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10/28/2024

👋 Want to learn how to train your reactive dog right the first time, without burning out? Don’t worry- I’ve got you covered🙌

Hey, I’m Max. Connection-based training has been my go-to strategy for all kinds of crazy behaviors, like resource guarding, stranger danger, and leash reactivity.

👉 In the last 2 years before this post, I have helped hundreds of dogs with all kinds of dangerous and embarrassing behaviors. While I’m known for my work on emotional regulation and behavior modification, I recently started a community, and people are sharing their “never dreamed of before this” wins, using the resources available there.

Obviously, things are dynamic, and there’s a lot that goes into fixing your dog’s reactivity (like environmental management, medical factors, genetics, a really effective training plan, and your ability to self-regulate), but that’s exactly why I am so excited to help people with this.

Most dog trainers will not understand your dog’s body language, learning history, and desires like you do, so if you can learn to train your dog yourself, you’ll be truly empowered to be your dog’s best advocate and to change their behavior for good.

🔥 GET RELIEF. Learn better, and do better.

Your dog is precious. Ready to start making the most out of your relationship with them TODAY?

Join us: https://www.skool.com/connectionovercontrol/about

Hey Fredericktonians!Is your dog’s reactivity turning walks into a daily battle? Or are you looking for a structured, pr...
09/18/2024

Hey Fredericktonians!

Is your dog’s reactivity turning walks into a daily battle? Or are you looking for a structured, professional approach to tackle those challenging behaviors?

I’ve got some exciting news for you! 🎉 I’m launching a new Reactive Dog Training Class starting September 28th at 3PM at Clover Ridge Park. This class is tailor-made for reactive dogs and is designed to help you see real progress in a supportive, group setting!

Here’s what you can look forward to: 🐕 Behavior Adjustment Training (BAT): We’ll use BAT to focus on choice and learner-led desensitization. Your dog will build essential social skills and learn to assess safety, reducing reactivity in the process. It’s a win-win!

📞 One Private 2-Hour 1:1 Session: Before we dive into the group class, we’ll have a private session to equip you with the skills needed for the group setting. You’ll feel confident and ready to tackle reactivity in a group environment!

💲 Price: The total cost for the entire program, including the private session and the group class, is $350.

📅 When and Where: Saturdays at 3PM, Clover Ridge Park. The class runs from September 28th to November 2nd.

👥 Pilot Program: This is a trial run, so if it goes well, we’ll consider offering more classes in the future. Be part of something new and exciting!

Interested? Drop a comment below or send me a message at 240-213-4269 with any questions or to sign up. Spots are limited, so don’t wait too long to secure your place!

Hey folks! This post has been a little delayed given recent circumstances, but I feel ready to share this. I have a pass...
09/13/2024

Hey folks! This post has been a little delayed given recent circumstances, but I feel ready to share this. I have a passion project I am working on, and I’m looking for more people to join me in that community.

This community is called Connection over Control, and it is a community that embraces adaptive training and emotional regulation. What is that and why does that matter?

Well, I developed this community because when I was walking the path of Reactive Dog Ownership, I felt alone. I was so so so burnt out from all the things I was supposed to be doing. Look into medicating her. Do hours of training a day. Do only 5 minutes, but every day. Work around triggers. Don’t work around triggers. Try a pain med trial first. Never walk without a muzzle- but the muzzle must be fitted exactly perfectly, and must be conditioned entirely before trying anything else.

The advice I was given was super well intended, and may have been well-informed. But it left out a key part: what was I, an overwhelmed, underpaid, very much NOT having it together dog owner to do? Because I sure as heck couldn’t manage all of those suggestions. I barely had the resources for myself.

And I was really mad at myself for it. I would get so frustrated with Gertrude and I hated that I did. Of course I loved her. That didn’t change that I was not equipped to handle that situation.

Even as I gained more skills and experience, knowing WHAT to do never changed the amount of resources I actually had to do them. And if I felt that way, as someone who studied and worked reactivity cases on the daily, what on earth was everyone else feeling?

