Sunny Side Horsemanship

Sunny Side Horsemanship Horsemanship trainer and coach. Helping others create connection & build confidence with compassion.

Tomorrow becomes what you make of today. Your dreams to not come to fruition by making the choices that keep you in the ...
12/22/2024

Tomorrow becomes what you make of today. Your dreams to not come to fruition by making the choices that keep you in the same place as you have been. You do not reach your goals by letting fear dictate what you say yes or no to.

You will never be ready, comfortable, or have all the knowledge you need. You will make mistakes; some that are incredibly painful, but we can only learn from changing what we want to see done differently. If you mess up, keep moving forward. Do not stay stuck there.

The best time to start is right now. Do not wait for tomorrow, next week, next month, the new year, because tomorrow is what you make of today.

Astraea
12/21/2024

Astraea

12/19/2024

Can now catch and getting much better at leading. She’s letting me rub all over both sides and we’re working our way down her legs and around her barrel. She’s figured out that deliciousness comes in the pink bucket.

Finally, I have settled on the name Astraea.

This evening we got far enough along I felt comfortable removing her drag line. She definitely still wants to leave when...
12/17/2024

This evening we got far enough along I felt comfortable removing her drag line. She definitely still wants to leave when she sees me coming, but it’s taking much less convincing to get her working with me. I really think she’s going to turn into a fantastic little riding horse.

Notes about her that I have people keep asking. She’s 8 turning 9 in the spring. She was rounded up Oct of 23 from Moriah, NV. She’s definitely had a baby before. The right name hasn’t quite settled yet. I’m sure it will come once she decides she’s in on this human world thing.

12/17/2024

An important part of training a solid mount is making sure they can get left behind and be ok with it.

12/16/2024

Today in under an hour brought beginning of leading, first touches and tag removal.

Still trying to sort out a name for this sassy but sweet girl.

I’ve had several people reach out asking questions so I figured I’d address them here as well in case anyone else was wo...
12/15/2024

I’ve had several people reach out asking questions so I figured I’d address them here as well in case anyone else was wondering and hadn’t asked yet.

Yes, I will still be taking in training horses while competing in the Mustang Makeover. I will be working full time as usual. My business is my family’s sole income so when you send your horse to training, it literally puts food on our table and keeps the lights on. As well as everything else. So a big thank you to those people who support me as I could not live my life without you.

Part of the reason I chose this year to compete, is my sport horse is getting close to retirement, I’ve already modified his work, and my babies will not be old enough to start under saddle until spring of 2026. The makeover gives me a fun project in the interim.

Having 6 months to train this horse was a HUGE part of the decision as I am still working full time. In the past when I have competed, I have only had 3 months to train and I would not have felt comfortable doing that this year which is another part of the reason I am competing now that they are doing 6 months.

Yes, you can schedule with me to come watch me train and meet the mustang. Do not just start showing up or I will shut this down. My open door policy is only for people who actively have horses in training here and that also comes with rules on what they are allowed to do when here for safety of both horses and people.

Lastly, there are a lot of people who follow me now that have mostly followed in the last 5 years and didn’t know that I used to train almost solely mustangs and have competed in Makeovers before. Enjoy this 13 yo picture of me and my very first Extreme Mustang Makeover project, Sundance Kid! I had a 3 month timeframe with him and with his amazing self we were riding bridleless at the show. I absolutely fell in love with him and decided to keep him. I also only had 2 horses I was paying for out of my pocket then not 7 🙈 which is why I will not be keeping this mare.

My newest project! An 8yo mustang mare from Moriah, NV. I am competing in the 2025 Mustang Makeover. The show dates are ...
12/14/2024

My newest project! An 8yo mustang mare from Moriah, NV. I am competing in the 2025 Mustang Makeover.

The show dates are June 12-14 in Lexington, Kentucky. I have a 6 month timeframe with this mare to prep her for the show.

I will not be keeping her, so she will be available at the end of competition. Follow her progress along on any of my social media pages.

Every year around this time, I decide on a couple projects that I’m going to pursue for the following year. The last 5+ ...
12/13/2024

Every year around this time, I decide on a couple projects that I’m going to pursue for the following year. The last 5+ years has largely been projects working on building my current training facility from scratch. This year I have something a bit more fun yet probably more time consuming in mind for myself.

This project is something I have tossed around in my mind for years but it wasn’t quite the right time to pursue it until now when all the things I wanted to see happen, have just lined up as perfectly as possible in order for me to go forward.

