04/28/2023
TELL ME WHEN I GET IT RIGHT!
Imagine this – You work for someone who continually reprimands you. You never know from one day to the next if there is anything this person is happy with, because the only feedback you receive from them is what you are doing wrong – it’s all just so negative!
You are never thanked for a job well done, never given any positive feedback, recognition or encouragement.
This leaves you feeling demotivated, confused, insecure and unhappy. You have no idea what this person really expects of you or wants from you.
Surely you must be doing something right, some of the time? If only you had more feedback about what that was – you could do more of that and you would both be in a happier place.
We often treat our dogs this way, only focusing or providing feedback on the “wrong” behaviour and neglecting to provide feedback and encouragement for the “right” behaviour.
Rewarding, reinforcing and encouraging a dog for whatever they are doing right is an effective, scientifically proven way to communicate, teach, create trust, build confidence, security and build a strong bond in a positive, force-free way.
Just like us, when a dog does something that results in something good happening, they’re far more likely to keep repeating that behaviour.
Reinforcement or rewards don’t always have to be food or treats – it all depends on what that particular dog finds more rewarding – lots of praise, a favourite toy, playing a game or anything else a dog really enjoys can be rewarding.
Keep telling your dog when they get it right and very soon, they will be doing less of the wrong thing and more of the right thing.
Stop focusing on the unwanted behaviour and communicate to your dog that they are getting it right by rewarding the behaviour you are looking for.