01/21/2024
A picture is worth a thousand words. This picture makes me think, laughter, love happy, kind, loyal, sweet, stinky, hound, genuine. It also makes me think, grief, sorrow, loss, heartache, pain, sadness. Losing a “heart pet” is something that is impossible to wrap your head around. It’s hard to put into words how it feels to say goodbye and know that familiar stink will soon fade. Those barks become a distant memory. The truth is, there is no way to cope with the loss of any loved one, people or pets. We feel our grief, we move on and try to hold those memories close. Charlie Woofus was just a dog. A dog who’s life revolved around all things mom- me, and telling dad about his day, and watching out for the kids and always telling everyone about it to the point your ears ring. He woke up today happy, yelling at me about his chicken and rice, I went to work and he came in for a bath with Mike. He was a goofball rolling all over the floor, yelling at the other dogs. He was perfectly Charlie, until he was not. I write this post to let all of you that have suffered the loss of a pet, friend, family, a love. These lives matter, and bring so many emotions that will last a lifetime. We deserve to feel, love, laugh, and care so much it hurts. As I look back at this picture, I think those are not just words, they are memories. Moments in time that can’t be given back, yet are with us always. This picture is a thousand memories. Today my heart breaks, but as each day continues I will laugh, and smile thinking about moments like this one. When he stole the rocks from Nora’s rock stew, when got himself stuck in the greenhouse, when he would lay on Z like he was her baby, when he disappeared in the blizzard snow drifts, when he would run from nail trims, tell me about the ups man, the Amazon man, really about everything, when we sat on the lakeshore watching the bald eagles feast, when he finally got on the couch after a year of not because of his back and the kids were hamming out and he was at peace. I am so grateful for the love my Charlie Woofus gave to me and my family. Rest easy best boy. ❤️