So let’s use this video as a teachable moment…what the @_(%($& happened?
First, you should know a few things about Reed:
1. He LIVES for shredding cardboard and I regularly give him boxes filled with kibble and toys to “open”. It’s enrichment for a dog who needs activities but is limited due to his heart condition.
2. He gets VERY worked up when the other dogs bark, especially if the continuously bark. Normally I curb this kind of activity, but it can be hard to do that when I’m not home.
3. Reed also gets worked up when deliveries come to the house. He loves meeting people and I think it’s the fact that people come up to the door and then walk away without saying hi, that frustrates him the most. If I could let him meet every delivery person, I totally would, but again if I’m not home for the delivery, I can’t do anything.
4. He was crated. I don’t know if I didn’t latch it properly, or if he just managed to push on the door until it popped. I’m not sure because some dog ate the cable to the living room camera (Reed) while I was out mowing a couple weeks ago.
Okay, so what led up to the destruction and what did he destroy? From what I could gather from the other cameras and the number of packages on my porch…I had at least 6 different deliveries on Tuesday while I was at work. For some reason, a few of the deliver people knocked on the door when they dropped their package off. (I hate this and don’t understand why they do this) Knocking on the door is going to make the dogs bark, which is good. I want anyone coming to my front door to know that I have large dogs in my home. I think that’s with every knock, delivery, and barking episode, Reed got more and more frustrated, which isn’t good for his heart. And considering what the frustration could have done to him, I will gladly take destruction of property versus coming home and finding him dead.
For the most part, he really only destroyed the cardboard packaging of fur
My dogs aren’t perfect, and here’s proof. We had just finished a mini-session where Kane was doing sits and downs from about 10 feet away. Then, I grabbed my camera as a neighbor started mowing...and we lost all ability to do what he had just done perfectly 🤦🏼♀️ Practice (and patience) will make perfect…eventually 😂
Sophie has been with me since the end of September. We stopped taking walks when they started stressing her out and she would redirect on my ankles, grabbing and pulling. We focused on other issues she had going on. Recently, through the help of a friend and wonderful dog trainer, I realized she was ready to try again. I realized I was ready to trust all the hard work we’ve been doing. I also realized how important it is to reach out when you feel “stuck” with your dog. So, if you feel stuck with your dog, or your not sure which way to turn for help, know that you are not alone. Even professionals need guidance and support from time to time. Let me know how I can help you!
A month ago these two never even saw each other, but each knew there was dog on the other side of the barrier. Sophie needed a lot of time to decompress, and honestly, she’s still decompressing. She’s learning how to be a dog, how stop and think before reacting, and that humans can be trusted.
A month ago, Sophie would grab my ankles when she got frustrated. A month ago she needed quite time, in a safe room. A month ago I would have never thought that I’d be comfortable working with her without a barrier between us, let alone sitting next to her on the floor or couch. She doesn’t always want physical contact, and even when she thinks she does, she’ll often change her mind and leave you wanting more.
It’s only been a month, and she still has a lot of learning left to do, and will probably always need a home that is patient and willing to go at her speed. But when you take on a dog who comes from a questionable background, you never stop learning…about them, about how to help them, and how to keep both of you growing. We truly do not deserve dogs, but I’m sure glad we have them. ❤️