02/21/2024
The Prince of Wales taught me to look for the beauty buried deep within the beast...
With some loving, knowledgeable commitment, Charlie proved that sometimes, we just need that second chance. Many times during his reschooling, I could be heard to mutter my well-worn mantra, "Love and rules! Love and rules! Love and rules!"
Charlie also taught me about the bitter pill of buyer’s remorse.
Together, we learned that after the ‘honeymoon period’ is over, you will have to chunk your big dreams down into tiny baby steps. You will have to start over and over, how ever many times it takes. You will have to find satisfaction in the smallest of victories, trusting that one day, it will all be worth it in the end.
The 13:2 pony was so keen, so lovely to look at… but also, so reactive and so lacking in courage. We'd make progress, only to see it dashed upon the rocks, like waves hitting the shoreline. But now I’m getting ahead of myself.
This is the story of how Charlie and I crossed paths.
I’d been looking for a ‘medium’ pony—which is code for 13:2 hands—for the entire winter, some nine or ten years ago. A project that was either unhandled or newly started, one that I could bring along in my program and market in the hunter, eventing or dressage pony world. So, it needed eye appeal, correct movement and conformation and it needed to be in the right price range.
As always, I was looking to make a silk purse out of a sow’s ear.
An ad came up online. From a hunter-jumper barn about four hours’ drive away, it showed a lovely pony being ridden by a small adult over some cross rails. He looked a bit high-headed perhaps but he stopped me from mindlessly scrolling through hundreds of listed horses. It was a good sign.
Though he was not papered, of “unknown Welsh breeding”, the pony was just the right size. He was about six years old and a pretty cream-coloured palomino. He was nice and thick, to take an adult's leg. He had great bone and a natural forwardness. What was not to love?! I made the call.
During our initial visit, the seller mentioned that he would be sold 'as is', without a riding trial. I asked for video of him on the lunge and received thirty seconds of an obese pony, huffing and puffing on a circle, in a dimly-lit arena. I have no idea why, but I made arrangements to go and see him. I took the trailer. Due to the price, I didn't even bother having him vetted.
I was going wholly off a hunch.
My first glimpse of Charlie was memorable, in that he was ungroomed and standing with his head buried in a round bale feeder back of the arena, well out of sight. Clearly, he was not the barn favourite. There was no fanfare, no ‘ta-da!’ moment when the young manager led me out to his pen.
“Here he is,” she said. “He’s spun off my last lesson kid. I’m done with him. Take him, or leave him… that is, if you can catch him.”
With that, her phone rang and she walked off and left me, already disinterested in what was going on. It was a weird situation, having driven all this way and then, nothing. Left entirely to my own devices, this was the polar opposite of a slick sales pitch. All the while I was standing there, a ginger tomcat wove his way in and out of my legs.
I peered in at the fat pony, who looked dangerously close to laminitic. His bare crest bulged up where once there had been a mane. Before he’d rubbed it out on the round bale feeder, that is. There were no other horses in sight.
I tried to attract the pony's interest with a friendly voice but he neatly avoided any interaction, moving over to the far side of the big hay bale. I tried several times to join him but the thick mud and manure in the pen sucked at my boots. I couldn’t seem to get on the same side of the feeder, as the palomino pony.
I was making further inroads with the barn cat.
I went back to find the manager and ask if she had a halter. Without pausing her phone call, she motioned with her head in the direction of a row of hooks in the aisleway. I chose a likely fit and grabbed a few cookies from the tackroom of my trailer. Back I went, into battle.
After a four-hour drive, I was prepared to wear the little character down with relentless kindness.
Eventually, he took a cookie and I turned around and walked away from him, before he could make any move to do the same. This interested him enough, twice more, that I was able to reach out and scratch him on the side of the neck. Soon, he was all mine.
I led the pony without incident from the pen to the barn, got the manager’s attention long enough to say that I’d take him.
“I hope you can get him loaded,” was her only comment. I smiled and said that I’d hold off paying for him until he was on the trailer and then, I asked her to do the job. Rising valiantly to my challenge, the young pro did her darnedest to get that pony to step in through the open door but he was having none of it.
Just when it was looking as though I was going home empty, the ginger tom appeared from nowhere and jumped into the trailer.
In a flash, the pony pinned his ears and leapt in after him. The cat zig-zagged off again, like lightning, the lead rope was thrown up over the pony’s back and I slammed the door. We’d work on the niceties of trailer loading when I got him home. I reached into my pocket for the agreed-upon little roll of cash, in exchange for a handwritten bill of sale. I had my new project pony and away we went.
Looking back, I have no idea why I even went to see Charlie, in the first place. I can only sheepishly wonder what force had me purchase him. There was only a little voice inside my head that said he needed me.
"Cream-coloured ponies and crisp apple strudels, these are a few of my favourite things..."
I began to sing loudly on the long drive home. As the miles rolled by, I made plans. For some strange reason, I felt happy, though long experience was telling me that it would be ages before Charlie would proudly wear my brand.
We went through all the usual steps of restarting a problem horse or pony. Going right back to the very beginning, the palomino’s journey was made longer due to his condition, or lack thereof.
I'd been warned. He could shy in a heartbeat, spinning around so fast and often, right overtop of you if you were unlucky enough to be standing beside him. Charlie was also far too wide to be carrying any of my saddles, so I went to work with him on my lunge line, instead.
We spent weeks ground driving all over the ranch, where I could send Charlie boldly on ahead of me, telling him that I believed that he could be brave. Once he'd the idea in his head, he began to turn his life around, becoming all that I imagined, and more.
I do remember that I’d been riding him for nearly a year, before I could persuade him to canter. He seemed afraid of what he might do, if ever he got into third gear!
Like the ugly duckling, Charlie became svelte and very elegant. I rode him for another year with my own mentor, working the flag and then cattle. He gained a beautifully soft feel in the bridle and an understanding of lateral work. His confidence grew and grew. Charlie became a star on the trails and to build his resume, I loaned him to a local trainer with a great youth program. It takes a village and they provided his entry into a new world.
Charlie had a natural flair over fences, with tons of style and beautiful knees. He was just ‘looky’ enough to have presence, a good thing, as he was going to be a star.
He went to a few local hunter-jumper shows with the kids, something that I couldn't offer him here on the ranch. Our pony improved with every class and he soon caught the eye of a family who was looking for that special pony for their daughter. It was a wonderful home and a perfect match for Charlie.
The Prince of Wales never once looked back, nor let his people down. He went on become the Pony Club’s provincial champion in dressage, as well as a regular winner over fences. Charlie served with distinction at home, too, carrying his little girl out beside her father while he rode out to check their herd of cows. Finally, he had it all.
Sadly, children grow and ponies stay the same size. Charlie is now serving a petite senior rider in the US, though, a lovely lady who is also a Keystone follower. I’m so happy that I get to hear how he is doing. Pictures show that he is loved and cared for, like the treasure he truly is.
I can only look back at Charlie’s journey with pride and fondness. I’m glad I listened to the little voice inside my head… that long ago day I drove for hours, just to see a naughty pony in a muddy pen.
Photo: Sue Smith.