11/24/2024
There is NO instant gratification in horses.
If you are looking for that, please pick another sport.
Please don't look at what I am doing, and think that you are going to get here without putting in the 35+ years that I have put in. It just isn't going to happen.
There are NO shortcuts.
Believe me, if there were, wouldn't I have tried them myself?
This advice will NOT be popular with those who want it RIGHT NOW, but nevertheless, here goes---
If the goal is to become two things, a good rider and a good horseman/horsewoman, be willing to think in decades rather than in years.
That first decade, from whatever age you began, will take you only so far, and may even take you to the Olympics, but riding skill alone won’t give you all you need to know and be able to do. The next couple of decades will let three components, your physical skills, your control over your emotions and your knowledge, all intertwined to complement one another.
That’s why many of the best riders and trainers are in their 40s, 50s and in some cases in their 60s, even 70s. They didn’t get those tens of thousands of hours overnight.
There are ever so many riders and trainers who gave up too soon. They just needed to have hung in there another ten years, maybe twenty. Which sounds insane, but actually isn’t.