I’m holding on to this secret for just a couple more days when I have pictures to show, but the wheels have begun to turn, and I have already had so much help from my family and friends around me to get the ball rolling. Even if they don’t fully know what I’m doing yet.

A question that was asked of me today that I feel is always a good question to ask yourself was, if I could do it all ov...
12/11/2024

A question that was asked of me today that I feel is always a good question to ask yourself was, if I could do it all over again, would I or would I make different choices and choose a different path?

I whole heartedly admit that there are days that I’m so done and fed up that I seriously question my life decisions; however the answer always comes back the same. When I pause long enough to take a deep breath and look around at what I have worked so hard to create, I can say without a doubt, I wouldn’t change a thing.

Nothing like getting to watch someone now safely enjoying their horse.
12/10/2024

Nothing like getting to watch someone now safely enjoying their horse.

My baby doesn’t look much like a baby anymore.
12/09/2024

My baby doesn’t look much like a baby anymore.

Fetch!
12/08/2024

Fetch!

We are all searching for acceptance, belonging, love. We are all searching for that place to be exactly who we are witho...
12/08/2024

We are all searching for acceptance, belonging, love. We are all searching for that place to be exactly who we are without losing the safety that the village brings. But then, often the village we end up in is the very thing that pushes us to sacrifice who we want to be to try to fit in. The village around us causes the most hurt that we ever experience. Within the village around us, we feel outcast, separate and unlovable. That we are broken, unfixable and beyond redeeming. We become hard, unreachable and as unloving as those that we were placed around. We learn to survive the world we were shoved into and sacrifice ourselves.

There becomes a time though, that only you dictate the village that you live in. You reach the point where you get to choose and rechoose those people that have access to the most sacred parts of your being. You get to choose whether you love yourself enough to surround yourself with those who bring love to your life, or those who continue pushing you to sacrifice who you know you truly are.

When each of those times come, the real question becomes, do you love yourself enough to let go even when it is terrifying? Do you believe in yourself enough to take the leap when the bottom looks so far away and you feel like jumping is exactly what will finally do you in. Can you actually find the love of yourself to create what you had given up on so long ago. Can you recognize and acknowledge that child that was so broken while also understanding that is no longer where we are; we’re big kids now and have big kid things to accomplish. Can you love yourself and others enough to be and give the true loving being that is you?

How long does it take to get to know your horse? I think the real question here is how long does it take to get to know ...
12/07/2024

How long does it take to get to know your horse? I think the real question here is how long does it take to get to know yourself. How we perceive and respond to fears, failures, success, and simply just existing changes each and every relationship that we have including those with our horses. How we react and respond to different situations changes the outcome of that situation and our relationships going forward. Knowing our horse depends on our perception of them and ourselves and the relationship that we have with them.

If you are not a confident leader and your horse feels they need to take care of you, that will change your relationship with them and how they respond to you versus how they would respond to a more confident individual. If your horse is one that needs a lot of emotional support and you are not available to give it to them, they will become more anxious and reactive. The exact same horse will act and respond drastically different to an individual who can actually provide the unchanging emotional support that they need to be confident and work through uncomfortable situations safely.

When we approach a relationship pointing out everything that individual is doing wrong and constantly looking at what has to be changed in order for them to be acceptable to us, that will not be a relationship of partners but of master and servant. Yet most of us approach our horses in this manner always pointing out what we do not like and trying to shove them into a box that works for us and is convenient and comfortable for us rather than giving them what they actually need.

Those needs may be taking a step back, slowing down, getting rid of drills and strict regimes that give them no space to relax, or they also may mean creating more boundaries, developing a very structured routine with incredibly clear expectations so the horse can relax inside those safe boundaries. The direction needed for the relationship greatly depends on past experiences much like our experiences in life guide the things we need in a relationship to feel safe and secure.

Learning our horse becomes a never ending process as we both learn and grow and change in our life.

A steady and predictable friend. Years past full of memories of disagreements and finding how to ask better, be more cle...
12/06/2024

A steady and predictable friend. Years past full of memories of disagreements and finding how to ask better, be more clear, be softer, be ok with changing my plans because they don’t fit.

Years of quiet strength and stubbornness that is never changing and always demanding better of me than I thought I was capable of giving.

Years of quiet moments that I never knew I needed and most times, still didn’t recognize it even in the moment they were given to me.

Never have I met a being with such a true confidence and unwavering comfort in their own self that through all my misguided attempts to create something they weren’t designed to be, they simply and quietly refused to change and be something they were not to be.

One day I aspire to be as true to myself as my teacher has been to me.

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