My hope in developing this community is to curate a space where both trainers and dog owners can come together to learn more about adaptive training, and emotional regulation. I don’t want anyone to feel as alone as I did in that overwhelm and fear. The whole theory behind Connection over Control is simply…that connection feels better in the long run than control.

Acknowledging that we have no real control over any of this, and to move to a place of training that emphasizes communication and consent is SCARY. Because that journey is so daunting, I want to provide a place that is judgement free, and meets everyone where they’re at.

If you don’t feel able to train because you get frustrated easily, because you freak when your dog freaks, this is for you. If you as a trainer, want to learn more about how to help clients and dogs through emotional regulation and somatic techniques, this is for you.

This community is free. What I ask is that in return, you participate. You watch the videos, learn some stuff, and ask questions. Some concepts will be super super familiar…but hopefully there will be some new stuff, too. Also, I want to make this a real community. Meaning real feedback, real discussion, and community-directed content. If you want to see more of one particular topic, then I’ll add something about it.

Note- this community is NOT the coaching program I have- that you will need to pay for. But if you like what's in the free community I can pretty much guarantee you'll like what you get when working with me directly.

Why is it free? Well, it’s at least a little bit self serving. I eventually do want to move my business online. I need some following to do that. And having a community of people who share my mission is one good way to do it.

But also… I really believe that there is a need for training that focuses on the owner’s quality of life, just as much as the dogs. We’re learning a LOT about emotional regulation, and how it applies to ALL mammals.

So I do hope you’ll join me. I have high hopes for this, and I would be honored to have you participate.

Here is the link: skool.com/connectionovercontrol/about

Talk soon-

08/22/2024

What would fixing your dog’s reactivity mean?

07/25/2024

The best thing for a reactive dog? Time and space to process.

You can tell in this video that this pup is still mildly concerned- but this is a huge improvement from how shut down she was. In the beginning of this session, she had her tail tucked tightly, ears pulled straight back, and was really worried about anything passing us. We took things at her place, only pausing to sit as she was comfortable.

Towards the end here, she’s looking to us for some support (so she’s figured out she’s not on her own here), and she’s processing much more of the situation.

This isn’t flashy. But good training usually isn’t. Especially for fearful dogs.

If you have a dog like this and you want to learn more about supporting them in busy environments, comment “SUPPORT,” and I’ll you our free training on this method.

90% of dog bites could be prevented. The issue is that MOST people don’t have a clue on how to understand their dog’s bo...
07/21/2024

90% of dog bites could be prevented. The issue is that MOST people don’t have a clue on how to understand their dog’s body language. And I’m on a mission to change that.

So this week, I’m challenging you to engage in the Doggy Dictionary challenge. I want you to share photos of your pup with each prompt. By the end of the week, you’ll have a full encyclopedia of what your dog looks like when they’re stressed, when they’re happy, and what behaviors they might show when they want out of a situation.

When you know what the warning signs are, you (and your dog) can act accordingly.

Oh…and as a little incentive…the most active engagers (whether you share to your own page, comment on this page, or comment on this post shared in a group) will be entered to win prizes.

🥇Top Engager: a seat in our Connection over Control program. Details on that here:
🥈Runner-up: A lifetime membership in our Think Like A Dog Academy.
🥉Places 3-5: A month of membership in our Think Like A Dog Academy.

👇PROMPT BELOW 👇

Here’s prompt 7: Want: How do you know your dog wants something?

For each category, add a few photos of your dog in those states. Then, note the body language, specific to each area in the body.

How do you know your dog wants something? This is usually more of an indication given by nosing, staring, or pawing than a set stance, but it differs for every dog.
Ears:
Eyes:
Mouth:
Forehead tension:
Tailset:
Weight balanced:

Also- do they seek contact with you? How do they let you know what they’re interested in if it isn’t you?

NOTE: Is there a pattern to their requests? Can you fulfill their request?

90% of dog bites could be prevented. The issue is that MOST people don’t have a clue on how to understand their dog’s bo...
07/20/2024

90% of dog bites could be prevented. The issue is that MOST people don’t have a clue on how to understand their dog’s body language. And I’m on a mission to change that.

