07/28/2024
Random thought of the day on navigating behaviors that are the result of personality traits: This dog is high-drive and persistent. And it drives me nuts sometimes. It's the reason she was rehomed to begin with. But is "training" her to act calmly constructive or beneficial (to her)? Or does it just mask her personality to make her more palatable to others?
Certainly, there's a threshold at which a behavior can become detrimental to the individual's quality of life (especially if crossing that threshold results in losing one's home), and in some cases, redirecting those traits into a more controlled or constructive behavioral output is necessary for safety...
But perhaps we humans can find ways to expand our definition of "acceptable" behavior. In my case, if I "train" Maggie to be "calm" (void of behaviors) and "entertain herself" (become asocial), she is no longer the amazingly connected, interactive, and athletic dog that she is naturally. And that is ultimately a disservice to both of us.
So, long story short, I need to meet her where she is. Embrace what makes her uniquely her. Even if that challenges me to expand my version of what I think a dog "should" be.
Just like I try to do with my children. 😉