Erin Hibbard Crosby Memorial Animal Sanctuary

Erin Hibbard Crosby Memorial Animal Sanctuary Two people who love animals creating a non-profit organization to house animals who don't have a home

05/22/2024

I've noticed that I'm getting a fairly regular stream of new views to this page. I'm not sure if it's people who know me, or people who are looking for Erin.

Just in case, let me update everyone.

It's been just under a year since Erin passed. I still miss her every day, but life is starting to take on a normal feel to it. Before we moved up here, I promised Erin I would build a catio for our cats. It's all done except for a small 3x3 section of the roof. The cats have been using it for about 8 months now. Now that it's getting warm again, I'll be working on refinements for it.

As far as getting the animal sanctuary going: I've been researching non-profits and funding options. I'm Native American, a registered citizen of the Cherokee Nation and the Shawnee Tribe. I'm looking into small business loans and grants from both of these institutions as well as from government sources.

I'm taking my time about it and letting myself heal before I get too involved in this project. I still want to do it because I know Erin would want me to and because I still love animals and hate to think how many there are out there who need food, care and shelter.

If anyone has any information they'd like to share that is relevant to making this project happen, please send me a message.

Thank you for your interest and God Bless.

-J

08/08/2023

Hello everyone. I was about %80 done with my Monday rescue story when the pump in the well house quit and our actual house suddenly was without water.

We were able to get a late afternoon service call and have water again, but the whole situation ate up the time I had allocated to spend finishing the story.

I should be able to get it done and posted tomorrow. I apologize for missing my promised schedule, again.

I missed my last couple of deadlines for posting rescue stories. I apologize for that. There's a lot going on in my worl...
07/31/2023

I missed my last couple of deadlines for posting rescue stories. I apologize for that. There's a lot going on in my world right now. Additionally, I'm still grieving for Erin. It's getting easier to get out of bed every day and to function, but I'm still adapting to the idea that she's gone.

The rescue story I'm sharing today took place on her birthday, maybe years ago. I don't remember the year specifically, but I believe it was 2006, though it's possible it was 2007.

This rescue story is about a cat who still lives with me. Her name is Smidge.

I was doing a contract for IBM at a company called Rexel, over off 635 between Hillcrest and Preston, I think it was. I went out mid-morning for a smoke break and heard this pitiful, pitiful, mewing.

Other people were standing around and smoking, but appeared uninterested in the source of the sound. Not I. Curiosity and the promise of a disruption to the routine of a work day motivated me to investigate. I eventually tracked the sound down to an SUV. And there, sitting up behind the back bumper, probably seeking shade for relief in the June heat, was a small, black kitten.

To all appearances, she was completely alone, but far too small to take care of herself. Certainly, a business complex at 635 and Hillcrest is not the best place for a cat to forage and she was too small to have wandered far from her home. She was definitely too small to have been weened. There was a small patch of wild land at the end of the parking lot and on the other side of that was a neighborhood. That seemed like the most likely place for her to have come from, so I'm guessing she got separated from her mother and her litter mates. They were nowhere to be found.

Smidge had been mewing, loudly and pitifully, for about 10 minutes that I was aware of. Her mother should have come running, but hadn't. The only other really plausible explanation is that someone didn't want her, brought her to work with them and dumped her in the parking lot. I hate to think that was the case, but things like that do happen.

As chance would have it, the date that day was June 13th: Erin's birthday. We had plans for me to come pick her up for lunch. I did, of course, with the surprise of a wee kitten in the center console.

We went to Chili's for lunch and asked for milk and hamburger for the kitten. She got a ridiculous amount of attention from the waitstaff. The change she underwent in a short period of time was amazing. She was alone and panicked when I found her. By the time lunch was over, she was purring, and happy with a full belly. It doesn't take much to make an animal happy most of the time. Feed them, scratch their ears. Be nice to them. Simple pleasures.

That's a good memory for me. Lunch, Erin, rescuing a kitten.

Smidge is asleep on the freezer, just a few feet away, as I write this. She probably has no memory of that day. But she does still have something that I gave her that day - a place in our family.

The only pictures of Smidge I have saved on this computer are of her not long after I brought her home. She's still a kitten and is learning the finer points of cat fighting from her big brother, Reagan. I've always like the smile that Reagan has in these photos. I'll post some more current photos of Smidge later, but these are a great place to start, I think.

His smile makes it perfectly clear that he's letting her win, and happy to do so (if it wasn't clear from the size difference between the two).

When I brought Smidge home, I had her in the bedroom, separate from the other cats. Reagan was the first to come to the door to meet new arrival. I let him in. He was very good at first, smelling her and sizing her up.

Then he sat on. He was big enough that I couldn't see Smidge at all when he sat down. I could hear her pitiful mew coming from under him, but that was. So I pushed him off her, gently.