So this week, I’m challenging you to engage in the Doggy Dictionary challenge. I want you to share photos of your pup with each prompt. By the end of the week, you’ll have a full encyclopedia of what your dog looks like when they’re stressed, when they’re happy, and what behaviors they might show when they want out of a situation.

When you know what the warning signs are, you (and your dog) can act accordingly.

Oh…and as a little incentive…the most active engagers (whether you share to your own page, comment on this page, or comment on this post shared in a group) will be entered to win prizes.

🥇Top Engager: a seat in our Connection over Control program.
🥈Runner-up: A lifetime membership in our Think Like A Dog Academy.
🥉Places 3-5: A month of membership in our Think Like A Dog Academy.

👇PROMPT BELOW 👇

Here’s prompt 6: Anger: How do you know your dog is about to take matters into his own hands?

For each category, add a few photos of your dog in those states. Then, note the body language, specific to each area in the body.

Angry (not all dogs display this- but some dogs feel they need to take matters into their own hands if their body language is not well listened to- usually “angry” behavior is preceded by stiffness and staring. Frequently seen when dogs approach each other at fences or right before a bite)
Ears:
Eyes:
Mouth:
Forehead tension:
Tailset:
Weight balanced:

NOTE: Is it safe to move them? What might cause them to move towards you instead of continuing towards the trigger?

THIS IS THE NUMBER ONE KEY TO A SUCCESSFUL DOG: AGENCYDogs don’t control much of anything in their lives: they don’t cho...
07/20/2024

THIS IS THE NUMBER ONE KEY TO A SUCCESSFUL DOG: AGENCY

Dogs don’t control much of anything in their lives: they don’t choose where they sleep, what they eat, who they see, where they live, or where they can go on walks.

We know that in any species we’ve studied, agency is the top predictor in quality of life after traumatic experiences. It makes sense to me that given how little agency our dogs usually get, they need more of it.

Introducing agency creates so much room for connection. It makes every interaction you have with your dog so much more powerful. It moves your relationship from one of conflict and competition over resources to one of understanding and connection.

Comment CONNECTION for a deep dive on this approach, and more real-life tips for increasing agency.

90% of dog bites could be prevented. The issue is that MOST people don’t have a clue on how to understand their dog’s bo...
07/19/2024

90% of dog bites could be prevented. The issue is that MOST people don’t have a clue on how to understand their dog’s body language. And I’m on a mission to change that.

So this week, I’m challenging you to engage in the Doggy Dictionary challenge. I want you to share photos of your pup with each prompt. By the end of the week, you’ll have a full encyclopedia of what your dog looks like when they’re stressed, when they’re happy, and what behaviors they might show when they want out of a situation.

When you know what the warning signs are, you (and your dog) can act accordingly.

Oh…and as a little incentive…the most active engagers (whether you share to your own page, comment on this page, or comment on this post shared in a group) will be entered to win prizes.

🥇Top Engager: a seat in our Connection over Control program.
🥈Runner-up: A lifetime membership in our Think Like A Dog Academy.
🥉Places 3-5: A month of membership in our Think Like A Dog Academy.

👇PROMPT BELOW 👇

Here’s prompt 5: Dislike/disinterest: How do you know your dog isn’t into something?

Under each category, insert a few photos of your dog in those states. Then, note the body language, specific to each area in the body.

Dislike/Disinterest (someone they don’t love approaching them, being pet when they’re more focused on food)
Ears:
Eyes:
Mouth:
Forehead tension:
Tailset:
Weight balanced:

NOTE: Are they happy where they are? If not, where might they want to go? If it’s safe, can they freely move to that area?

90% of dog bites could be prevented. The issue is that MOST people don’t have a clue on how to understand their dog’s bo...
07/18/2024

90% of dog bites could be prevented. The issue is that MOST people don’t have a clue on how to understand their dog’s body language. And I’m on a mission to change that.

