
07/14/2025
You cannot manifest confidence if you don't have the skills for the task.
Don't get me wrong, positive thinking, and visualization are super beneficial tools, and I recommend them, BUT only if you've put in the work, and have the skills to accomplish the task! Visualization alone will not work!
Visualization and mindset are very powerful tools, but without skills for the actual task at hand, you're never going to manifest confidence. For example, if you put me in an airplane and I visualize myself being confident that I can fly this plane, and I don't actually have the skill set to do that. I'm not going to succeed! I believe confidence comes from having the skills that you need, and the ability to apply them in that situation.
How do we do this?
Find your tribe, your group of people that support you. The ones that can teach you the skills you need and have actual answers to your questions. Having the "tools you need" isn't referring to bits, gadgets, and sedatives. The "tools" I'm referring to are true understanding of behavior, and the what and where are our struggles are stemming from. How can we support and motivate the horse intrinsically to avoid undesired behavior? In my opinion, these are the things that build true confidence.