He looked at me like I was crazy and moved to sit on her again.

She wasn't harmed the first time so I decided to give a second to see what happened. Reagan sat on Smidge for maybe five seconds. Then he got up and started bathing her.

My guess is that this was some sort of show of dominance. He had to let her know that he was in charge. Once that had been established, they could be friends. And they ended up being pretty good friends, as the pictures show. He played the role of surrogate dad.

So that's the story of finding and rescuing Smidge. I'll post pictures of her as a grown up later and I will make an effort at keeping to my posting schedule.

If you've come this far, then you've read the whole story, so to you I say: Thank you for reading. I hope you enjoyed it!

07/24/2023

I missed my scheduled posting of a rescue story last week. Something came up while I was writing it.

For those interested, there will be a rescue story posted tomorrow.

Sorry for the disruption, and right at the beginning too.

07/11/2023

I've been considering the name. Right now, the name is the same as the name of this page:

Erin Hibbard Crosby Memorial Animal Sanctuary

But I have been thinking about maybe changing it to:

Erin Hibbard Crosby Memorial Animal Home.

Ultimately, I want the animals who come to stay at the facility to feel like they have a home. In fact, the goal is more or less to make it a home for them for as long as they need it.

Over the next few months, I'm going to be sharing stories of the stray animals I have adopted, or taken in and fostered ...
07/11/2023

Over the next few months, I'm going to be sharing stories of the stray animals I have adopted, or taken in and fostered until I could find them homes.

This is the first of those stories. It seemed appropriate to start with the first stray I ever took in.

Rescue Story #1 - Nosy

I was in grade school the first time I took in a stray. If this were a work of fiction and I were the main character, I'd probably write something about how I knew, even then, that it was my mission in life, my sacred, God-given calling, to help the stray animals of the world.

But it wasn't like that. I was in either the 4th or 5th grade. I had no particular feeling of calling or mission, I was just a kid and I came across a kitten who needed a home. I had a home that had room for a kitten and I kind of wanted a pet of my own. My family had a cat, but it was the family cat. She was a sweet kitty and we got along well, but she wasn't my cat. (The family cat was part Manx. She had a stub of a tail about 3 inches long. It was actually kind of endearing. Real Manxes have no tail at all. This one would move her tail the way other cats do but without the graceful sweep of a full length tail, it always looked like an irritated swipe.) I had friends who had their own cats and dogs and I thought it might be nice if I had a cat that was mine.

I don't remember all the details of finding her. I remember that she was a kitten, though she wasn't a very young kitten. She was on the cusp of kitty adolescence and she was alone in my neighborhood. At the time, I had never seen a cat with markings like hers. She was a tabby, but a mix of orange and gray tabby. The way the colors alternated reminded me of a calico. Random patches, but instead of solid colors, there were varied areas of orange tabby stripes and gray tabby stripes.

Up until then, I'd had hamsters as pets and had aquariums, but neither hamsters nor fish are known for being terribly affectionate. I have heard stories of fish who seemed particularly attached to their owners, but I've never experienced it.

From the first, this kitten made it clear that I was her person.
I named her Nosy. It's a name that fit her quite well, as I'll explain, but I didn't know how she'd act when I named her. I got the name from a Henry Huggins book I'd read not long before finding this cat. He had a kitten he named Nosy and I liked the name. It was a simple as that.

If I left the house on my skateboard, she stayed behind. If I left the house on my bike, she stayed behind. If I left on foot, as often as not, she'd follow me. She followed me all over the neighborhood.

Sometimes, she'd follow me to a friend's house and find a nice shady place to hang out. When I came out, she'd be waiting there and would hop up and follow me. She didn't want to be carried. She didn't want to walk beside me. She wanted to follow. It was kind of cute.

My 6th grade year, I had a girlfriend who lived on the next street over.

Over the summer time, when we were going to hang out, we'd coordinate leaving our houses at the same time, and walk to the alley between our streets. When we'd walk towards each other and meet in the middle. One pleasant afternoon, as we met up and hugged, I felt something against my leg. I looked down and there was Nosy, between us, standing on my foot and rubbing against my leg.

If there had been any doubt up to the that point that her name should be Nosy, that laid the doubts to rest.

She was a good kitty. She was the one who showed me how pets can show a preference for people. She showed me obvious affection, something that I didn't know for sure, up to that point, that animals could do. I'd kind of grown to that point with the impression that animals were not as emotionally complex as I now know them to be.

When I moved out of my parents' house, many years later, I didn't take Nosy with me. She was over 10 years old and she was used to having a house with a yard in a housing complex. I was moving to a 2-bedroom apartment, with a couple occupying the other room. They already had 5 cats and a dog in that apartment. I didn't think Nosy would do well there. The apartment complex was right on the edge of a busy city street and a freeway. I was afraid she'd feel cramped in the apartment, but I didn't think it would good to let her out to wander.

