06/27/2025
THIS IS REAL.
Time to "Feel the Feels". Please stay with me as I share this heartfelt post.
Mikayla Raines, founder of Save a Fox rescue, took her life last week. According to her husband, she was overwhelmed by cyberbullying.
I can wholeheartedly relate to this. People can be so incredibly mean. Over the 17 years I've run Spirit Horse, I've been falsely accused of so many things - by people I've never even met, people who don't know me at all, other people in horse rescue .... too many to list, really.
Why? I don't know. People advise me to "consider the source", and "ignore it, they're just jealous", "grow a thicker skin", "know that people who really know you know the truth". That last one is a lot of "knowing".
What to do about it? You can choose to: a) take the high road and ignore it, or b) try to counter the accusations with the truth...I've tried both and the first is incredibly difficult for me, while the second rarely works...it just gets uglier and uglier.
When I scrutinize every single post I make to look for possible ways it can be criticized ... that's exhausting.
Truth is, even a pin cushion has limits to the number of pins it can hold. Then what? Burn out - quit - escape permanently?
Finally, WHAT HELPS? Believe it or not, every kind comment, reaction, and share acts as an antidote to the negative stuff. It confirms that I'm on the right track and most people TRULY do know and appreciate that.
Rescue is fulfilling, heart-warming, wonderful, exhausting, devastating, and soul-crushing.
Please consider what you might be doing to celebrate the highs and elevate the lows.
Thank you from the bottom of my heart.
RIP Mikayla. May your loss not be in vain 🩵