Un-Natural Horsemanship

Un-Natural Horsemanship Mindful Horsemanship Coaching
Horse + Rider Biomechanics Training
BTMM Apprentice Trainer
Saddle Maker

Horsemanship, Equitation and
Biomechanics, Colt Starting


Saddle Maker

03/25/2025

Day 2 on the halter with Aquila.
Yielding to pressure —> Moving toward a release —> Following a Feel. Finding harmony in two complete balanced systems uniting into one.

At the end of a wild horse's first ever session wearing a halter, it doesn't get much better than this.  Very cool day a...
03/23/2025

At the end of a wild horse's first ever session wearing a halter, it doesn't get much better than this. Very cool day again with a very cool little mare.

I ❤️ Thoroughbred Mares. It’s important to me that I cultivate connection with my clients both two and four-legged and i...
03/21/2025

I ❤️ Thoroughbred Mares. It’s important to me that I cultivate connection with my clients both two and four-legged and it’s the sweet moments like these that show me how good it is to slow down, love and be loved.
~ Chiara

Such presence in this young mare, Aquila! 5yr old Divide Basin Mustang with us to begin her life with humans. We are smi...
03/19/2025

Such presence in this young mare, Aquila! 5yr old Divide Basin Mustang with us to begin her life with humans. We are smitten already! Thank You for trusting us with your girl ♥️

Hello Loves! We’re heading back to Blue Iris Equestrian this weekend! Participant spots are full but auditors welcome $5...
03/17/2025

Hello Loves!

We’re heading back to Blue Iris Equestrian this weekend! Participant spots are full but auditors welcome $50/day.

1:1 Sessions with Zak- Fri 3/21
1:1 Sessions with Chiara- Sat/Sun 3/22-23

03/15/2025

Hi friends!

Here’s a clip from a demo video on Offering a Feel through our Extended Embodiment. There are many reasons why I might choose to work a horse from horseback and what doing so might accomplish but that’s a conversation for another day.

The game in this video was about facilitating connection between three beings by inviting balance in movement through offering a Feel. To me, Feel is simply HOW we present ourselves and our intentions to the horse. Playing with this work from horseback certainly adds several layers of nuance, Takoda and I are communicating our Feel through our body language, energetics, intention and tools, to influence Eowyn to find her own physical and emotional balance. This included setting and maintaining boundaries, inviting cuddles, using drive and draw to ask her to move in a particular direction in a particular way- with spinal integrity/healthy biomechanics.
Feel is how we can co-create Balance in others and balance to the horse is sacred. In this example:

Balance = my own emotional elasticity, the ability to bring my energy up and down as appropriate.

Balance = my physical integrity/equitation, the ability to move with the horse and for the horse.

Balance = my knowing how much pressure to use and when (ie the Balance between Feel and Timing)

Balance = Takoda’s emotional elasticity.

Balance = Takoda’s physical integrity, his willingness to be influenced by me and to influence Eowyn.

Balance = how I use extended embodiment (my body, Takoda, the walls of the pen and the flag).

Balance = Eowyn’s emotional elasticity.

Balance = Eowyn’s physical integrity, her willingness to be influenced by us.

While I’m mostly operating on my own two feet, this is how I ideally begin working with any and every horse- loose in a pen where they are free to respond to me how they wish, where I do not have the equipment/ability to overpower them but I can use Feel, Timing and Balance to establish communication around consent, intention and trust to influence their mind and body 💕

03/14/2025

I’d like to share this clip of a demo video from my Horsemanship Intensive. In week 2 we discussed Extended Embodiment, a term which in philosophy and psychology refers to the extension of the mind beyond the brain and body, encompassing external tools as integral to cognitive processes. This term is used in the growing field of Embodied Cognition- The idea that the body (sensations and bodily experiences) is essential to our understanding of the world, the construction of conceptual knowledge, as well as meaning formation (Fincher-Kiefer, 2019) such as in the study and application of mirror neurons.

Because this clip does not go into depth about What I do with my hand tools but more so offers ideas on How I use them, here are a few things to note:

I mention that I do not do any “desensitizing” work with the horsemanship flag and this is because I do not want my horses (or anyone, for that matter!) to be desensitized to me. Our shared sensitivity (the quality or state of being sensitive: such as a: the capacity of an organism or sense organ to respond to stimulation; e: awareness of the needs and emotions of others, Miriam Webster) is what allows us to co-create our experience. Instead, I work to “familiarize” my horse with the flag and other tools through extended embodiment so that they might understand when they are being asked to respond to them and when they are not.

