struggling to shut her nervous system down it's the last thing I need to do right now. Ultimately I know withholding the affection will help her in the long run create a better relationship with myself and her owner and I'm in these things for the long run... Not just a quick fix.