When I came home to visit, Nosy would invariably show up, usually within just a few minutes, and sit in my lap. I don't know how to explain it, but her body language as she sat there was clear. She was telling the world, "This is my person. He's home, and I'm not letting him go anywhere."

It's been my experience that animals who have been stray and then taken in are appreciative. I don't know quite how to explain it. I know that having to scrounge for food and shelter stresses an animal out. Maybe when they're taken in, they feel relief at having shelter and food readily available and maybe that feeling gets associated in their minds with the people who took them in.

I don't know, but I've seen their appreciation numerous times and I've talked to others who have seen it too.

Nosy was the first cat to show me this and as I explained above, she was the first cat to show me that animals love. So even though I wasn't on a mission to save strays when I took her in, I think she showed me the first inklings of the feelings that would lead me to want to save strays.

Thank you for reading. If you enjoyed this story or it moved you in anyway, please consider sharing it. If I am going to build an organization to save cats like Nosy, I need to expand my audience and let people know what I'm about.

07/07/2023

In the last couple of weeks, I've talked to more people about this project than in the entire time since Erin and I first began thinking about it.

Over the next few weeks, I'm going to be learning what it's going to take to establish the non-profit and what my options are for fundraising to try and make this a reality.

While I'm doing that, I thought I'd start sharing my personal stories of strays I've either taken in, or rescued and found homes for. The first story will be about the first stray I took in, when I was in grade school.

Look for the story here, Monday July 10.

See you then.

This is Maisie Grace. She started coming around my family's farmhouse in late 2020. We don't know where she came from, b...
01/28/2023

This is Maisie Grace.

She started coming around my family's farmhouse in late 2020. We don't know where she came from, but we think she may have been one of many barn cats who live on the property of our nearest, neighbor up the road. When she started coming around, she was undernourished and scrawny, half wild (she wouldn't let anyone touch her at first) and she had patches on thinning/balding fur on each side.

At first we thought the missing hair might be mange, but once we got her inside, we found that she was over-grooming and pulling out patches of her hair.

It took over a year for her to let us start petting her, but once she allowed it, she developed a taste for it. When it was really cold outside, she'd come into an enclosed porch and sleep in a basket we put out there for her, but she didn't want to come into the actual house.

In early 2022, she got pregnant. After a couple of months, she was sitting on my wife's lap on the porch while we petted her and her water broke. She came inside with us that night and we sat up with her all night while she delivered her litter.

She's been inside with us since then.

We'll be posting a longer version of her story on the website once we get it live as well as more photos of her and her children.

I think this picture speaks volumes. Looking at it, I would never have suspected that she was a scrawny, balding, stray just a few months before this was taken. She looks healthy and happy.

12/08/2022

We've been busy with other things lately, and haven't been actively working on this project. We'll probably work on it more after the first of the year. We have a few things which require our immediate attention. However, we do talk about wanting to make our animal sanctuary a reality.

My mother passed away a little over a year ago. We would like to do something to honor her memory. One of the things we talked about was naming a facility after her.

Her last name was Crosby. So one of the names that came up for consideration was Crosby Legacy Animal Shelter and Sanctuary or CLASS. My wife and I both feel like my mother had a lot of class. She was one of the sweetest, kindest people I have ever known.

10/21/2022

Friends Fur Life Animal Sanctuary.

That's not the name we're going with, but we like and might pick a name that is sort of similar. Any input is appreciated.

By the way, we have our first follower. Hello Carole! Thank you for your support. As ever, it's much appreciated. We're glad you're here with us at the beginning.

10/20/2022

My name is Jason. My wife, Erin, and I rescue stray cats. Not professionally, not yet, but we've been doing it for a while now, and don't expect to stop any time soon, so we're thinking we might take it pro.

We love animals. We can't stand to see one suffering. There are a lot of animals out there who need homes.

We want to help them.

We're not trying to start a shelter. Shelters have their place and that's fine. What we want to do is create a place that can be a home to animals who don't have one.

We want to feed them. Give them medical care and give them love and attention.

We're going to need help to make this happen. We're in the process of forming a non-profit entity, and then the fund raising starts.

We don't have veterinary training, so we're going to need to team up with those who do.

You might be asking yourself what makes us qualified to do this. Maybe we aren't qualified. It's hard to say, but we've been taking in animals who don't have homes for years. Every cat I've ever owned has been a rescue and all but one that Erin has had were rescues. We'll be posting photos of videos of these animals and you can judge for yourself if we're doing okay with them.

What it comes down to is we care and we're willing to do what it takes to care for these animals.

That's all for the moment. More info will be coming soon, with those photos and videos.

Oh, and we don't know what to call our enterprise yet either. We're open to suggestions. If you have one, please comment down below. If you think our goal is worth pursuing, please tell your friends about us so they come along on this journey.

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