The order of go in my use of the flag is
1. Visual Stimuli
2. Physical Stimuli (touch)
3. Auditory Stimuli

I use the flag as an extension of my body, to apply both driving forces and drawing forces, ie sending the horse away from me or inviting the horse closer to me. Remember that horses LOVE rhythm so I use the flag in all three ways with rhythmic motion and I try not to make any unnecessary or sloppy movement or sound with the flag.

I try to always hold the flag overhand (like a tennis racket) as this allows for smooth movement as opposed to underhand which encourages the human to flick and crack the flag as if it were a whip, which I do not find to be productive.

For the most part, I choose not to use my hand held tools for target training as I prefer targeting to be something that the horse and I do together (ie cutting flag, hot heels, horsemanship ball) as opposed to something I am making them do that is separate from me.

The horsemanship flag is my favourite tool because of its versatility and how sophisticated I find it to be in conducting my Feel to the horse 💕

Brego💫                                                       “The round pen is a classroom, not a treadmill” ~ Kathleen ...
03/13/2025

Brego💫

“The round pen is a classroom, not a treadmill” ~ Kathleen Beckham

03/07/2025

Yesterday, Ferdinand had his first lesson on “contact with the bit”.

I think about the moments leading up to this that have cultivated in a good feeling for this young feral horse as he learns about contact, confinement, power + influence.

Here, Zak blends the arts of Cranial Sacral Therapy, Balance Through Movement Method and NueroBiomachics with his Horsemanship practices as an offering to set Ferdinand up for success as a balanced, grounded, confident, respectful and joyful equine partner.

TRIGGER WARNING: This post contains discussion on domestic violence, sexual assault, abuse and gender construct On Makin...
03/04/2025

TRIGGER WARNING: This post contains discussion on domestic violence, sexual assault, abuse and gender construct

On Making Strong Contact
~ Chiara

“We cannot dance with a partner without touching each others raw spots”

I read this quote in a book the other day and while it was in the context of intimate human relationship, I cannot think of a better metaphor for equestrian pursuits than Dance- where artistry of movement takes shape through the rhythm of subtle communication. There is so much beauty in this and wonder and… all the things that come together in partnership. When we are dancing with 1000lb animals, no matter how comfortable or experienced we may be, our bodies know how vulnerable we are. Our raw spots are deeply exposed and because we are asking the horses to respond to us beyond the limits of their biology, so are theirs. We find ourselves in the exquisite position to play out our internal conflicts with our equine partners, just as we do in our human relationships. I think that this is lovely as it offers us a unique and richly rewarding opportunity to learn about and embrace our authentic selves.

Ours is not a culture that nourishes and cultivates the kind of Strong Contact that is required for real connection and thus, real intimacy and right-relationship. The topic seems almost taboo. My feminine was taught to please, to be soft and to use manipulation and coercion in conflict, if not to avoid conflict entirely. My masculine was taught to protect, to be strong and use force and aggression in conflict, if not to avoid conflict entirely. It seems that many of us throughout our lives learn how to avoid making strong contact in rejection of potential connection through conflict.

I understand why humans punish horses for getting “big”. And I understand why humans put so much effort into never allowing the horse to get “big” in the first place. Big can be terrifying. When we are terrified and our very lives are being threatened, the kind of Strong Contact we make may indeed need to be equally dangerous in order to ensure our survival.

I have been terrified many times in my life by other humans and by horses who became Big and inflicted violence on me and I am teeming with gratitude for the part of me who can make strong contact with ruthless brutality. In my early 20s, I was grabbed and dragged into an alley by a man. I left the blade of my pocket knife between his ribs. In my early teens, I was pinned in a box stall by a horse who was leaving holes next to my head with his hind feet. When he turned to attack me with his front end, I grabbed a 2x4 off the window ledge and hit him as hard as I could between the eyes. In both of these cases, while I endured heavy emotional trauma, I escaped with only superficial physical injury. I do not regret my actions in either scenario and in fact, celebrate them as demonstrations of my love of self and love of life.

Big can also be gentle and the Strong Contact we make may need to be equally so. I recall an exchange while playing with a toddler- Little buddy had picked up something potentially dangerous (I cannot remember what exactly but it was something innocuous like a plastic bag) and was intent on shoving it in his mouth. After my requests that he hand it over for safe keeping were ignored, I took it away from him and he proceeded to absolutely pound his tiny fists on my face (I have noticed that toddlers hit, that people hit but am feeling fairly confident that we are moving away from this action as a species). With great presence, I caught ahold of one of his small wrists as it came plummeting toward my nose and held firm, looked him in the eye and said “Your hitting hurts me. It hurts when you hit”. He sat frozen with his chubby arm held up in my hand and contemplated for a moment. I felt his little body soften and released my grip the second before he let out a deep sigh and, wrapping both arms around my neck in a gentle embrace, said “okay Auntie, no hitting”. He never hit me again.

