07/07/2025
In the last few years, I’ve learned just how fragile life really is.
I’ve said goodbye far too soon — to two of my children, to my dad, and to a spouse who lost his battle with su***de. I’ve watched beloved horses pass on after giving them a second chance through rescue. And each loss has chipped away at the life I once knew.
But it didn’t break me completely.
It grew me. It made me learn to love more fiercely, live more intentionally, and not waste time on the trivial.
Yes, I still wish life had been a bit easier. That I hadn’t had to carry these kinds of goodbyes. But I’m also thankful — thankful for the lessons that grief and loss have taught me.
To show up.
To make a difference.
To love harder.
To live louder.
To not wait.
I’ve been in therapy. I’ve cried, mourned, talked through the darkest days. And I’ve learned that healing doesn’t mean forgetting — it means learning to keep going. You will get stronger. You will make it through.
And sometimes, healing looks like digging your hands in fresh dirt.
Letting the sun warm your skin.
Spending time with animals who ask nothing of you but presence.
That’s how our farm came to life.
It started as a space for our children. For our family. For myself. And then it became more. A way to honor Cassie’s memory. A way to give other kids and families the same healing we found in this place.
The care farm wasn’t built overnight. It was built through heartbreak and hope. Through nature and nurture. Through every hard lesson life handed us.
Because animals, gardening, farming, and nature do heal — and now we offer that to others walking their own hard roads.
If you’re in a season of loss: I see you. Keep going. Let the earth, the animals, the sun, and your people hold you.
You will make it through.
And you just might grow in the most unexpected ways. 🌱
If this message touched you… if you’ve walked through grief, or love animals, or simply believe in the healing power of nature — we invite you to be part of Cassie’s Care Farm.
This sanctuary was born from pain but built with purpose — to help others heal, connect, and find hope again.
Whether you support us by visiting, donating, volunteering, or just sharing our story — you’re helping us keep going.
You’re helping us show up for the next child, the next family, the next soul that needs a reminder:
You’re not alone. Healing is possible. And there’s a place for you here.
💚 Come grow with us. Come heal with us. Come be part of the difference.