So this week, I’m challenging you to engage in the Doggy Dictionary challenge. I want you to share photos of your pup with each prompt. By the end of the week, you’ll have a full encyclopedia of what your dog looks like when they’re stressed, when they’re happy, and what behaviors they might show when they want out of a situation.

When you know what the warning signs are, you (and your dog) can act accordingly.

Oh…and as a little incentive…the most active engagers (whether you share to your own page, comment on this page, or comment on this post shared in a group) will be entered to win prizes.

🥇Top Engager: a seat in our Connection over Control program.

🥈Runner-up: A lifetime membership in our Think Like A Dog Academy.

🥉Places 3-5: A month of membership in our Think Like A Dog Academy.

Here’s prompt 4: Shy/fearful: How does your dog show trepidation?

For each category, add a few photos of your dog in those states. Then, note the body language, specific to each area in the body.

Shy/fearful (fireworks, raised voices clattering noises)
Ears:
Eyes:
Mouth:
Forehead tension:
Tailset:
Weight balanced:
NOTE: Are they happy where they are? If not, where might they want to go? If it’s safe, can they freely move to that area?

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07/18/2024

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90% of dog bites could be prevented. The issue is that MOST people don’t have a clue on how to understand their dog’s bo...
07/17/2024

90% of dog bites could be prevented. The issue is that MOST people don’t have a clue on how to understand their dog’s body language. And I’m on a mission to change that.

So this week, I’m challenging you to engage in the Doggy Dictionary challenge. I want you to share photos of your pup with each prompt. By the end of the week, you’ll have a full encyclopedia of what your dog looks like when they’re stressed, when they’re happy, and what behaviors they might show when they want out of a situation.

When you know what the warning signs are, you (and your dog) can act accordingly.

Oh…and as a little incentive…the most active engagers (whether you share to your own page, comment on this page, or comment on this post shared in a group) will be entered to win prizes.

🥇Top Engager: a seat in our Connection over Control program.
🥈Runner-up: A years’ worth of membership in our Think Like A Dog Academy.
🥉Places 3-5: A month of membership in our Think Like A Dog Academy.

👇PROMPT BELOW 👇

Here’s prompt 3: Alert: how do you know when your dog is onto something?

For each category, add a few photos of your dog in those states. Then, note the body language, specific to each area in the body.

Alert (the doorbell has rung, or there are squirrels outside):
Ears:
Eyes:
Mouth:
Forehead tension:
Tailset:
Weight balanced:

NOTE: Are they happy where they are? Do they want to create distance from the alert, or go closer to it?

07/17/2024

Know better, do better- it sounds so easy.

But if you’re anything like me, then no, no it is not.

Maybe you’ve realized that you can, in fact, train your dog to stop barking at the window, or that you don’t need a prong collar for training leash skills.

You have the idea. But getting to the promised land? It’s too messy. And so you give up.

Unless… you learn about how to implement change, sustainably.

To implement something sustainably, there’s a couple of factors I keep in mind:

URGENCY- what’s the most helpful thing I can do? What would immediately relieve the most amount of pressure? What would give my dog or myself the largest increase in quality of life?

ENERGY- how much energy is it going to take to fulfill action A vs action B vs action C? Would taking that action limit my resources in other ways? Can I do this action even on a low-energy day, or is it reserved for good days? Is that sustainable?

Successful implementation lies in the balance of these two concepts. In dog training, the “urgent” thing can almost always be dealt with via management. However, the management plan might become too energy-consuming.

A good trainer should help you to walk through this process. No dog can be fixed with a one-size-fits-all approach, and no owner should feel like they’re doomed to fail because they can’t keep up with the training plan.

If you’re interested in learning more, DM me “KNOW” and I’ll send you a FREE tool to help you identify your resources and prioritize your goals.

90% of dog bites could be prevented. The issue is that MOST people don’t have a clue on how to understand their dog’s bo...
07/16/2024

90% of dog bites could be prevented. The issue is that MOST people don’t have a clue on how to understand their dog’s body language. And I’m on a mission to change that.

