11/24/2025
Have you ever felt like time is just flying by?
And then someone asks, “What did you do Tuesday? Or last Wednesday? Or a month ago?”
…and you come up blank.
People usually shrug and say, “Time flies when you’re having fun.”
But is that actually true?
I think time flies the most when we’re bored—
when we’re not fully present, not making memories, just going through the motions.
Wake up. Work. Scroll. Repeat.
Your brain is awake, but your life is on autopilot.
There’s a reason we say “making” memories and not “having” memories.
Memories take intention. They take attention.
Sure, the brain catalogs everything—but unless it’s meaningful, it gets tossed into that giant mental junk drawer labeled “just another day.”
Trying to retrieve those moments later is like trying to find that one cat video you swiped past too fast—good luck digging it back out of the algorithm.
So when someone says “time flies when you’re having fun,” they’re sort of joking.
Time doesn’t fly when you’re having fun.
When you’re having fun, time feels full, thick, slow, rich.
You remember it.
Time flies when you’re not having fun—
when nothing stands out enough to anchor your mind to the moment.
If you want your days to feel unique…
If you want your life to feel long, full, and lived…
If you want November 24, 2025 to get its own little file instead of disappearing into the folder that just says “my life”…
You have to make memories.
You have to notice.
Reach for the small moments.
Pay attention to the things that make today different from every other Tuesday in your life.
No, this doesn’t mean every day has to be bungee jumping or life-or-death excitement.
But every day has something unique in it—
a conversation, a person, a laugh, a color in the sky, a thought, a choice.
Some weeks will still blur together, and that’s okay.
Boredom isn’t fatal.
But a mundane life—a life where every year looks exactly like the last—that’s a choice.
So the next time someone says,
“Time flies when you’re having fun,”
you might gently correct them:
Time flies when you’re going through the motions.
When you’re truly having fun… time stands still.