12/03/2025
In the quest for connection in human and equine relationships, it is not enough to simply listen to what one is saying.
We must listen to understand what one is truly communicating to us and then we must believe that their experience and emotion is as true to them as ours is to us.
Disbelief and rejection of one’s emotions and experiences is the fastest way to disconnect and strife.
It may look something like, “Really! That’s what you’re upset about? Get over it! That’s not really a big deal!”
How many times have you approached a situation with those thoughts even if you never said them out loud? Then wished for a better connection to help that being work through the problem.