I can think of many times in my life when I avoided making strong contact with another human. Sometimes, because I was ready for that relationship to end anyway and there simply wasn’t a point to say or do anything about it. In some cases, I have avoided strong contact because I didn’t know how to make it and was perhaps afraid of overdoing it one way or another by either becoming violent or manipulative. Many times, I attempted to make strong contact in unhealthy ways and it was rejected by the other person. Yet fantastically, in every case where strong contact was made and met, it was the creative force that inspired the relationship to evolve!

We may be conditioned to believe that Strong Contact can only be achieved through physical contact or that it is a “bad” thing because it can only occur through violence. This is not so. Strong Contact is about our boundaries and our empathy. It is about being soft in our firmness. It is about taking grounded action AND reaching for help when we are untethered. Strong Contact is saying No and Strong Contact is saying Yes. In essence, Strong Contact is “Cause No Harm and Take No Sh*t”. Choosing inner reflection and embracing our shadow self instead of blaming or judging others is an example of making strong contact. Catching a dog about to run into traffic is making strong contact. Taking ahold of our partner and asking them to hold us in our suffering is making strong contact. Sometimes, it is fighting for our lives and sometimes it is taking responsibility for our own thoughts and actions.

When we rub against each other’s raw spots, I believe that this is when we need to make strong contact the most. As a coach, I am side by side with my students both human and horse as they explore their own ways of making Strong Contact within themselves and with each other. Healthy horses have no problem making strong contact and this is something that we can learn from and experience with them if we are humble and willing. For example, horses are wonderful teachers in the art of setting boundaries. Knowing + upholding boundaries is a crucial component of our ability to make strong contact in healthy ways. Boundaries are: knowing our yes’s and no’s and taking responsibility for our actions. Boundaries are not: making demands of and/or threats to another. When working with a horse, I enter into a covenant with that horse- I will not abuse them and I will not permit myself to be abused. Because consent goes both ways, it is my responsibility to be clear and consistent in letting the horse know how I am to be treated and it is my responsibility to listen to and honour them when they communicate to me how they are to be treated. It is also my responsibility to stand up for myself when my boundaries are violated. When confronted with the paradox of tolerance, I have no problem using physical force to defend myself and/or others if/when it is necessary.

From the horses I have learned that: Soft does not always equal slow or gentle, soft can be rapid like the beating wings of a butterfly and as unyielding as the tides. Firm does not always equal hard, firm can be as delicate and flexible and strong as the grip of a babies hand. The Feel of my energy is the most important method of communication that I have, coming first before language, technique and all other tools.

During the times where I have made unhealthy strong contact with horses, I have either used fear and pain to influence the desired result or I have offered bribery, using coercion and manipulation to influence the desired result. The horse who is making strong contact in unhealthy ways may be reactive and aggressive toward humans and other horses or they may be checked out/shut down. When the horse and I did not have healthy boundaries or make healthy strong contact, we experienced: nipping, biting, head butting/rubbing. Difficulty catching and/or leading. Fidgeting/inability to stand tied. Hypervigilance. Dangerous under saddle behaviours such as bucking, bolting and rearing. To name a few.

The horses show me that it does not need to be this way. They demonstrate to me just how far tact, consideration and patience can take us, how Clear is Kind and how to be so with calm confidence. They emulate the body’s need to feel safe. They show me new ways to consider things and invite me to explore ideas I would never have otherwise imagined. Nearly all day every day, I watch horses and I watch people, in both same and inter species interaction. I observe people who, like myself, are struggling to make strong contact in this world. Every day, I learn something from these observations and apply it to my understanding of self and of universe. I watch and listen with love, believing in my bones that no matter how much the superficial world works to keep us small, we are here because we want to break through the layers of limitation into deep, powerful, vulnerable relationship.

Horsemanship for Nervous System Health Intensives are under way! While the majority of sessions are being held virtually...
03/02/2025

Horsemanship for Nervous System Health Intensives are under way!

While the majority of sessions are being held virtually, I’m thrilled to be able to work in person with this partnership. Here, youngster Bourbon and his wonderful human are exploring ways to mentally engage and organize + move the body through ground driving at liberty and offering and following a feel on the lead rope.