So this week, I’m challenging you to engage in the Doggy Dictionary challenge. I want you to share photos of your pup with each prompt. By the end of the week, you’ll have a full encyclopedia of what your dog looks like when they’re stressed, when they’re happy, and what behaviors they might show when they want out of a situation.

When you know what the warning signs are, you (and your dog) can act accordingly.

Oh…and as a little incentive…the most active engagers (whether you share to your own page, comment on this page, or comment on this post shared in a group) will be entered to win prizes.

🥇Top Engager: a seat in our Connection over Control program.
🥈Runner-up: A lifetime membership in our Think Like A Dog Academy.
🥉Places 3-5: A month of membership in our Think Like A Dog Academy.

👇PROMPT BELOW 👇

Here’s prompt 2: Anticipatory: how does your dog show interest or excitement?

For each category, add a few photos of your dog in those states. Then, note the body language, specific to each area in the body.

Anticipatory(usually when about to set food down, or in the middle of training):
Ears:
Eyes:
Mouth:
Forehead tension:
Tailset:
Weight balanced:

NOTE: Are they happy where they are? Are they seeking something?

FOOLPROOF METHOD TO STOP PULLINGReady for the secret? Pulling can’t work. Your dog needs to learn that doing the wrong b...
07/16/2024

FOOLPROOF METHOD TO STOP PULLING

Ready for the secret?

Pulling can’t work. Your dog needs to learn that doing the wrong behavior (in this case, pulling) will not work to get him what he wants (whatever he’s reaching for).

You should help the process along by rewarding for desirable behavior.

Above all, remain consistent. Leash pulling is not at all hard to train out…you just have to hold yourself to the standard you want your dog at.

Comment “leash” below and I’ll send you to the page for our super popular leash reactivity class

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🚨NEW CHALLENGE ALERT 🚨90% of dog bites could be prevented. The issue is that MOST people don’t have a clue on how to und...
07/15/2024

🚨NEW CHALLENGE ALERT 🚨

90% of dog bites could be prevented. The issue is that MOST people don’t have a clue on how to understand their dog’s body language. And I’m on a mission to change that.

So this week, I’m challenging you to engage in the Doggy Dictionary challenge. I want you to share photos of your pup with each prompt. By the end of the week, you’ll have a full encyclopedia of what your dog looks like when they’re stressed, when they’re happy, and what behaviors they might show when they want out of a situation.

When you know what the warning signs are, you (and your dog) can act accordingly.

Oh…and as a little incentive…the most active engagers (whether you share to your own page, comment on this page, or comment on this post shared in a group) will be entered to win prizes.

🥇Top Engager: a seat in our Connection over Control program.
🥈Runner-up: A years’ worth of membership in our Think Like A Dog Academy.
🥉4️⃣5️⃣Places 3-5: A month of membership in our Think Like A Dog Academy.

👇PROMPT #1 BELOW 👇

Here’s prompt 1: Neutral or relaxed. What is your dog’s baseline?

For each category, add a few photos of your dog in those states. Then, note the body language, specific to each area in the body.

Neutral (usually when content, sometimes when sleeping)

Ears:
Eyes:
Mouth:
Forehead tension:
Tailset:
Weight balanced:

NOTE: Are they happy where they are? Or might they want to physically move?

07/15/2024

YOU DON’T NEED TREATS

Did you know that it’s possible to train your dog, even if they don’t like treats, even if they don’t like to play, even if they’re low drive?

All you need are…natural reinforcers.

Natural reinforcers are the REAL thing the dog wants out of the situation. If your dog is pulling, he really wants to go forward. So when he checks in with you, or the leash is loose, you’d continue forward.

If your dog gets super excited by other dogs (not fearful), and acts like a donkey- walk your dog away from the other dogs. He learns that acting excited doesn’t work, so he’s less likely to do it.

If your dog wants attention, get him to request your attention POLITELY by sitting- when he sits, reward him with your attention.

Truly, all training comes down to this 1 trick.

If you can show me a video of 1 time you’ve used a natural reinforcer, I’ll send you our free training on how dogs think (so that you never have to hire another trainer again).

DM “NATURAL” and I’ll send you the video!

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