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12/31/2024
Happy New Year's eve!
Traditions - Every year at this time I would revisit all the pics and video of Knight and reflect on the year's activities in preparation for the incoming year. I did it today and I am so glad I did. Coincidentally, I was blessed to hear from owners who shared their pics and well wishes for 2025. Wow! My heart swelled with pride and gratitude.
Here's my tips - Life can change in a nanosecond. My regret was deleting the not-so-perfect video and pics of Knight and there was a lot of them. They captured his ears not positioned right, or him not stood up ideally. Or, him when he was so relaxed that getting him to raise his head and look elegant was a huge challenge. That was just him. He was happiest being care free and laid back. He was bored silly when I had the camera out almost as if it became a game he played. Such a grand memory. So, now I don't have many of those silly pictures so my recommendation is to keep them all! Put the bad shots in a "delete later" folder unless they're just really bad 😆.
I can't put into words how bad you'll want to see them all if tragedy hits. I'm not sad but rather elated that I have as many as I do! I was definitely obsessed over him, and still am.
Second tip - It is okay to grieve and not be strong! It took me a long time to crumble but doing so lets you rebound to a better state of mind. You can't rate loss on a scale.
Now, again, I'm not sappy so don't feel bad. Letting go is a conscious choice only when we are ready. There's no time frame or right or wrong way to begin to move forward. You just simply know after you've literally gone through all the emotions that a significant loss brings.
My wish for all of you is not to take today for granted whether a horse or person. Live to love, embrace each moment, and don't reject imperfection. It is the imperfect part of life that makes it the most grand and fulfilling. It is in how we choose to accept the bumpy roads that defines today and tomorrow too.
Happy New Year to all of you! I am ready for 2025 and all it will bring so I can embrace each and every mundane moment. 🎊🎉 This post is for my boy so perhaps he can leave you with a new way of seeing what is exactly in front of you right now. It's all so beautiful, imperfect and so very important too.
Knight just being Knight! ⬇️