
04/07/2025
SOME POOCHES DON’T LIKE SMOOCHES!
Many of us, myself included, enjoy hugging and kissing our dogs. After all, it’s how we as people show our love, devotion, affection, provide comfort and it makes us feel good - but dogs are not people and we often mistakenly just assume that they enjoy it as much as we do and that they understand what we are trying to communicate.
Some dogs may enjoy being hugged and kissed, some dogs have learnt over time to tolerate it, but there are many dogs that show clear body language signs of stress that often go completely unnoticed.
The terminology used to describe the discomfort a dog feels when being hugged is sometimes called restraint sensitivity. Many dogs feel stressed and anxious because it restricts their movement and they feel trapped.
These feelings are linked to the fight or flight response because being physically restrained by hugs or kisses can feel threatening.
Many dogs prefer the affection of gentle stroking, tummy or ear rubs or massage.
It’s so important to be aware of how our dogs are feeling by learning basic body language.
It’s one of the only ways that our dogs can communicate and we owe it to them to understand their language.
Respect a dog’s personal space. Provide a choice. Seek consent. This is what builds relationship and trust.
Save your smooches for the people in your life that enjoy them!