05/12/2022
This pretty much sums up how I feel about dog training
I train my dogs to be disobedient.
By that, I mean:
-Nine times out of ten, when I ask my dogs to do something, I do just that. I ask, I don’t tell. If they don’t do it, they’re giving me information as to why. Perhaps my dog isn’t sitting because the environment is too distracting, maybe my dog isn’t jumping because her leg hurts, maybe they aren’t doing perfect loose lead walking because they’re afraid of something and want to move away from it. Perfect obedience removes a level of communication, and I want my dogs to feel comfortable saying “I’m struggling with that request,” instead of just obeying.
-I want my dogs to be free-thinkers. I want their training to be habitual, not always prompted. Many dog trainers want to control their dog’s every movement, but I want my guys to have more freedom, I want to trust them to make good decisions instead of micromanaging everything. Through positive reinforcement of those good decisions, such as disengaging from something exciting, checking in with me on walks and applying their impulse control by not chasing everything that moves, they are more likely to make those same good decisions in the future.
-I actively encourage my dogs to be “naughty”. Or, as I see it, adventurous. I teach them how to swim so they can go wading through streams, I show them how to climb trees, to jump on benches, to crawl over furniture. I encourage hole digging, rolling in the grass, ripping up cardboard, howling sessions and ingenious ways of stealing treats. I want them to be confident, intelligent and innovative in their thinking.
-My dogs are allowed to tell me what to do, to make decisions and to tell me off. They can request a play or training session, they can choose where to go on walks, they can tell me if they don’t want me to move them when they’re sleepy, if they don’t want to be picked up, if they aren’t feeling up for a walk today. They’re allowed their own opinions, and those opinions are valid.
When you share your life with a dog, there are two individuals in that relationship. Your dog shouldn’t have to do exactly what you say and cater to your every whim, regardless of how they’re feeling. And vice versa. Dog ownership should be symbiotic, allowing dog and owner to be their best selves.
So many people think that we need to exert control over our dogs, but good training is all about providing freedoms.