We played with

✨ Changing eyes in front and behind
✨ Making contact in blind spots
✨ Walking off onto a circle on the correct lead
✨ Hooking the rope to the feet through the eye- influencing the feet independently and united including shifting weight in motion to achieve straightness
✨ Noticing and releasing subtle braces in routine areas such as haltering
✨ Maintaining attention through emotional elasticity
✨ Silent communication through calm, confident and clear body language and energy

I am passionate about sharing this work! Helping horses and humans to feel good in their bodies, curious in their minds and open in their hearts is my greatest joy 💗

~ Chiara

Before and After photos of Eowyn from playing with work in hand learned from Celeste Lazaris 🦄💫
03/01/2025

Before and After photos of Eowyn from playing with work in hand learned from Celeste Lazaris 🦄💫



There are at least 17 different ways we use a lariat rope to help prepare horses for their education in haltering, tying...
02/28/2025

There are at least 17 different ways we use a lariat rope to help prepare horses for their education in haltering, tying, saddling and carrying a rider. Here, Zak and young stallion Rocco demonstrate “wearing” the rope over the hindquarters and around the belly as well as leading by a front foot. This can help the horse get used to sensation in their girth area, teach them to look to the human for help when they feel something around their legs (a life saving skill) and gain confidence through problem solving and conversation. All of this work is ideally played out smoothly and quietly with the well prepared horse participating without trouble. The horse should neither be checked out nor reactive, but curious, calm and questioning.

*Leading by a front foot can be a fun puzzle for horse and human and teaches the horse to give to pressure around their feet. Please do not ever attempt to stop a horse by their front foot as this may cause them to stumble and that’s mean.

Hello Friends! Heading to the PNW and will be available for sessions along this route May 5th-6th and May 13th-14th. If ...
02/26/2025

Hello Friends!

Heading to the PNW and will be available for sessions along this route May 5th-6th and May 13th-14th. If there is anyone interested in hosting a clinic and/or if there is enough interest, I’d be willing to change my travel to accommodate weekend dates 🙂

Individual 80min Sessions
$150USD $200CAN
⭐️ Mindful Horsemanship In Hand/Under Saddle
⭐️ Horse + Rider Neuro Biomechanics
⭐️ LNRT
⭐️ Intro to Rider Pillars

PM for more info 💫

~ Chiara 💕

02/25/2025

Chiara and I often say “how we do the small things is how we do all things.” The first few times a saddle goes on a young horse can make a huge impression and when we take the time to be particular and caring about all of the steps we can really help soothe a horse at a time when they could easily become anxious. These not-so-little bits of clarity and consistency are really worth it to me especially when the next thing I put on their back (hopefully smoothly) is my own body. Rocco, 4yo Westfalen Stallion.

Zak and I enjoyed a stellar weekend working with Blue Iris Equestrian 💫When we climbed into the truck to head home, feel...
02/25/2025

Zak and I enjoyed a stellar weekend working with Blue Iris Equestrian 💫

When we climbed into the truck to head home, feeling simultaneously exhausted and elated, the first thing we excitedly discussed was how much range and depth we had explored. Clinic participants varied widely in their interests, disciplines, breeds of horse, experience, goals, style and background which provided our psyches with a veritable playground for adventure.

We recently read Kinship with All Life by J Allen Boone (strongly recommend) and I would like to share a quote from this book that deeply resonates with me…

“If you want opinions about dogs, ask a human. If you want facts about dogs, ask a dog”.

As we move away from teaching discipline specific clinics where participants are provided with a tailored program, we eagerly embrace the deep unknowing that comes from facilitating an environment of curiosity. When the focus is on learning and understanding in all active parties, what we are able to accomplish in our time together unfolds organically in the most meaningful and fantastical ways. Rather than tell people the Truths about them and their horses, we aim to offer ideas and concepts to explore together that we can take to the horses and allow them to tell us the truth of and in their experience.

A million thank you’s to everyone who showed up with open minds and open hearts, willing to share their stories and accept our offerings on their journeys. We appreciate you so much and cannot wait to see y’all again soon 💕

Un-Natural Horsemanship is all loaded up and heading off to teach a clinic with Blue Iris Equestrian! We do not always h...
02/21/2025

Un-Natural Horsemanship is all loaded up and heading off to teach a clinic with Blue Iris Equestrian!

We do not always have the ability to bring our horses with us to teach but when we can, we are grateful for it. Zak and I have received tremendous value in watching our mentors work with their horses and we hope to offer the same to our students 💕

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